musiclover Posted December 2, 2003 Share Posted December 2, 2003 awwww well tell him you love him and that you want him to stop drinking if he wants to be with you...or something to that effect. i dunno. like any other bad habit, it has to come from within, in final analysis, if it's gonna work. I mean, the person by himself/herself needs to realize what harm it's doing to them, and then start to change that bad habit. You wanting them to change can only go so far. It's the same with most other issues: being morbidly obese (fat), or even slightly fat; the smoking habit; drinking problem; drugs abuse; not having good work ethic, etc etc.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sweet One Posted December 2, 2003 Share Posted December 2, 2003 yeah, you're right....but i don't want to "be" with him and i'm pretty sure he doesn't want to be with me!! LOL!..he's my best friend. I've known him since Junior Kindergarten... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
musiclover Posted December 2, 2003 Share Posted December 2, 2003 oh it's that way! i see. well, even then, being best friend might work even more in this case. you can get all his close friends together and then surprise him and corner him in one room and then demand that he stop abusing alcohol!! :confused: btw, no replies from you in my inbox! :P Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sweet One Posted December 2, 2003 Share Posted December 2, 2003 hahaha.. a mini intervention a la Seinfeld would do him good, i'm sure. :lol: i'll reply as soon as i can buddy! :) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kohlman003 Posted December 2, 2003 Share Posted December 2, 2003 I think it's healthy to pound a few brews on the weekend, but it shouldn't go any farther than that. You can't force someone to stop drinking though, it's not that easy Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sweet One Posted December 2, 2003 Share Posted December 2, 2003 Yeah..and he's really stubborn too... :stunned: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
babylon bebop Posted December 2, 2003 Share Posted December 2, 2003 hey laura, just tell him the only way to stay ultimate is to be moderate....even though that totally contradicts itself. i have a group of friends that drink A LOT, and its funny because i dont drink at all but if apple juice was alcoholic id be F*CKED UP all the time! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sweet One Posted December 2, 2003 Share Posted December 2, 2003 hey laura, just tell him the only way to stay ultimate is to be moderate....even though that totally contradicts itself. i have a group of friends that drink A LOT, and its funny because i dont drink at all but if apple juice was alcoholic id be F*CKED UP all the time! Andrew, i talked to him last night and he's like.. "yeah, now that school's over, i'm gonna party HARDCORE!!" and i actually said.."don't you party enough? You're already the ULTIMATE partier!"..hahahaha :lol: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
babylon bebop Posted December 2, 2003 Share Posted December 2, 2003 lol, do this, ask him how many drinks he plans to have between now and when you visit for christmas, and say for every drink you didnt have, i wont pummel you Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
musiclover Posted December 2, 2003 Share Posted December 2, 2003 lmao hey...got the message.....i was just being facitious! :P and OMG @ you knowing about that Seinfeld episode! lmao Do I see a Seinfeld fan in here or what!!? :D :cool: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sweet One Posted December 2, 2003 Share Posted December 2, 2003 :lol: :lol: :lol: hahaha..that's an interesting way of going about things..hahaha I just know he'll go INSANE-O at the annual new years party...last year..he's the one who took off his pants...i had to put them back on in front of everyone..now that's embarrassing. :rolleyes: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
musiclover Posted December 2, 2003 Share Posted December 2, 2003 now that shows you're a really best friend!! but yeahh...embarrasing, nonetheless! :dozey: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
babylon bebop Posted December 2, 2003 Share Posted December 2, 2003 he's the one who took off his pants...i had to put them back on in front of everyone..now that's embarrassing. ROFL!! man he shouldve gotten you tons of presents after that one! youre such a good friend Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sweet One Posted December 2, 2003 Share Posted December 2, 2003 hahaha..yeah, i'm a great best friend to him! LOL!! His ex-girlfriend hates me though... :rolleyes: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
babylon bebop Posted December 2, 2003 Share Posted December 2, 2003 why because youre so much cooler than her? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sweet One Posted December 2, 2003 Share Posted December 2, 2003 precisely... :lol: also because she had some weird idea that me and sean were "having an affair"..hahaha..she actually used those words...crazy lady :dozey: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MrsBerry Posted December 2, 2003 Share Posted December 2, 2003 1 - Blood Mary 2 - Baileys 3 - Beer I'm brazilian, but I don't drink "cachaça". Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
musiclover Posted December 2, 2003 Share Posted December 2, 2003 hey that's really selfless of you, specially when someone hates you for being nice! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
babylon bebop Posted December 2, 2003 Share Posted December 2, 2003 also because she had some weird idea that me and sean were "having an affair".. lol, guess hes not that lucky, you should cut out a picture of you and glue it onto a picture with him and make it look real sloppy and fake and send it to her :idea2: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sweet One Posted December 2, 2003 Share Posted December 2, 2003 :lol: :lol: I do have pictures of us together already..hahaha..i should send one and be like...OH YEAH!! hahaha :lol: She'll go all insane on me and you won't be hearing from me! :lol: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
babylon bebop Posted December 2, 2003 Share Posted December 2, 2003 :stunned: wow, psycho yes? how long have they been together? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sweet One Posted December 2, 2003 Share Posted December 2, 2003 They're not together anymore..they were...um..they were dating for like 3 months... :) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
babylon bebop Posted December 3, 2003 Share Posted December 3, 2003 DUH! which is probably why you wrote 'ex'-girlfriend :freak: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sweet One Posted December 3, 2003 Share Posted December 3, 2003 :lol: DUH!! hahahaha Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
musiclover Posted December 3, 2003 Share Posted December 3, 2003 you're really hungry now...i can sense it! :sneaky: :lol: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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