Last night I was crying in my bed from 12 am till about... 3 am. I won't speak about the reasons and all here, it doesn't matter. It's just a fact that I couldn't stop, I couldn't even take a breath. I was crying, shivering and even howling. I always sleep in my headphones, listening to music, so when I was lying on my back my tears were coming from my eyes to my ears so my headphones got wet, but I didn't care. My mom was sleeping in her room a few metres from me, but it was like the whole world vanished for me, there was only me. And my thoughts.

 

It's actually scary a bit. I mean, I had a normal, usual day. I cleaned my teeth, washed my face, turned off the light, got in my bed and instead of falling asleep I starte crying like a psycho. I wonder how many tears I have, I was crying for such a long time. I was blinking so hard that my head started aching, huh.

 

Now I'm having my morning coffee, I feel myself like I always do, not more upset or whatever than always. If my head didn't ache I could say that nothing reminds me of my hysterics. It started unexpectedly and it ended unexpectedly.

 

So, what I wanna know is have you ever had hysterics? Something like what I described above? I'm just wondering if it's normal for human or not. Thanks.

I'm so sorry to hear that val, but you're not alone there , it happened the same to me like a million of times, i too go to sleep listening music and been in the same situation for diff problems that affected me but i tried to avoid.. i mean it usually happens when you act like 2 different ppl, know what i mean? The one everyone can see, never crying or emotional , always calmed and kinda confident, and the other who is the real you terrible affected by the problems you have to deal with and when you are alone you just break down in tears and sob like you're totally alone and when you're listening music in the darkness of your room is even more surealistic but its good somehow cos you let those feelings out like all your bad feelings leave your body through your tears but yet you feel hollow somehow, or at least that's how it was for me. In any case, i hope you're feeling better now hun and whatever the problem is, there's always a solution. *hugs*

Just recently I've been sleeping with my earphones on and actually last night, I wasn't sleepy but I had to sleep anyway. So I closed my eyes to the music I was playing and tears just started flowing down my face and I wondered why? to myself since I wasn't sad that day and maybe the song was, but I couldn't tell why I would cry. It wasn't sobbing or anything, but just tears seemed to keeping rolling down my cheek. I don't know how to explain it...maybe there is a sadness in me...I just don't know what I'm sad about.

heh, well hope you feel better (:

For some reason I feel the need to cry a lot,like when I was a kid and I cry and I could not stop.

 

People could think is not normal,but for me is like a need.

 

Sorry to hear that you feel bad and confused.

First of all, I'm sorry you feel that way. To be honest, I'm feeling exactly the same way at the moment. In several moments during the day, I have to start crying with no reason, and I feel down and devastated all the time.. If I'd knew how to help you, I'd tell you - because I desperately need a solution as well!

Well......I never cried for 3 hours (excpet when I was a little child...) but I know these situations....especially in my current life...some years ago I even wouldn't have cried when i was alone....I don't know...I didn't want to do this...but since maybe 2 or 3 years I let my feelings control myself when I am alone....

Yesterday I was just before doing this again....but maybe the feelings were not strong enough so I didn't cry.....

I'm at a point again in my life where I am a bit desperate and a bit depressive...I hate that.......I think it is because I am on holidays...it is boring...and so I have enough time to think about some thnigs....

I hope this will stop soon..... and i know if I would go to a party this evening I would feel better...ehhe...

 

All i can say to you lera is that this is human.....if there is someone in this world who never even feels like that....then it is not normal....some people are more emotional (or let their emotions out) and others are not...

Yeep, been there.

I don't cry often but when i cry..i really cry. Like some mad person. I just can't stop it. Sometimes it's hard to even breath

 

When it comes i'm usually listening to music. Couple of days ago i was reading this book and listening to Sigur Rós at the same time. The book was very sad so i cried while reading it and i couldn't sleep during the whole night.

I was very confused because the music i heard was beautiful but the book was so sad and i really didn't know was i crying because of the book or because of the music.

 

At the same time it's so depressing but also refreshing!

 

Hope you're doing better

Huh. Thanks, people, but I'm really fine. I mean, that's the point - I feel normal, like nothing happened. And, to be honest, the reason of my hysterics was a bit weird and pointless. I believe I just had too much oxygen cocktail yesterday :shy:

Well......I never cried for 3 hours (excpet when I was a little child...) but I know these situations....especially in my current life...some years ago I even wouldn't have cried when i was alone....I don't know...I didn't want to do this...but since maybe 2 or 3 years I let my feelings control myself when I am alone....

Yesterday I was just before doing this again....but maybe the feelings were not strong enough so I didn't cry.....

I'm at a point again in my life where I am a bit desperate and a bit depressive...I hate that.......I think it is because I am on holidays...it is boring...and so I have enough time to think about some thnigs....

I hope this will stop soon..... and i know if I would go to a party this evening I would feel better...ehhe...

ditto

see, we're way too lonely :cry:

i used to cry like every single night a while ago.

i had my reasons though...

I just cried an hour ago. I haven't been very happy the past couple of days. I guess when I bottle up all of my feelings any little thing can trigger crying. Like today, my mom tried to help me with my hair and i didn't like it so I started bawling like a baby.

i cry A LOT in my bed at night, even if i had a very normal day. sometimes i wonder is it coz i'm too tired. mom used to tell me that a lot.

but sometimes songs makes me cry a lot, [now that is normal] the 1st time i heard "in the sun" by michael stipe & coldplay, ,and it made me cry so hard, i still tear a bit now when i hear it.

oh, there's a bunch of other songs that make me cry sometimes when i put my headphones b4 i sleep, there's "trouble, nightswimming [R.E.M.], gravity, careful where u stand... etc"

aw, Lera, that's so sad. I'm sorry for you, really, I hope your troubles will be solved soon! :kiss: And in my opinion, what happened to you is human.

 

Yes, I had hysterics but not too often, fortunately. The last time I cried so hard was about a month ago or so but in those moments I didn't even know the reasons of my sadness. I remember myself crying laying on my bed and I didn't see the end of it, even my heart and throat ached. I don't know how many time I spent crying, maybe 1hour... but 3 hours is such a long time! :embarassed:

 

Ah, and I agree with sth that Julia said: when you've a lot of free time for thinking... this may happen more frequently, I guess.

 

 

 

wt songs make u cry?

For you and Gravity are terribles...specially the first one.

What songs make me cry?

The scientist :(

I just cried an hour ago. I haven't been very happy the past couple of days. I guess when I bottle up all of my feelings any little thing can trigger crying. Like today' date=' my mom tried to help me with my hair and i didn't like it so I started bawling like a baby.[/quote']

 

whats wrong best friend?:cry:

the very first time i heard Fix You ... it was such a beautiful experience and it made me cry ...

at that time my life was just going down the drain and the lyrics summed up my feelings so well. awww ---

basically ALL coldplay songs make me cry...

even Politik... when Chris is begging for love ... fuck. perhaps i'm too sensetive for music :(

whats wrong best friend?:cry:

 

 

I've been sad all WEEK. But your avi cheered me up a little :wink3: .

I've been sad all WEEK. But your avi cheered me up a little :wink3: .

 

just thought it was time for a change:D

Oooh.....this thread just suits me this weekend....

 

I was quite in a baaaad mood yesterday......I went in the living room and there were my sister's and my mum......I just said that I didn't want to get up that early this morning (had to work this morning) and that I need to get some rest......my sister started talking shit like "Uhoh....you didn't HAVE TO choose a work like that if you don't want to go there....blablablabla...." immediately....my mood was depressive and bad and then her stupid comments......I didn't need that....she didn't stop with that and I became aggressive.....I coulödn't control myself anymore....screamed as loud as I could in her face and was out of control....my mum wanted to stop us but after some seconds I stopped myself....

my sister said that I am a dramam queen and stuff like that...after that she went out and I started crying....I couldn't stop anymore....first my mum started to blame me because of the trouble....because i becvame aggressive....but I explained to her that it was not only because of my sister....that it was because of so many things...usually I do not talk about my problems....but here couldn#t control that...because I had to cry so much....

 

after all I went to my room and cried and cried...and couldn't stop anymore....I think i cried for about an hour....today my eyes feel as if I didn#t sleep for some days....I can't even open them correctly....

 

 

I hate that about my sister...she always acts as if she never was emotional.....as if she always was happy....but inside she isn't .....and if I show my real feelings...when I'm depressed or somethnig like that she calls me a drama queen...I so much hate that....

 

 

 

 

yes.......

i'm a pretty emotional person but i never cry for no reason. i have to be really sad or completely shocked by something, overwhelmed with happiness, hurt or feeling helpless to shed tears.

 

the downside is when i finally do cry, it's like all the tears for everything i've been holding back see it as their one opportunity to escape and i'm crying uncontrollably for an hour straight. i end up with a headache and a desperate need to lie down and escape to sleep.

i think crying is one of the most healthiest way to express your emotions. i'd find it a little odd if anyone went a year without shedding a tear.

 

crying is human, it's also the ultimate way of letting yourself know that someone is bothering you or that you feel more deeply about something than you thought. i think it's sort of an indication to confront something.

 

i have cried uncontrollably once. i was talking to a close friend of mine on msn, and we went from hey, how are you?:) to oh my gosh, what a horrible person i am:bigcry: etc lol however, it did open my eyes to a few things.

i'm a pretty emotional person but i never cry for no reason. i have to be really sad or completely shocked by something, overwhelmed with happiness, hurt or feeling helpless to shed tears.

 

the downside is when i finally do cry, it's like all the tears for everything i've been holding back see it as their one opportunity to escape and i'm crying uncontrollably for an hour straight. i end up with a headache and a desperate need to lie down and escape to sleep.

i think crying is one of the most healthiest way to express your emotions. i'd find it a little odd if anyone went a year without shedding a tear.

 

crying is human, it's also the ultimate way of letting yourself know that someone is bothering you or that you feel more deeply about something than you thought. i think it's sort of an indication to confront something.

 

i have cried uncontrollably once. i was talking to a close friend of mine on msn, and we went from hey, how are you?:) to oh my gosh, what a horrible person i am:bigcry: etc lol however, it did open my eyes to a few things.

 

aww.......I agree with you...

I think hysterics, while they may seem too unitary and too random (most times they come out of NOFREAKINGWHERE) are natural and needed.

 

I can't think of a more healty release than laughing and crying.

 

They are very powerful displayed senitments.

 

I can almost think that if you don't cry once in a while... . you are a stone.

 

 

There may not be a need, or a reason... .. Just maybe, your body needed the cry/hysteric and only your body could have known and not "you".

 

 

so cry on little Lera.

 

I think crying hysterics and mad-like screaming hysterics are good for you.

I think hysterics, while they may seem too unitary and too random (most times they come out of NOFREAKINGWHERE) are natural and needed.

 

I can't think of a more healty release than laughing and crying.

 

They are very powerful displayed senitments.

 

I can almost think that if you don't cry once in a while... . you are a stone.

 

 

There may not be a need, or a reason... .. Just maybe, your body needed the cry/hysteric and only your body could have known and not "you".

 

 

so cry on little Lera.

 

I think crying hysterics and mad-like screaming hysterics are good for you.

 

 

I agree. As long as it doesnt happen everyday i think its healthy.

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of course. If you have daily hysterics...well, there's no need to say anything else but:

 

NOT normal.

 

And another thing. It's NOT normal for kids/toddlers to have daily hysteric either.

 

bad parenting.

hmmm... went through this again last night.

it's just that ... i hate the night. it's the end of the day, you're all lonely, no one's there and you start to think. you think about everything. your fears and the future.

that's what happened to me last night.

i was listening to music and suddnely started crying. i haven't cried that hard in ... years! yes, really. it was pretty weird.

the only thought that crossed my mind the whole time was:"i can't do this any longer. i cannot stand this life anymore." it was horrible. i was scared. i scared myself.