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coldplay released a music video with no sound and it's better than all their other ones. lololololol

Encores are too mainstream. Second encores are where it's at.

Yeah cuz :hug: = hugs. But not like I can give you a real hug, so :hug:

Personally, I don't need more than a week, but I'd sort of rather have a little longer, and I'm sure a few others would too. :shrug: We'll see.

I don't think you were wasting anyone's time, I think Reilly was just pointing out that you were really distraught, which you definitely were. :shrug: I hope you've gotten better too :sad:

Can I say I'm kind of glad the sign-ups are due so much sooner than they have been in the past? It's nicer to get these off the ground sooner rather than later. :nice:

it's already today? ffff I meant to celebrate it this year fff

The Lounge's obsession with days I don't even bro

a few months already? brah. brah. my life is whizzing past me at the speed of light. sign me up broski. classical music time go.

yayyyyyyyyyyyyyy You're going to be fine. Everyone has crises. It's fine. I promise.

Violet, shh. Just sleep. If you can't sleep, and staring at the wall until you do wouldn't help (which it doesn't sound like it would), do something repetitive until you can. (Cleaning? as an example.)

All right. Then my advice is this: you're not in a state to fix anything right now, so wait it out until you're tired enough to sleep and deal with it in the morning. (Or the next day, or the day after that... if you can't handle it in the morning, that's fine.) You'll be less unbalanced then and more capable of thinking rationally; it might not seem like that now but trust me, it's usually the best thing to do. Try to chill as much as you can (even if you can't) and just go to bed as soon as possible. Yes. Please, like I said, chill as much as you can and just go to bed. It does wonders, I swear.

Coldplaying is so weird jesus christ I mean I'm glad you're happy but the amount of hook-ups that have resulted from this site is getting instane, instane I say

Okay okay okay okay please calm down. "Normal human being" is a concept you have to throw out the window. If you want to change your life to be like other people, good, but do it for yourself and to make you happy. Don't just think your life is wrong because it's not "normal". Don't do things for other people, do them for you. I've been saying this but I honestly think you have to feel better about yourself and be happier with yourself before you can have a stable relationship with someone. But you also can't try to do that just to get in a relationship either, because then you're not doing it for yourself, you know? Please just take some deep breaths and maybe lie in bed for a little while and try to find your center, or stay calm, or whatever. You won't be happy with life or any relationships ever if you aren't happy with yourself, which you should be, because you're a good person who does good things.

You know this seems like such an obvious question after you read it but this is such a good way to give advice without leaning either way. I need to remember this yo.

AGH Violet, stop this now! "Without ugly people, you wouldn't have pretty people"?? Bullshit. If you (think you) are ugly, it's not a big fucking deal. Most people aren't that pretty. In the long run it doesn't actually matter. Don't take that attitude. It's not like if your face looks like x the only way to come to terms with it is it makes people realize how much nicer face y is. That's such an unhealthy relationship to have with yourself. You have to accept yourself before others can accept you. You may think you accept yourself, but you can't take an attitude like that. You really honest-to-god can't. It not only makes you unhappy, it leaks into other people and it's just aughghghg. :sad:

Exactly, this is what I think. At a certain point you just have to come to terms with your life and accept every part of it and just do what you want, and things fall in place from there. I mean maybe that's sort of a fairy-tale idea but it's better than running around trying really hard at stuff you're failing at... (Not just relationships. Life in general.)

No, no no! that's exactly what I mean when I say that weird people (or non-pretty, or whatever, it doesn't matter) end up finding people. Or what I meant was, I guess love comes from unexpected places. I meant you go through your life thinking "UGH UGH nobody likes me this will never work out nothing will ever happen with my lifeee ugh nooo" but then you just meet somebody and they take a fancy to you and it just... works out. But you can't go running everywhere begging for it. I don't know if this makes sense. I guess I don't really know, but this is just the impression I've gotten from observation... D: My English teacher told us once about an old friend of his named Tom and once they were at the mall and Tom started freaking out about this ugly old dude sitting on a bench, and he was really curmudgeonly and unpleasant, but Tom was totes camotes obsessed by him and almost asked him out on a date until he realized he was straight (wups). I mean, semi-unrelated story, but it's just an example...

Have you tried letting them come to you? :shrug: Sometimes people just have to relax and let things happen to them, if that makes sense. I dunno. I don't really think I agree; sure, some guys are, but definitely not all of them... except a lot of them are gay :cry: or HAVE GIRLFRIENDS :bigcry: WAH WAH WAH

:nice: Indian jazz fusion cures all ills when you're bored with music. You could try going out of your way to listen to non-Western music in general, I think. Listen to Chinese folk music. It's totally great. We have some old records of a bunch of old-fashioned farmer-type Chinese musicians in this village or something and they're just so good.

true fact. Everyone has different tastes. It may seem weird or even totally redonkous that somebody would want to be with you (for whatever reasons) but trust me when I say I've seen some pretty weird people (like a lot weirder than you, bro) get together with somebody and be totally fulfilled and happy with each other. Please don't give up. :sad:

I mean if you're only going to like one Radiohead song that's a damn good choice

yeah me too. I love me some far away trains passing by. :wink:

What the fuck is your deal?

Yeah yeah okay everyone I get it, I just forgot about it and rediscovered it a day ago, I'll bring it back already :(