Telling him is easily the best way!

ah screw it....what shall I do?

 

As I've said before this weekend is the first weekend that I'll stay in Bonn...he asked me on tuesday what I've planned for saturday...I said that one friend (the friend who is together with his best friend...) asked me to go out together...and he said that he'll go out with them too....after that he said that our ways will split on saturday night because he also wants to go to a funk party...ahhh I soo much would like to go with him but I don't know whether I should ask him or not...I don't know if he wants me to come with him...:\

 

well you could just say that you're really interested in this party and he'll probably ask you if you wanna come [if he wants you to go there with him]

Hey Guys.. i don't know if this is the right thread but i need some help

I like a guy who used to be my BF.. well he knew what i feel for him and i told him cause i thought that's the better way to keep going with a friendship..

at first he was kind of away from me.. then.. we just came back together again as friends..

that happened last year.

this year..

he started to joke about one of my friends.... then he said that he like her very much.. and all the time he asked her for a kiss..

my freind always denied it.. because she knew that i like him.

at fiorst everything was going well.. but then other people started to telling me things about mi friend and this guy.. but i didn't hear to them.. cause i believed in my friends..

well... after a couple months.. a trust source told me "they're together i saw them hanging out and making out"

and my word just fall apart.. i just didn't talk to them specially to her..

i decided to face her and asking about that.. but all the time she was like "why don't you trsut me? it's a big fat lie" and the same with himm

in this several months.. the thing got more obvious..

i mean when they were online in their msn nicknames were tittles like "my little angel you're the only one for me" and i said to myself.. "Ok.. they deny this to me.. why?"

and last week i decided to face her again.. and we started with a little chat like "how are you? how's school?"

when i asked her.. "hey how's weverything going with Nahuel (the boy)"

of course she realised that i knew everything.. and she told me "nothing we're just hanging out.." i was like "yeah b*tch.. i already know that!" but i behaved myself and answered.."ohh but.. are you officials boyfriend-girlfriend?"

"No.. we are not.. cause if I'll do that.. when i go out on Saturday night.. i won't be able to make out with any guy from the disco"

i was like :stunned:

SL*T! he loves you and you do that to him..?

then i kept her asking that kind of stuff and saying. "yes i knew everything but i was waiting for you to tell me that you really like him"

"oohh you're right I'm a bad person"

unfortunately the words "I'm sorry!" never arrived

and i just told her ·i have to go bye! and i left..

Yesterday i was walking downtown and she was with her brother, who is a really friend of mine.

i said "Oh!Hi! what's up.. what are you doing..? *turn my head and look at her* ohh you are here, hi!"

and talked with his brother a while and they had to leave so i said to her brother "ohh well see you we have to go out one of these nights ok?!.. oh. you.. bye.."

and i turned around and left..

i felt very well but when i came home.. i was checking some old messages in my phone and i found one that she wrote me once that said"don't worry I'll never betray you with a guy.. you worth more than that! and i love you very much! =) "

I felt:

+anger

+sadness

+like a wanteed to punch something

 

Well the point is (sorry for the long post).some people tell me that i have to forgive her and let it go.. cause he's just a guy..

Others tell me that i don't have to forgive her cause she betray my trust and she hurt me a lot

Should I forgive her..?

or not?

`PLEASE HELP!

Romy, something like that happened to me, except that it wasn't as bad as your situation - well at least i see it that way.

 

i guess it'd be the best to be polite to her, and interact wiht her only as much as necessary - why making furhter convo or something if she hurt you?

 

i think i know how you're feeling - i felt like i was the last dirt on the floor. i ignored that "friend of mine" for some time, since i didnt feel well in her company, and i wanted to remove myself from her and others involved for a while. things got better now, but we aren't friends anymore. we talk, but not like we used to.

 

i don't advise you to show her you're hurt - rather show that you're strong, after all you've done nothing wrong to her and him. she should feel guilty... :\

i know but sometimes i feel like garbage!

because i start to think "They did me that cause I was very selfish and i thought just in myself.."

but then i stop and and tell myself "nonmononono you're wrong... she never told yoo how she felt about him"

so i won't fell guilty.. for any of themm

I see this like a some kind of choice..

it was having a friendship with me maybe forever (cause we live closer), or have "somtething" (not even a realtionship cause she doesn't want anything serious with him) with him for a while

Well she chose himm.. she chose having a good time just for a while..

ok I'l respect her..

 

well if i have to be honest..

i hope that he would fall SO IN LOVE WITH HER.. and then she just forget him.. just like that..

Ohh! if that happens I'll enjoy it so much..!

call me a "mean girl"

but he deserves a little of suffer in this.. ;)

 

Anyway thanks for the advice :)

whaaaaa...it was like i wanted it to be.....I am drunj....we went to club only me and him and we danced....then we went home togehter...he asked me if I want to sleep on his couch because he was scared that I wouldn't get home savely (because I live a bit farer away than him....and awwwwwwww:blush:

 

 

ok it's 6am I should go to bed now..

awww how cute :blush:

heyyy it's Lore! aww I was just going to bed...

 

goodnight everyone!!

 

ps. julia that's so cute!!!

goodnight! :kiss:

Bah, i would've invited you to my bed instead rawwwwwr!:wink3:

 

But then again , you wouldn't be safe there :charming:

 

Ps, dont mind me, i'm tipsy :drunk:

you pervy Ren!

OHH THAT'S SOO CUTEE AND SWEET!

i remember when me and my "friend" were watching a movie..

he was laying in the same bed that i was..

and he Fell asleep..

Awwww....

my darling...

:cry:

i miss him :(

I forgot to mention that she would sleep in my bed and i'd go to the couch :wacko:

 

You people are gonna go to hell for what your dirty mind is thinking, shame on you! :wacky:

I forgot to mention that she would sleep in my bed and i'd go to the couch :wacko:

 

You people are gonna go to hell for what your dirty mind is thinking, shame on you! :wacky:

:laugh4: :laugh4:

Bah, i would've invited you to my bed instead rawwwwwr!:wink3:

 

But then again , you wouldn't be safe there :charming:

 

Ps, dont mind me, i'm tipsy :drunk:

 

mwhaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa...Renny:laugh4:

I'd like to ask something,but I don't dare myself

ALL I WANT FOR CHRISTMAS IS HIM!:bigcry:

 

 

mwhaaaa....:wacky:

I saw santa today :wacky: if I see Santa again I'll tell him what you want!

Yayyyy.....do that:dance:

 

I hope you see him soon...:wacky:

maybe I'll see him tomorrow if I go to do some christmas shopping :wacky:

 

then I'll tell him

 

"Santaaaaa I've got a friend called Julia from Germany .. pleaseee give her the cute boy for christmas"

YES...that'd be perfect....and if it becomes real then I start to believe in santa!

ohhh I hope so!!!

AND if you dont get that cute guy for xmas, well you can always get a ykw rubber doll like the one rolly got :dance:

 

:wacky:

ewwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww........:sick:

 

 

Now I hope even mor ethat I get what I want..:uhoh:

:sick:

 

 

hey Renato

 

 

 

bye Renato :P

 

 

finally I'm watching the travis singles dvd :dance: