YAAHWHAH

 

Im getting a bit sick of this.

 

You should be at least 25 before you start considering something as a boyfriend or girlfriend, and that should be a law.

 

Yeah, I had my first real girlfriend when I was like 15, and since then I've had like 6 or 9 or something stupid, but I was being fucked up. I came to the realisation that we live our lifetimes for like, 60 or 80 years remaining, so why are so many kids dating before they even reach 20? Its fucking fucked up and fuck, fuck it.

 

Spread yourselves around ladies and gentlemen, experience life, and aids.

 

Scratch that last part actually.

hahahaha. nice choice of words, "considering something" :P

 

but yeah i agree, relationships have been very painful for me, so i say fuck it too. fuck!

hahahaha. nice choice of words, "considering something" :P

 

Haha I didnt notice me saying that. Good times.

 

Fucking fuck the fucking fucker.

You should have done it like me, Reillo ;)

 

haha:lol:

 

 

I had a b/f who lasted about 2 hours before I dumped him.

When I was 13 or something I once went on a "date" with my classmate, though it was more a walk but whatever. It was fine but when we were passing over TV-shop I saw that cartoon.... I think it was Loony & Tunes or whatever. And I wanted to stop, stand there and watch it, but I couldn't 'cause I was on a date. And then I thought I'm probably too young for that stuff, watching cartoons is more interesting for me so what the fuck.

reilly is this a big joint thread thing regarding that phone call? :rolleyes:

Haha no siryee Josh, it actually isnt.

 

The phonecall girl I mentioned has never been anything near touching a relationship. Shes a really good friend, not a good girlfriend. Although we do get confused sometimes.

 

Viri, some of my relationships have lasted a pathetic amount of time. I often go through a stage of where I think I really love a girl and would long for her attention, and then it happens, and I'm going out with her, and I realise, I put it all on a pedestool and its not actually as great as it should be.

 

And it ends. Shame. M'eowkay.

ah cool.

 

yet again choice words. "we get confused"

Ive made a topic about it before, what blurs the lines between friends of the opposite sex, and more.

 

I mean it gets confusing, if you have a hot friend whos a chick, and she sometimes see's you in that way, and especially when youre drinking its like; "Well, why the hell not then?"

 

But its been happening a bit too much lately. Our pure friendship deal just aint consistent enough, my fault too.

well i'll be a hopeless romantic, but why can't you have the best of both worlds?

She's got a boyfriend matey.

 

And shes told me that, if I'm ready for a relationship, she'll dump him, but she still feels like she needs a boyfriend in her life. And I'm just thinking, how fucked up is that? Why does a 21 year old girl NEED a boyfriend?!

 

It doesnt actually bother me. I mean, casual sex with a good friend would be a hell of a lot of fun, but the lack of it happening doesnt stir me angry. I still just, dont get the logic.

 

We're all young, lets have fun.

 

Lets use that as an excuse to get nekkid.

You should have done it like me, Reillo ;)

 

haha:lol:

 

 

I had a b/f who lasted about 2 hours before I dumped him.

 

 

been there, done that

 

gross, huh?

 

 

 

I go see a movie at the theatre from time to time. And I see younguns there from like age 7 and up...MAKING OUT.

 

They don't even consider marriage an anything in their life.

So what's the point of dating at that age, before you've knowledge of anything?

 

But what are you gonna do. Except gripe about it. 'Back to the Future' won't mail you it's time machine.... so it's too late for you. And you can't talk sense into a mass of young kids about dating at a reasonable age.

We're all young, lets have fun.

 

Lets use that as an excuse to get nekkid.

 

good idea. :P

yes,you are

Yes.....yes.....so I seem to be on a good way....I almost had a date two weeks ago but the guy didn't come (which was my fault as well....).....it would have been my first date (sounds not normal.....).......so I'm on a good way because I am 19....

so true.

i'm only 15, which means that people at my school are not much older, but they're changing their bfs/gfs like their underwear.

d'uh.

it really should be a law.

dating at the age 20.

lol.

i've seriously started to think about staying a virgin until i marry. :dozey:

i'm not even kidding.

YAAHWHAH

 

Im getting a bit sick of this.

 

You should be at least 25 before you start considering something as a boyfriend or girlfriend, and that should be a law.

 

Yeah, I had my first real girlfriend when I was like 15, and since then I've had like 6 or 9 or something stupid, but I was being fucked up. I came to the realisation that we live our lifetimes for like, 60 or 80 years remaining, so why are so many kids dating before they even reach 20? Its fucking fucked up and fuck, fuck it.

 

Spread yourselves around ladies and gentlemen, experience life, and aids.

 

Scratch that last part actually.

 

you must have been really fucked/drunk/whatever when you wrote that

 

i mean, wtf? it's just stupid

 

we, humans, can't do anything against the "love hormones". the teenage IS about experiences. your first real kiss, your first girl/boyfriend, your first sex...

 

waiting till 25? jeez, it's like listening to Coldplay whole day long

 

at age of 25 people starting to get complexes... you know

I may have been drunk and fucked and whatever, but I certainly still mean it.

 

Theres nothing wrong with being a teen and having kisses and sex and maybe a non serious relationship, but I have a LOT of friends who have been in serious relationships for the past 2 or 3 YEARS, and thats ridiculous.

 

How are you supposed to even know your type if you dont date around?

 

I think its pretty sad when you get guys who seem desperate as hell through their teens and the moment a decent looking girl shows any interest, they grasp onto it pathetically and engage in a shitty relationship in which they become the whipping boy for the rest of their life (And I do mean that, when you've been going out with someone for more then 2 years before the age of 20, there is no way you can possibly go back to leaving them and looking for someone else, you'd be too fragile).

 

Its like being accustomed to a person that you may not even like, you've just become used to.

 

It just seems so incredibly random at this age to be picking life partners. Play the field, try different people, be healthy, dont get caught up in one person because it may just lead to divorce in 7 years.

 

Traditionally its most romantic for 'the one' to be 'my first' and 'my last', but realistically, are they really 'the one' if you havent tried anything else?

 

Its just pathetic.

 

Lets all get naked.

so you basically say change the partner every 2-3 months?

You make it sound so robotic.

 

Its been a long time since I had an actual girlfriend, maybe over a year and a half? Thats crazy talk considering the amount of relationships I put myself through before that.

 

But in this time, 18 months, I've got to know 2 completely different girls very well, and I loved them both. Have I let them go? Should I have held on?

 

Well, I dont feel alone at all, so Im not regretting it. I just think that despite loving them, it still just didnt feel right, the timing most of all, just still didnt seem right to start a real relationship.

 

I met other girls within that time, and theres no way I could have stayed with them for 2 or 3 months. They were all stupid and flakey.

You make it sound so robotic.

 

Its been a long time since I had an actual girlfriend, maybe over a year and a half? Thats crazy talk considering the amount of relationships I put myself through before that.

 

But in this time, 18 months, I've got to know 2 completely different girls very well, and I loved them both. Have I let them go? Should I have held on?

 

Well, I dont feel alone at all, so Im not regretting it. I just think that despite loving them, it still just didnt feel right, the timing most of all, just still didnt seem right to start a real relationship.

 

I met other girls within that time, and theres no way I could have stayed with them for 2 or 3 months. They were all stupid and flakey.

 

i see your point

 

on the other hand there's nothing wrong with long relationships.

 

a friend of mine (16) dating a girl (15) for 2 years, and as far as i see their relationship is strong. and even if it comes to end tomorrow or in 2 years i don't think any of them would regret those 2 years they brought together. it will be hard for them to forget each other quickly, but the experience they've got and lesson that they've learned is much better than just "changing partners". why do you think it will be easy for someone to get a girl/boyfriend at the age of 25 if that person never had serious relationships before?

 

here's another example:

 

a friend (he's in his 30s i think) of my dad is looking for a girlfriend/wife for a long time, but he simply can't find any because of his stupid complexes... let's say he's variating too much...

 

all i want to say is just be careful with all these rejections, because at the end you might be alone or you'll have to accept that you get what you can and not what you want ;)

 

imo starting a serious relationship in the early 20s or even when you are 18-19 might help you a lot in your whole career/life

YAAHWHAH

 

Im getting a bit sick of this.

 

You should be at least 25 before you start considering something as a boyfriend or girlfriend, and that should be a law.

 

Yeah, I had my first real girlfriend when I was like 15, and since then I've had like 6 or 9 or something stupid, but I was being fucked up. I came to the realisation that we live our lifetimes for like, 60 or 80 years remaining, so why are so many kids dating before they even reach 20? Its fucking fucked up and fuck, fuck it.

 

Spread yourselves around ladies and gentlemen, experience life, and aids.

 

Scratch that last part actually.

 

 

Agree with ya...

Im only 10 and im getting married soon!!!!

No Bullshit

You do make a good point about someone being able to be stable without the experience of a serious relationship, but really, if you can start doing it at age 18, theres no reason why you cant start at 25.

 

Its one of those logic things that make sense in theory but when put into practice, starting serious relationships at 25 is the exact same as doing it when your 18, only that your not naive.

 

I will probably get into a serious relationship about the age of 21, not 25 or older, because most of the good chicks will be taken when I reach that age, and for no other reason. I think society needs to chill on the weddings and babies issue.

Agree with ya...

Im only 10 and im getting married soon!!!!

No Bullshit

 

Are you really getting married?!

 

Woah!

I may have been drunk and fucked and whatever, but I certainly still mean it.

 

Theres nothing wrong with being a teen and having kisses and sex and maybe a non serious relationship, but I have a LOT of friends who have been in serious relationships for the past 2 or 3 YEARS, and thats ridiculous.

 

How are you supposed to even know your type if you dont date around?

 

I think its pretty sad when you get guys who seem desperate as hell through their teens and the moment a decent looking girl shows any interest, they grasp onto it pathetically and engage in a shitty relationship in which they become the whipping boy for the rest of their life (And I do mean that, when you've been going out with someone for more then 2 years before the age of 20, there is no way you can possibly go back to leaving them and looking for someone else, you'd be too fragile).

 

Its like being accustomed to a person that you may not even like, you've just become used to.

 

It just seems so incredibly random at this age to be picking life partners. Play the field, try different people, be healthy, dont get caught up in one person because it may just lead to divorce in 7 years.

 

Traditionally its most romantic for 'the one' to be 'my first' and 'my last', but realistically, are they really 'the one' if you havent tried anything else?

 

Its just pathetic.

 

Lets all get naked.

 

 

 

*strips clothes*

 

 

I agree. You are a very dynamic person at your teen ages. Can't even get a grip on who you are or what you really want. I think if you can't even choose what career you want.... you can choose a real partner even less.

 

You just don't know yourself well enough and aren't stable enough a person to start SERIOUS relationships (with the opposite sex).

 

How do you expect someone to love you and care for you if YOU don't even know who you are, or what that relationship could build up to?

 

 

I guess you could just date for fun....but it sounds old fashioned...I always start up a relationship real slow and make sure the other person is in for the long ride... you know, possibly marriage in the future.

 

But what's the point of going from one flower to the next? To get all heart broken a bunch and then do things you regret?

 

nah. that's not even healthy.