i knew udd say that :P but you can... trust me you can. if the 2 persons love each other very much it'll work. i have so many friends with girlfriends/boyfriends not from the same country and they are together for years now.

i knew udd say that :P but you can... trust me you can. if the 2 persons love each other very much it'll work. i have so many friends with girlfriends/boyfriends not from the same country and they are together for years now.

 

ive never been in love, so i really couldnt say

im happy for you, if u can manage

it just seems kinda impossible for me

 

it feels more like a friend than a lover- like josh said. It means that the intimacy in talking is there, but there cant be physical intimacy... so how is that different from a friend?

its very different :P there's a huuuuuuuuuuuge difference between loving ur friend or loving ur boyfriend/girlfriend.

The difference is that you WANT the physical intimacy to be there.. with a friend you don't have that need...

ive never been in love, so i really couldnt say

im happy for you, if u can manage

it just seems kinda impossible for me

 

it feels more like a friend than a lover- like josh said. It means that the intimacy in talking is there, but there cant be physical intimacy... so how is that different from a friend?

 

It can't work long-term unless one (or both) of the parties is commuting on a regular basis.

Otherwise one party would have to re-locate eventually.

of course there is...

but i see a big part of it as the physical attraction

It can't work long-term unless one (or both) of the parties is commuting on a regular basis.

Otherwise one party would have to re-locate eventually.

 

so you're pretty much saying that long distance relationships where the parties dont see each other at all, or not very often, cant work?

so you're pretty much saying that long distance relationships where the parties dont see each other at all' date=' or not very often, cant work?[/quote']

 

Of course not. It can't be a true relationship. You might just as well have a "virtual" partner!!;)

there's no need to have a relationship with someone that you will never see... i mean if i knew thats the case, i would stick with my girlfriend anymore. it will be unfair to me and especially to her. but seeing each other twice a year or so is enough untill they both talk about their future plans. i know im not living here, and thats a very good thing for me and my girlfriend.

Of course not. It can't be a true relationship. You might just as well have a "virtual" partner!!;)

 

i agree... that's what im saying

 

but will thinks differently. How does that work for you than?

How often do you see your GF? How often do u talk?

talk=everyday

see each other=working on it everyday...

there's no need to have a relationship with someone that you will never see... i mean if i knew thats the case' date=' i would stick with my girlfriend anymore. it will be unfair to me and especially to her. but seeing each other twice a year or so is enough untill they both talk about their future plans. i know im not living here, and thats a very good thing for me and my girlfriend.[/quote']

 

Well there has to at least be some kind of plan - some kind of target for both parties to move towards.

Then you have something to aim for.

i dont see that working- seeing the person you love only once a year

 

i mean, i look at ppl around me who are in love- it's like they cant leave each other alone. Being together almost all the time, thinking about each other.... im not saying that's healthy, but it's commen

especially at my age, i cant imagine a relationship where u hardly ever see the person you're with to be the same

talk=everyday

see each other=working on it everyday...

 

what do you mean?

have u ever met?

i agree... that's what im saying

 

but will thinks differently.

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Well you know what they say....................... "Where there's a Will, there's a way"!!:rolleyes:

its the same with us.. and its harder than you can ever imagine, trust me. but who are you to say no to love when it comes knocking on ur door? even though ur love isnt from here..

i agree... that's what im saying

 

but will thinks differently.

/quote]

 

Well you know what they say....................... "Where there's a Will, there's a way"!!:rolleyes:

 

haha im gonna use that as my motto from now on :cool:

its the same with us.. and its harder than you can ever imagine' date=' trust me. but who are you to say no to love when it comes knocking on ur door? even though ur love isnt from here..[/quote']

 

So how did it come "knocking on your door"??:thinking:

 

haha im gonna use that as my motto from now on :cool:

 

Not a bad idea. You should put it in your sig.;)

its the same with us.. and its harder than you can ever imagine' date=' trust me. but who are you to say no to love when it comes knocking on ur door? even though ur love isnt from here..[/quote']

 

well, it all comes down to the way you feel

but i guess it also depends on the kind of person you are, i could never see myself in the same position. But that's just me

you think its just you. But i bet if something similiar happes to you ull be just like me :P

hello everybody

you think its just you. But i bet if something similiar happes to you ull be just like me :P

 

maybe, although i imagine it something like I would meet someone abroad, maybe fall madly in love.. then i wont see him for a while because ill be back home and it would just fade away

but then again, ive never been in love so i couldnt say

 

hey marek

hi gal :kiss:

hi marek and peng!