erm....what does it have to do with the internet...?:thinking:

I haven't been on here that much the last days...

(psst! that's because he's netacholic :rolleyes: )

^haha......:nice:

good point Myrrho...

erm....what does it have to do with the internet...?:thinking:

I haven't been on here that much the last days...

 

I haven't been on the interweb that much during the last days either, so I'm a bit slow on current events.

oh, Julia :(

is it only you who is "against" your sister or is your whole family claiming that she's making mistakes?

uuhhh, just don't let it take you down.

it's not worth it.

(me neither :cry: )

oh' date=' Julia :([/color']

is it only you who is "against" your sister or is your whole family claiming that she's making mistakes?

uuhhh, just don't let it take you down.

it's not worth it.

 

 

Oh well Grace...

 

Our whole family sees where the problem is...but she somehow does not want to see this....and this is driving me mad...

Does your sister live with you?

Good question Sam...(oh you changed your name hehe...)

 

Because usually she lives in a city which is some km away from here and she only comes home at the weekends....

but now she is on holidays for two weeks....

 

so she already had 3 days of holidays....and at 2 days we had big big trouble...:confused:

 

oh...oh....

 

when she is not at home during the week......we do not have a lot trouble ehre...only the usual mother/father-daughter trouble.....but not as bad as this...

Well, you can always know that you are loved here. :kiss:

 

Everybody has been through tough times and you'll get through it eventually. I know it isn't as easy as that but try to keep up some good spirits.

Awww...thanks Sam:kiss:

 

I mean...today i already feel better....nah it is like everytime..I have big trouble with her..and the next morning she acts as if nothing happened...and I know if I say something wrong today...everything will start new...so I feel good now...until I say something wrong hehe...

mmm i'm trying not to post much here but i'll make this post an exception.

i see what you mean jules, my older brother is the exact same. he's 25 this year and he still lives here with us. all the big arguments start between him, and then end up between my parents. then my other brother would come in to stop my parents, and then i would have to come in to stop everyone else. when we ask him to stop his ways, and stop wasting his life, cancelling work basically everyday, doing pot everynight, then coming home at 3am, 4am, and he would shout like a mad person. and when you asked him to change his ways, he would get so angry, that there's been several times where he's punched holes in the walls. he's broken 4 doors in the house, broken the front window, just he can be a really horrible person. the police had come to our house 3 times, to do with charges people had put on him, and i know that feeling of feeling so drained, and stressed. i'm not going to go into detail about everything here, but this is ust the basic gist. my friends also were not there for me when i needed them most, during this time, and it just made me see things in a whole new light.

 

so basically the point of my rambling, is that:

at the end of they day, you gotta be able to find strength inside yourself. it can be difficult i know, but the one person you can rely on, is yourself. there is noone else in the world that you can really look at and say "they will be there for you no matter what". if your sister continues this and you get these depressive moments, the best thing is to look to yourself for strength. or even look to your little sister. you seem to have a good relationship with her, and even if you don't want to necesarilly talk about it, she may appreciate it, because she may feel the same strains on herself, as you do. or maybe spend more time with her just taking time out together. because i don't think other people around you would understand, unless they are directly affected aswell. maybe your mum could be someone you could talk to more. but for me, i know it wasn't really a great thing to talk to my mum about this all because she was too stressed and anxious about it all, herself.

 

hope everything clears up :nice:

Oh Bonnie......I see what you mean..ok my sister doesn't get violent like your brother did...this is tough...

 

Yeah..I could talk to my mum...and i also talked to her...because she feels just like me...

 

and about my little sister...you are right about that....she somehow helps me...because I'm happy that I have her....and if it is only some crazy things we do together...I'm so glad to have her around...

 

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hehe I was in a hurry before....

 

I wanted to say..I also see what you mean when you say your brother always shouted immediately...

when I think of a situation today...my sister took some pieces of chocolate...and my mum only said to her in a normal voice..."Don't you think this is a bit much?"...so my sister didn't answer in a normal voice...she shouted something....in the end my mum asked her why she always has to shout...and she just said that we are all against her and that we should stop to comment all the things she does...

but actually she is the one who always has a bad comment for everyone in every situation...

 

this makes me so sad somehow...that you are not allowed to say what you want anymore...

 

another thing is that she is only like that at home..at work or when she is with her friends...she is nice and helpful...the total opposite from what she is like at home...

 

I would say I hate her for that...maybe this sounds tough....but sometimes I really feel like that...

Libel, slander or whatever the correct term is

 

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....

 

What on earth are you insinuating??:stunned:

one of those girls i know was Vicky Coldplay's P.A.

Ok she is there with them for 8 years and everything.

That's fine.

 

But What about the other girl, any way i am not feeling Ok inside still....

 

Some thing is saying to my mind that there's something not alright.

 

People think that i am crazy but i want to know about the other girl...other than Vicky.

^just stop it... please.

 

those rumours are exactly the reason why many celebrities don't want to meet fans or take pictures.

 

so simply stop it, it's so ridiculous :rolleyes: isn't he allowed to have female friends or what? come on. don't make us feel bad about telling the story. it's his private life.

may be it is rumours or what ever,

 

but i'll never stop it because you said.

 

I have to know about it.That's all.

and also because you said that its ridiculous i don't need to get afraid of you,

 

i am asking again who are those girls??????

i am repeating again who are those girls??????

who are those girls?????

pallavi one girl is his new girlfriend. are you happy now?????

and also because you said that its ridiculous i don't need to get afraid of you,

 

i am asking again who are those girls??????

it has been said that one of those two girls is Vicky, the band p.e. :)

pallavi, do whatever you like. but you said you like chris, so i have no idea why you're putting him into such a bad light. it's just sad and i hope he will never read what you're saying. that's it.

 

 

 

just shup up your mouth.And don't think that because you say what ever to me i'll consider it.First of all you stop talk nonsense to me.

there is something between that girls and him i know that!