August 28, 200619 yr Soo, I dont think that I'm the only lesbian here.. or am i? *shocked* :lol: no I wanna look, how many others are here, and maybe we can treat it like a normal subject, i hope so tell me about anything you know, think about it or maybe experiences I'm a lesbian =)
August 28, 200619 yr Author oh ok.... but wouldnt u know ahead of time llike... didnt u feel attarcted to girls, and really not atracted to men i know im not gay because ive never been atracted to another girl and i find men highly attractive so... u dont need to know gay ppl to question your own sexuality.. u can just feel unattracted to ppl of the opposite sex earlyer i also thought that im not gay.. that men are more atracted or do i just think that because in this age you dont know something other? then you think its normal.. a man with a woman. the most of parents (or all?) dont say her children that they are gays.. just if they ask so you dont know the other side... know what i mean? you first have to find it out. and to understand your feelings is not so easy... i find it out because i fall in love with a friend...
August 28, 200619 yr oh ok... i see what u mean kinda like u need to exprience both sides to know what's right for u what happenned with your friend?
August 28, 200619 yr Author I'm a lesbian =) YEAH!!! *adore* im not alone here, Ireentje, Ireentje :D:D
August 28, 200619 yr Yoooouuu are not alone.. Wait, ain't that some gross song by some gross singer? Oh wait, maybe that was Michael Jackson. So, how long have you known and how did you find out?
August 28, 200619 yr Author oh ok... i see what u mean kinda like u need to exprience both sides to know what's right for u what happenned with your friend? yeah exact! what happenned? I fell in love with her... i didnt say her that of corse. i enjoyed each time with her... but it also hurts. and then one time i say to her that im lesbian and for her was that not one minute a problem :D that was great!! but because shes hetero i had to forget my feelings for her. was a hard time but now shes just a friend :) and i know a another, more wonderful girl which is also lesbian ;)
August 28, 200619 yr oh... that's............... intresting it means that u were just one day, out of the blue, attracted to a girl? it's a bit wierd
August 28, 200619 yr Author Yoooouuu are not alone.. Wait, ain't that some gross song by some gross singer? Oh wait, maybe that was Michael Jackson. So, how long have you known and how did you find out? I thought it can be when tatu comes in :lol: but i forgot that soon... and yes a year ago i fell in love with a friend. i posted it and whats with you?
August 28, 200619 yr Author oh... that's............... intresting it means that u were just one day, out of the blue, attracted to a girl? it's a bit wierd nooo not just in one day... first she was just a friend for me.. and with the time i realised that there are more feelings as just a friendship.. that took months
August 28, 200619 yr Author ok... if you fall in love do you realise that in the first moment you meet the person? i dont think so ;)
August 28, 200619 yr no, u dont but i can imagine me suddenly realisin that im attarcted to a male friend of mine but not a female... so how do u go from being straight, to suddenly being attracted to your female friend and it seeming normal to u?
August 28, 200619 yr Author no, u dont but i can imagine me suddenly realisin that im attarcted to a male friend of mine but not a female... so how do u go from being straight, to suddenly being attracted to your female friend and it seeming normal to u? no... from the moment, you realise "it" its like someone took away your sunglasses. and many things in your past have now a reason, you understand? you think: why havent I realise it before? its so clear and easy.." thats the moment you really understand it ;) but i think you never really understand if you arent gay
August 28, 200619 yr Author thank you :D it was a hard time to accept itself... and at most of all to say it the first person and its still not eays to say it friends :(
August 28, 200619 yr i think your true friends should accept u like this if they really love u as a friend and who you're attracted to shouldnt make a difference in their eyes btw, i forgot to ask your name :P
August 28, 200619 yr Great thread, I think it was time for a new one of these ;) The other one kind of faded away, which is a shame! :)
August 28, 200619 yr Author yes i know... but i can say myself tomorrow im going to say it and then i dont do it because im to feary... or there wasnt a good moment to say or each other excuse if you want you will ever find a excuse...
August 28, 200619 yr Author btw' date=' i forgot to ask your name :P[/quote'] its nicole and yours? :D
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