In fact I have a question:

Which is the best way to call the attention of the people but do not making it so obvious?

Alfie, I kinda mean more for the internal, and not how they show their emotions to others. Its included though, yeah, but at the end of the day its inside a persons mind that really counts, because its all we have left when everything else is removed.

In fact I have a question:

Which is the best way to call the attention of the people but do not making it so obvious?

 

Well just make sure its a good friend. You cant go blabbing it around a bunch of semi-strangers and demanding some sort of response.

 

If you talk to a friend about it calmly, and bring it up as a topic instead of trying to slip it into conversation, that should work. Sorry, I just dont understand why it cant be obvious.

 

If you have to be subtle about it, try and bring up a related topic and head towards what you want to talk about, and see if they get there first.

I do not want to call people attention,(well not as much as you could believe),just I try to figure out,how sometime we are ok and we suggestions ourself to recieve attention.

 

Internal thoughts and internal balance are the most important,but honestly we act different when we are alone than when we are with other people.And even worse when we are with people we know

I dont mean being angry, more like being depressed or sad. Frustration and temperment comes into that, but I'm thinking more of just day-to-day feelings.

 

Y'know, some people take bad news and wallow in their own filth for weeks, other people are stronger and pick themselves up the next morning.

 

I'm a bit more like the former.

 

i would like to consider myself as the person who picks themselves up the next morning. if something happens i just take a step back and think yep ok this has happened, what can i do about it, is it really worth the pain etc and i just deal with it. its probably the reason why i cant hold grudges for long or spend weeks wallowing over something trivial.

Quite; I'm not a cryer at a film, but sometimes I can get emotional because of music.

Well' date=' the difference is that I don't hide it in public. I can't hide it - everyone can see immediately that I'm sad or pissed.[/quote']

 

so effing true. i am exactly like that. i can't hide my emotions at alll. it's terrible... i'm so emotionally sensitive/weak... :disappointed:

id consider myself very emotionally strong...i tend to shut out most things and or repress them letting very little emotion in at all making what i have easy to control

no... not the least bit..

but I tend to hide it fairly well and just the people who really know me see it when I'm not ok...

Nothing can really get me down.

 

Whatever happens, I just keep going, I guess I'm one of those people that when the time comes will fall harder.

Nothing can really get me down.

 

Whatever happens, I just keep going, I guess I'm one of those people that when the time comes will fall harder.

 

 

Thats awesome. I wish i was like that.

Is that healthy though?

 

I'm not saying it isnt, but when I see people like that, friends and such, its like they are missing out on a world of emotions. It seems kindof robotic.

 

I hate being down, but although its hard to say this in a time when I'm feeling depressed, I'd much rather have huge ups and devastating downs then a life full of average normality.

 

As a young teen I actually used to be really good at dealing with emotions, to the point where things never really affected me. And looking back on it, I dont remember much at all from these years. I remember an emotional childhood, and the past 3 or 4 years or being tortured by love (Or "love") but those middle years, are pretty blurry. Its as if from the ages of 12-14ish, nothing happened, and maybe thats true as I didnt really grow much as a person, I just got on with life contently and pleasantly, no extremes.

 

 

I will for sure, spare the details of a twisted life. But I will say, that for every individual there is a special way dealing with things. And if your way happens to be: DON'T deal ...then that is it.

 

I am not like that. It would seem like a real confusing thing (what I wrote) .

 

I keep things to myself for the majority of the time. There is no sense in sharing bad times with people if ultimately, they can't do anything about it but listen.

I don't care to burden people. If I need to sort things, I just write it down, or think to myself.

 

I think, if fact, that this is a strength ... to be able to deal and sort things on your own. I mean, soon I will move out and not have the same close "friends" I had before...and I will HAVE to deal on my own. Not even have that option of an ear of consolation!

 

And I have no worries. Because I have that ability to deal on my own. And like, NOT crash and burn.

Hmm, it depends with me. For the most part, I guess I am, but for other things, I'm not that strong.

I think I'm not emotionally strong in most cases, 'cos I feel quite insecure and weak. Anyway, I don't used to show my emotions (the bad ones), 'cos I prefer to keep them to myself and cry alone than... showing to others how I really feel. I'd be ashamed of myself if I'd do it.

 

You could see me and think that I'm kinda okay but in fact I'm not... :\

I also think about my problems, but with some of them its hard to come to a conclusion.

 

Lately I'm so confused, and when I come to an answer, it changes 10minutes later. Gets me down.

I don´t think I´m emotionally strong, I used to be, but now even the smallest thing can get me down if I´m in a bad day, but hide it and nobody can notice how I´m feeling except for the people who really know me.

 

I think it´s not healthy to repress your feeling cause one day you´re gonna explode and it´ll be worse.