But if you're okay now and your dad accepted your choices since he's your dad and he loves you and wants you to be happy, then there's nothing to really freak out about there. If you're freaking out about growing up and all the responsibilities that go with it, yeah its scary, but the rewards are worth it. It takes time to get used to it all and many, many people feel the same way, and you don;t just turn into an adult overnight, enjoy your youth because you only have it once!

 

i totally agree what you said... being adult is scary. well, really scary actually for me.. it seems like i wanna go back to my childhood again, although im too late :(

 

well, having fun being youth is a good idea though.. i hope i can have a good try for that :cool:

 

and yes, i definitely freak out with my attitude changes day by day.. it seems like im always changed everyday..

 

yeah.. hopefully he loves me forever and ever.. we havent met for almost a year though.. i really cant wait for going back to my country in august :bigcry:, but big thanks from your supporting advice, i totally appreciate that :)

 

i think that everyone freaks out about getting older. i mean right now i am considering i'm about to graduate and am scared as hell to get a job, and know that my life is going to change. even though it's extremely scary, at the same time i know there's nothing i can do about it.

 

I wish you the best w/ your current situation. I'm sure in the end it'll turn out fine.

 

thanks so much for your support.. yeah, i do agree that getting older is really tough.. i mean its tough to face life if we are getting older.. *hopefully you get what i mean :P*

 

take a deep breath and count to 10, like what Jack Shephard from Lost does.

 

who's Jack Shephard? I have no idea about him or her!? nah, jk :P

 

but well, seriously.. who is he? a comedian? :wink3:

 

okay.. breathe iiiiiiinnnnn... breathe ouuuuuuutt.... fushhhhhh :rolleyes:

 

DONE :D :P

Im sorry bout you and your mom and dad being ill. :/

 

...And Believe me I get that this sucks and all.... but in all brutaly honesty... i really dont see how this is big enough of a deal that you had to post a thread freaking out about it

 

I have crap to deal with too, but I keep them to myself. I guess after what Ive seen done and experianced... this sort of thing really doesnt phase me anymore

...believe me, even as i write this.. i can hear what an unempathetic asshole i sound like.. but as I read what you wrote all i can thing about is how fucking lucky you are to have not one but TWO parents who love you

And your going to college

and your studying abroad (if i understood correctly)

and your going to go to a Uni?

 

holy shit, the things id sacrafice for one of those things.....

 

 

Count your blessings dear

thats what I do

 

Everything's Not Lost

who's Jack Shephard? I have no idea about him or her!? nah, jk :P

 

but well, seriously.. who is he? a comedian? :wink3:

 

okay.. breathe iiiiiiinnnnn... breathe ouuuuuuutt.... fushhhhhh :rolleyes:

 

DONE :D :P

 

he's a character in the TV series, Lost.

a hottie and one of the leading characters in the show. :lol:

 

i hope things will get better for you soon. :wacko:

it will, if you believe it.

Yet another clichéd way to gain attention.

you made a thread begging for attention, people aren't exactly going out of their way to ask 'wtf?'.

Exactly what I meant by my point, fucking hell.

 

Overall, you are pretty much an adult by now and you should start getting used to situations and difficulties like these and mature from them, you haven't seen anything in real life yet.

 

I wish you the best and remember that the most important is not what makes you weak, it's what makes you strong.

i terribly sad right now..i dont know what to do... i have a plan to go back to my hometown later in august.. but now the situation is really sucks.. i cant believe that its kinda hard to learn to be an adult.. im 17 and i think im still acting like a kid.. :bigcry:

 

I'm 16 and I act emotionally like a big baby, guess I'm screwed then. Joy!

Im sorry bout you and your mom and dad being ill. :/

 

...And Believe me I get that this sucks and all.... but in all brutaly honesty... i really dont see how this is big enough of a deal that you had to post a thread freaking out about it

 

I have crap to deal with too, but I keep them to myself. I guess after what Ive seen done and experianced... this sort of thing really doesnt phase me anymore

...believe me, even as i write this.. i can hear what an unempathetic asshole i sound like.. but as I read what you wrote all i can thing about is how fucking lucky you are to have not one but TWO parents who love you

And your going to college

and your studying abroad (if i understood correctly)

and your going to go to a Uni?

 

holy shit, the things id sacrafice for one of those things.....

 

 

Count your blessings dear

thats what I do

 

Everything's Not Lost

 

he's a character in the TV series, Lost.

a hottie and one of the leading characters in the show. :lol:

 

i hope things will get better for you soon. :wacko:

it will, if you believe it.

 

Exactly what I meant by my point, fucking hell.

 

Overall, you are pretty much an adult by now and you should start getting used to situations and difficulties like these and mature from them, you haven't seen anything in real life yet.

 

I wish you the best and remember that the most important is not what makes you weak, it's what makes you strong.

 

I'm 16 and I act emotionally like a big baby, guess I'm screwed then. Joy!

 

Thanks so much for supporting me guys.. :hug: i'm so glad that you guys have a minute to read my problems in this thread, and making me smile again. all the best for you guys too.. i hope the best for all of us here :)

 

anyways, i'm okay now.. after facing that small problem which seemed difficult to solve.. well, sometimes it would be too hard to think about.. but i dont want to be harsh.. what i mean is i dont want make problems harder and harder.. i hope, again, i will be able to face my future patiently. ;)