I wanna know if in your life also so much shit happend than in mine.

by me its always so that if I get over one bad thing the next is here... :(

 

Is that the same by you?

 

 

for exemple by me. I've got a halfsister, she lives in Israel and have 2 children. last year we find out that she gots problems with alcohol and drugs. My dad was really down...

then last dezember the mother of my best friend died. that was really hard for her... and her father had at this time a new women :( I dont like him. and my best friend had to go with him a bit far from me...

for a few weeks the father of a friend died, the grandmother of my ex had a apoplexy and his dog died...

and during this time i had to accept that I'm lesbian and and and

hmmm alot of shit happenned in mine too, but id rather not elaborate on them

 

mostly problems with my big brother, he's problematic.

and some health issues in the family, but thank god, nothing too serious. I mean, things all turned out for the best.

i think the worse thing that ever happened to me was losing my 2 uncles in the same hour, yup... that was probably the worse day in my life :cry:

i think a lot of shit happens in everyone's life....and we shouldn't be here talking about all those sad things...it's like: one of my friends died in january and then one of my teachers died some months later and of couse in between i'm dealing with other problems...but thinking that a lot of shit is happening doesn't help...we just have to deal with one problem at a time, and then there are those that can't be solved and stay in your mind forever :cry: but you try not to think about it :(

i think the worse thing that ever happened to me was losing my 2 uncles in the same hour' date=' yup... that was probably the worse day in my life :cry:[/quote']

 

ohh thats really hard

 

i think a lot of shit happens in everyone's life....and we shouldn't be here talking about all those sad things...it's like: one of my friends died in january and then one of my teachers died some months later and of couse in between i'm dealing with other problems...but thinking that a lot of shit is happening doesn't help...we just have to deal with one problem at a time' date=' and then there are those that can't be solved and stay in your mind forever :cry: but you try not to think about it :([/quote']

 

yes sure everyone had to deal with the problems. but you can't just forget the bad things. it's better to talk about and later you maybe can speak about them without pains

i try to ignore all the bad things that happened to me.

it doesn't help talking about them (well, at least in my case).

i can't turn back time... so it doesn't make any sense.

I meand it like: you can't change the things you must do the best with you life

 

ok stupid theard. please forget it

No I don't think it's a stupid thread, it's good that we talk about our problems, and I think everyone has some shit that happened in their life, for example ;

 

* I lost most of my friends without a reason that I still don't know

* I have a disease and wasn't even born with it

* My best friend that I really like is depressed

That I met some damn stupid people when I was maybe 13......yes......wow it has affected me....

^i'm too curious...

No I don't think it's a stupid thread, it's good that we talk about our problems, and I think everyone has some shit that happened in their life, for example ;

 

* I lost most of my friends without a reason that I still don't know

* I have a disease and wasn't even born with it

* My best friend that I really like is depressed

 

 

have you asked them why? :o

I lost a friend cos I told her that I'm lesbian...

but now its all ok with us

^haha....Grace....you want to know why?

 

OK......I've always been a shy person.....so there were some mega cool guys who used to make fun of me because of my look and things like that.....of this little shy and weak girl Julia.....so mainly in my puberty I had biiig problems because of that...I didn't have a lot of self-confidence....didn't go out a lot....and things like that.....I thought if I'd go somewhere....everybody would stare at me and think how bad I look....yes...so I stayed at home....it has been hard for me to get to know new people.....wow....when I think about it...it has been a hard time...

now I'm not really over it.....I mean not fully.....yeah i'm self-confident.....but I still do not have a high opinion about myself....feel bad when I meet new people...have problems to show a guy that I'm interested in him and stuff.....because I still think nobody wants me..in case of love...

 

 

oooooooooh.....a loooooooooooooooooong story actually...;)

oh Julia.

i guess we all feel/felt like that.

but it's jsut because other people make us feel those things.

hmmm I felt same before. but now its also much better ;)

yes, the problem is GO OUT. meet new ppl!!! :)

Yeah,.....actually I know that....but sometimes i think I was extreme...

oh Julia.

i guess we all feel/felt like that.

but it's jsut because other people make us feel those things.

 

I think mostly the shy ppl are here on a forum. in the RL they can't be as open as here and maybe they haven't many friends and so they dunno how to be with other ppl

Well.......I agree half with that statement....I come here because sometimes I am too shy to talk about my problems with my friends...that helps me...

I think mostly the shy ppl are here on a forum. in the RL they can't be as open as here and maybe they haven't many friends and so they dunno how to be with other ppl

 

You make it sound like the board is full of saddos!!:P

Well.......I agree half with that statement....I come here because sometimes I am too shy to talk about my problems with my friends...that helps me...

 

it's about being anonymous on a board where u dont know anyone that helps talking about your problems, because u think that even if the ppl judge u it doesnt matter because they dont truly know you.

and i think on boards u just realise how much we're all alike and how we all have the same problems.

You make it sound like the board is full of saddos!!:P

 

well... 90% of the ppl here do complain about how they're depressed all the time :rolleyes: :dozey:

thats exact that I mean

myself, I can speak much better here in the internet. or with friends in msn

but if you train that you can it also with friends

^I think you are right about the training thing...I mean...since I talk about my problems here I wouldn't see a problem in tlking about it with my friends..

i dont have a problem talking with my really close friends about my problems, but sometimes they're part of the problem

 

and sometimes it's nice to hear someone objective advice you...

friends can never be objective

You make it sound like the board is full of saddos!!:P

 

lol :lol: no!

 

it's about being anonymous on a board where u dont know anyone that helps talking about your problems, because u think that even if the ppl judge u it doesnt matter because they dont truly know you.

and i think on boards u just realise how much we're all alike and how we all have the same problems.

 

yes. It gives safety if you don't know the ppl.

I made itself so that I told it to ppl in gay forums and later to real friends.

in the internet i collected my first experiences and the I knew how could they react in real...

well... 90% of the ppl here do complain about how they're depressed all the time :rolleyes: :dozey:

 

In that case I must be one of the ten per cent!!:smug: