I know this has most likely been covered before, but if it has, and if it has with a poll - it's outdated now, and I'm not causing anyone harm by restarting it.

 

I'm in a thought seeking mood tonight and I think this Lounge actually needs some interesting topics to give it a bit more... It's too full of games right now.

 

That said, obviously we don't want any discrimination or anything. I'm sure if any of that occurs I'll close the thread or one of the admins/mods will delete it.

i'm a heterosexual female

Yep, it's obvious the lounge needs some deeper and more interesting topics to talk 'bout.

 

I'm a heterosexual female and honestly, I have never had doubts 'bout it. I don't think I could feel attracted for a female, although I think I could snog some - but that would be all.

I have heard there's a period that most of people are not that sure with their sexuality preferences, I reckon it's when they're 'bout 13, 14 or so, like they spend a lot of time with their best friend (who is the same gender than 'em) and sometimes... they can cross the line. Anyway, I'm not sure, maybe it's a cliche that I've heard.

I'm a heterosexual male

I have heard there's a period that most of people are not that sure with their sexuality preferences, I reckon it's when they're 'bout 13, 14 or so, like they spend a lot of time with their best friend (who is the same gender than 'em) and sometimes... they can cross the line. Anyway, I'm not sure, maybe it's a cliche that I've heard.

 

i dont think i've ever had that phase.

 

my neighbour's married and he's got two kids and he fell in love with a man when he was in his forties.:shocked2:

 

i dont think he was bi or anything. everyone who knew him and his family was a bit shocked. must be really hard for the kids and his wife.

I guess one just falls in love with a person rather than his/her sexuality. Maybe bisexuality doesn't really exist in that sense.

True, Mo. When you fall for someone, it's mainly 'cos of the personality - but there's something more, like the physical appearance. You must feel some attraction for the other one.

 

 

Wow. That's really shocking! :O I mean it's not something usual to happen - since ppl usually find out their sexual preferences when they're a teenager, it's the moment to do it. Maybe he did everything he wasn't allowed to when he was young - just guessing.

I dont know, I'm pretty sure that everyone is bisexual to a certain degree, but it really differs from one person to another how bisexual that person is.

I've had my doubts before, alot about me being bisexual or straight. But right now I'm involved in a pretty serious relationship with a guy, so I just don't think of it anymore.

True, Mo. When you fall for someone, it's mainly 'cos of the personality - but there's something more, like the physical appearance. You must feel some attraction for the other one.

 

 

Wow. That's really shocking! :O I mean it's not something usual to happen - since ppl usually find out their sexual preferences when they're a teenager, it's the moment to do it. Maybe he did everything he wasn't allowed to when he was young - just guessing.

 

i dont really know, could be.

 

theres one thing i'm wondering about. why are there more gay people here where people are lets say more open-minded about sexual prefernces than elsewhere? is it because they are allowed to live their sexuality or is it because of the way they are brought up?

 

oh and of course you fall in love with the person. but if you were right mo this would mean that everyones bi? i dont think so, i really dont think i could be attracted to a woman.

oh and of course you fall in love with the person. but if you were right mo this would mean that everyones bi? i dont think so, i really dont think i could be attracted to a woman.

 

True. But like Areej said, to a certain extent, I think anyone can feel maybe attracted to a person of the same sex, they don't necessarily have to do anything, but just feel a slight attraction.

 

I'm not really making any sense. But I know I find some men very attractive and I have no real issues with it.

Sherif, Sherif, Sherif....

heterosexual female. But I've had my doubts too. Maybe it was puberty, i don't know. :thinking:

I've never dated anyone but I am attracted to boys. But some girls are just nice to look at lol. :wacko:

not gay

Hetero female. but I thought I might be bi a long time ago, I think most people are to some extent.

definetly not me

I've always been hetero. I've never had any doubts about it.

same

I've always been hetero. I've never had any doubts about it.

me neither.

good

I have a friend who says 'I like the person, not the gender' and I think he's totally right. I've never been with a girl nor I intend (is that the word?) to but I do feel like labels are not always a nice thing to have. I like boys but I don't know if I'll ever like girls.

It's just like that thing someone mentioned (the married man falling for another guy). Who knows where life will take us

sorry, double post.

Wow, a heteroclub here :surprised:

 

Actually, I'm not sure. I mean, I've always thought (actually, I've never thought about that that much) that I'm hetero 'cause I've always liked guys more, but to be honest I like being friends with guys, you know, talking to them, discussing stuff and all. And even though I'm totally not a lesbian and I don't even feel like I'm a bisexual right now, I seriously have some doubts for future. There's a quite big possibility that one day I may fall in love with a girl (man, I'm so glad my mom can't see it).

But it doesn't make any problem to me at all. For some reason being homosexual has become kinda... dunno, more normal than being hetero :tongue:

Besides, there're many many bisexual girls in art school I go to.... And they're mostly more emotional, talented and expressive than other people I see there. That's weird, but seems like true. And that maybe has an influence on me, too.

Hetro maile... vegna it keeps me alive...

I'm asexual.

I had to read the options carefully there to make sure I was what I thought I was :laugh3: