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Once upon a time, there was a man who was very

attracted to a particular woman.


At first, she was just another attractive

woman... but the more he got to know her, the more

he began to feel attracted to her... and the more

time he spent with her, the more that attraction

grew into a deep emotional attachment and

affection for her.


But, there was one problem.


As his emotional attachment grew stronger and

stronger, he also grew more and more insecure.




Because he couldn't tell whether or not she

felt the same way towards him.


Sometimes, she would say things like, "You are

so important to me" and "I'm glad that you're in

my life"... but nothing ever progressed past the

"friendship" stage.


There was an occasional hug, an occasional kiss

on the cheek from her... and once, she even held

his hand for a long time while he talked about an

emotional issue.


But, something was wrong with the picture.


She just wasn't acting like a woman that was

"falling in love". She was acting like a friend.


The insecurity that he felt became a spiral

that amplified itself... and the more insecure he

became, the more afraid he grew of "screwing

things up" by kissing her or asking her to be his



Plus, the more insecure he became, the less

time she seemed to want to spend with him.


After spending many days and nights obsessing

over this girl, the man finally arrived at the

conclusion that, if she only knew how HE FELT, she

would feel the same way.


So, he made a bold move.


He TOLD HER how he felt.


He confessed that he was in love and that he

would do anything to be with her.


She looked at him with compassion in her eyes

and said, "Thank you... I really mean that... but

I don't want to mess up our friendship... you're

too important to me...."


This only confused the man more.


He didn't know how to take it...


Did it mean that she really loved him too, but

that she was afraid of something?


Did it mean that she wasn't ready for a long

term relationship?


Did it mean that she didn't love him, but that

she was trying to give him a hint?


Did it mean that he hadn't tried hard enough?


Did it mean that he needed to put everything on

the line and REALLY let her know how he felt?


He finally decided that he couldn't go on like

this anymore... he had to be with her.


He had to make sure that she knew just how much

he wanted to be with her... so, he took a big step

- He bought her a symbolic gift and wrote her a

long, long letter... again confessing his



And then, the unthinkable happened.


She didn't reply.


He called her three times a day for almost a

week before reaching her.


She made an excuse about being very busy and

said, "I'll try to give you a call soon, I have to

go"... and hung up...


but... he never got a call back.


Over the following months the man tried

desperately to understand what went wrong... and

what happened.

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