ok ok ok...well...wer do i start...uuuh...

 

ok, thers this girl (Angela) and she's a major druggy, she goes to my school and really...REALLY hates me. in fact, she even told me that if she had a gun and could shoot anyone she wanted, she'd shoot me or my mom (my mom cus i dont have a dad...she said she wants to make my life hell b4 i die :( ) i've never had anyone hate me so much b4...and one of my best friends (Amber) has been hanging around her everyday now...not saying a word to us...i mean, we've been friends since grade 6 and now i feel like she's totally turned her back on me...she even started to do drugs a few weeks ago...weed and meth. i broke down cryn' at school when i saw her. i really dont know what to do....i tried asking her if she dus it to get her to fess up, but she lied to me...someone PLEASE help me out :cry: this is really gettin out of hand...

 

 

thanks a million...

 

Sara :( :bigcry:

:stunned: Did you do anything to this Angela girl to make her hate you? :thinking: If not I'd say it's down to jealousy :idea2:

 

I really dunno what to say because that's pretty serious... I suppose you should talk to your friend again and just ask her why she's hanging out with Angela and how she could be friends with someone who you obviously don't get on with, if she's meant to be one of your best friends. Tell her it's not cool and why is she taking drugs? I dunno.... I wouldn't corner her because she'd probably just end up getting annoyed with you :confused:

omg, im so sorry sara, that's terrible..that girls crazy! you should let someone know that she has a gun cos things could go out of hand, and if she's doing drugs ever worse..

Sara! You poor girl, get on msn :(

 

I dont know what to advise you here, obviously you cant hang around with your old best friend. People change! I know, its truely terrible but I had a best friend once for like 7 years I knew him so well and we had the exact same sense of humour and everyone confused us with eachother and then one day we both leave school and hes on the other end of the planet.

 

...Not completely turned his back, but totally, just changed.

 

Im so sorry for you!

oh sorry, she doesnt have a gun but if she had.. wow, scary stuff.. she's nuts but even so, it would be wise to let someone know about this

:stunned: Did you do anything to this Angela girl to make her hate you? :thinking: If not I'd say it's down to jealousy :idea2:

 

I really dunno what to say because that's pretty serious... I suppose you should talk to your friend again and just ask her why she's hanging out with Angela and how she could be friends with someone who you obviously don't get on with, if she's meant to be one of your best friends. Tell her it's not cool and why is she taking drugs? I dunno.... I wouldn't corner her because she'd probably just end up getting annoyed with you :confused:

 

well not that i can think of :/ ...and y would she b jealous of me?! (rofl)

 

i've asked her...she just totally went crazy on me and said "WTF SARA?! DO U XPECT ME TO HANG AROUND U 24/7?!...." she'd just go on and on...its like angela brainwashed her or something :S ...i dont know why she's doin drugs now...think angela pressured her into it...

Well that's usually why alot of people "seem" to dislike each other if there's no real reason for it :/

 

Have your other friends asked her why aswell? :/

yep...same answer

:confused: I don't think you guys can change her mind then :confused: All you can do is hope she comes around and realises how ridiculous she's being and how you guys are better friends to her than ms.junkie :/

I hope everything goes alright :)

Sara! You poor girl, get on msn :(

 

I dont know what to advise you here, obviously you cant hang around with your old best friend. People change! I know, its truely terrible but I had a best friend once for like 7 years I knew him so well and we had the exact same sense of humour and everyone confused us with eachother and then one day we both leave school and hes on the other end of the planet.

 

...Not completely turned his back, but totally, just changed.

 

Im so sorry for you!

 

i know they change, i just dont want her to throw her life away!!! it hurts... :( ...i dunno what to doo

thanks reilly :kiss:

but...but...BUT THATS GUNNA B FOREVERRRRRRRRR :bigcry:

what if she gets into really dangerous things?! :o

what if she ends up on the streets?!

 

thanks tho...i could really use any advise

Well she has parents?

If she gets into more dangerous stuff, hopefully they'll spot it and she might listen to them :/

well yeah, but then again if ur a parent, how can y NOT see that ur child is hi everytime she comes home from school!? :/

oy...i hate teenage drama...thats for sure :/

oy...i hate teenage drama...thats for sure :/

 

It will pass dont worry. Just dont let her get to you and make sure you dont provoke her ..dont sink to her level.

 

As for your friend you could try talking to her(im sure you have tried..but do it again and agian).Shes messing up her life :angry: ..i am sure she knows this but she has to change before she completely destroys herself.

i hope it will all be brighter next week...loosin a friend is not easy but it's how u respond to it wt matters right now...and in my opinion dont give up on helpin ur friend even tho she makes it soo hard on u....it is this time when she needs u most...but she doesn't realize it now...so support her...try ur best and never give up and be strong...we all hope u the best...plus i'll pray for u....good luck

:) thank you! and i wont give up at all...and i'll listen to all of u...more advise is always welcome :)

 

thanks for the advise johnny_t :)

...arg, i dont know what to dooo!

 

i asked her again, y she hangs out w/ angela...same answer!!!...i told her how dangerous drugs can b...but she totally blanked me out :cry: i've seen her do it, yet she lies to me and says "No i didn't do drugs." in such a way tha its easy to see she did...SHE WONT LISTEN TO ME

 

 

what do i dooo?! :huh: :( :confused: :/

 

 

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