My past friends were pathetic, so I told them they were shit and I'm happy.

 

Ive cut off quite a lot of people like this, its got to be done if they dont get the hint that youre trying to ignore them (Some people are ridiculous!)

 

argh this is random

 

 

but this thread is about friendships.....and I've been realising again recently that I am just a lonely girl who wants a real friend and love....damn....friendships suck

 

Cheer up pup! No need to panic, the more you do, the more of a problem it will seem to yourself and others around you.

Ouch. :(

 

Well, on the bright side at least you know there's trouble so you can at least try, or leave, or end it somehow.

 

It's better than having a once best friend fall out of touch, say she'll call you or write you and never do it, act awkward whenever she sees you in public, and yet still insist you're good friends. I think there's a grudge involved, but if there is I'm being given silent treatment and she'll never fess up. I don't know what I did wrong or if I did anything wrong and yet I'm supposed to figure it out.

oooh I am so emo....blaa:freak:

 

I am not emo...I'm just rather sick of someone's behaviour who calls herself your best-friend....that's all.

 

to quote Hyacinth House:

 

"I need someone who doesn't need me"

can't stop thinking of this line although it's such a simple line

I'm just digging through old threads.

 

I'm feelings somewhat depressed today.

 

I'm kind of scared about the thoughts going through my head today.

*Hugs Chosen One* :sad:

I'm just digging through old threads.

 

I'm feelings somewhat depressed today.

 

I'm kind of scared about the thoughts going through my head today.

:hug:

any luck with sorting out the shit that's going on ?

Its funny because this thread is over a year old. And still stuff with the same person.

 

And other stuff. I probably just look like a big attention whore right now.

 

@Emma Maybe a little progress....but I don't know..

fuck it, be an attention whore... i don't care.

well, some progress is better than none...? :\

I told the people I'm not mad at them, and that I want to still be friends and talk things over.

 

There has just been alot of drama with a camp I worked at the past 4 years. I didn't get on staff this year and don't understand. I'm pretty hurt.....and just feel kind of useless right now.

you shouldn't look too much into things regarding the whole summer camp thing,

and you should definitely not feel that you're useless, :wtf:

sorry to hear about that briggs... hope that it turns out all for the best.

God, I love that song.

Fuck I didn't see the rest of your posts, that sucks, I know you like your camp, so I'm very sorry. :hug:

Yeah, its really been my second home, I've spent months and months of my life there. Its pretty rough, all I got was a generic and cold "dear applicant, we are sorry the position has been filled" e-mail.

They hired 2 new people over me who are way younger, and one of them didn't even fill out an application and is a big flirt.

 

And also my sister who worked there the past 2 summers also was rejected. We seriously have no clue what is up.

 

I know I shouldn't doubt my character, but I really am now.

I know I shouldn't doubt my character, but I really am now.

 

I'm sorry to hear about everything, I wasn't joking about the Chosen One Hug I just didn't know what to say as I didn't know what you were talking about.

 

If you know you shouldn't doubt your character then don't, you're just feeling bad right now, and I hope you feel better Briggs.

Yeah, its really been my second home, I've spent months and months of my life there. Its pretty rough, all I got was a generic and cold "dear applicant, we are sorry the position has been filled" e-mail.

They hired 2 new people over me who are way younger, and one of them didn't even fill out an application and is a big flirt.

 

And also my sister who worked there the past 2 summers also was rejected. We seriously have no clue what is up.

 

I know I shouldn't doubt my character, but I really am now.

 

That's bullshit, you're a nice guy, I mean if you are nice online it says a lot about you :P

 

:hug: That sucks anyway, was there, like, new management at the camp or something?

^Yeah. Its at a Christian camp. The new management is pretty conservative. I just don't know what is happening.

 

Thanks for the kind words everyone.

 

I guess i'm doubting my character because of this, and based on some things friends have said about me lately.

 

 

Okay I'm rambling here. But out of curiosity: how do you show people that you respect them? and value them? and care about them?

^Yeah. Its at a Christian camp. The new management is pretty conservative. I just don't know what is happening.

 

Thanks for the kind words everyone.

 

I guess i'm doubting my character because of this, and based on some things friends have said about me lately.

 

 

Okay I'm rambling here. But out of curiosity: how do you show people that you respect them? and value them? and care about them?

But out of curiosity: how do you show people that you respect them? and value them? and care about them?

 

Tell them you respect, value and care about them.

i think the most important thing is to be vocal with the person and let them know how you feel.

 

I know for me there were times that there was a lot of tension because I wasn't vocal and of course the other person didn't know how I felt.

^Yeah. Its at a Christian camp. The new management is pretty conservative. I just don't know what is happening.

 

Thanks for the kind words everyone.

 

I guess i'm doubting my character because of this, and based on some things friends have said about me lately.

 

 

Okay I'm rambling here. But out of curiosity: how do you show people that you respect them? and value them? and care about them?

 

Oh, Jesus. The Christians. :rolleyes:

 

How to show people I respect them... god, I'm bad at that. If it's an adult I make a big point of listening to what they say and thinking about it before talking (that's more of a "jesus I hope I don't look retarded in front of this adult I respect" thing, tho) and... if it's someone my age... I don't know. It's just sort of understood I think. >.>

Yeah its the people my age I'm trying to figure out. I was told by a close friend she doesn't feel I respect her. Its a WTF moment for me.

Yeah its the people my age I'm trying to figure out. I was told by a close friend she doesn't feel I respect her. Its a WTF moment for me.

 

Ooh. That's bad.

 

Apologize profusely and just say sincerely that you do value her, that's all I can say. That would be most effective on me, certainly.