I usually never show that i'm jealous because of something other people have done. I just end up disliking the people they're doing the things with :( Even though i may not know the people AT ALL. Myeah.

 

But this happens only with certain people and with most people i'm totally fine with it, they can do whatever they want and i can do whatever i want.

I think I envy more than I be jealous...or is that the same thing?

I think I envy more than I be jealous...or is that the same thing?

it's not, as far as i know.

 

envy = wanting the same exact things others have

jealousy = wishing you were in the same position as others

 

 

something like taht, it's just my interpretation. but i know there is a difference.

 

 

well. i consider myself jealous (and egoistic, but now this doesnt matter).

 

but im not jealous because my boyfriend gives his attention to his friends and not only me, but his ex! i know it sounds strange, but i can't help myself. sometimes i just think he'll never love me as much as he loved her and that what we have is far more simple than what he had before. but it's not always like that.

 

i dont know how things are in your case, Charles. Are you able to see here each day? if so, then you shouldn't (i know, easy to say) be jealous because she can't be 24/7 with you, even though she'd like to spend the most of her time with you. but i guess she loves her friends in a manner and wouldn't like to just forget about them.

in my case, for example, we see each other only during weekends and now even for less time because of my uni and stuff. and of course i'm angry and jealous if he says that he'd like to go out with friends. because ... he can see them each and every day, but we only have two days to be together.

 

in any case, too much jealousy isn't healthy. of course there has to be some, you show to her and yourself that you care about her and that you won't let her go so easily, but it easily becomes restraining if you don't let her hang out with friends.

Me. :P;) Thus the post about hobbies.

 

Actually, I thought that was rather obvious :thinking: Oh well.

 

 

 

Good choice anyway!

I used to get jealous really really easy and I really did eat me up. Like this girl named Eddie (her really name is Edwina but Eddie suits her better :dozey:) lives about 5 doors down from Bebe and she is constenly over at Bebe's house or inviting Bebe over so I rarely find a weekend where I can call Bebe over!

 

Luckily Bebe doesn't really like Eddie that much so I don't get all that jealous but what she did do it tell Eddie which guy she really likes without even telling me! And now she won't tell me at all...I feel a bit becuase her friendship with Eddie is very superficial and it hurts to know she shared a secret with someone she doesn't even like that much and didn't tell me, her like, best friend...

 

*rant over*

im jealous now... because of something bad happens here.. but.. i think jealous is not a right word to use

Something here? Like at Coldplaying.com? Hmm...

well. i consider myself jealous (and egoistic, but now this doesnt matter).

 

but im not jealous because my boyfriend gives his attention to his friends and not only me, but his ex! i know it sounds strange, but i can't help myself. sometimes i just think he'll never love me as much as he loved her and that what we have is far more simple than what he had before. but it's not always like that.

 

Wow... I totally understand you... my gf is also friend with her ex... it was very annoying for me at the begining (and still is)... I can't really stand it either, I can't help being jealous when I know she speaks to him or she borrows some money from him. Fortunately this is not very common but still... now that you wonder if he actually loves you as much as he did with his ex, it makes me think too... :( I know she loves me a lot but I dunno I sometimes feel like I love her way more than that... there's even moments I wish it wasn't this much and I think maybe I shouldn't be that effusive in our love. Buuuu I really don't know.

Wow... I totally understand you... my gf is also friend with her ex... it was very annoying for me at the begining (and still is)... I can't really stand it either, I can't help being jealous when I know she speaks to him or she borrows some money from him. Fortunately this is not very common but still... now that you wonder if he actually loves you as much as he did with his ex, it makes me think too... :( I know she loves me a lot but I dunno I sometimes feel like I love her way more than that... there's even moments I wish it wasn't this much and I think maybe I shouldn't be that effusive in our love. Buuuu I really don't know.

 

Myeah, i know what you mean. I'm still not in a relationship but it goes with other friends too. Sometimes it just feels like i waste so much energy for them and i get nothing. Bah. It sucks.

I consider myself to be a jealous person...I haven't been in a relationship yet but I had several crush on several guys and even then I get quite jealous....:bigcry:

I consider myself to be a jealous person...I haven't been in a relationship yet but I had several crush on several guys and even then I get quite jealous....:bigcry:

 

that makes it two of us :(

It's really ridiculous how jealous i get sometimes..when it's NONE of my business bah

that makes it two of us :(

It's really ridiculous how jealous i get sometimes..when it's NONE of my business bah

 

ha exactly.....I think we are just not self-confident enough...:uhoh:

ha exactly.....I think we are just not self-confident enough...:uhoh:

 

Well i do know that i'm anything but selfconfident :disappointed:

moi aussi....:bigcry:

 

quite random now....but do you know this:

when you want to go out for example you wait until somebody asks you to go out and are never active because you think nobody wats to go out with you?:dozey:

moi aussi....:bigcry:

 

quite random now....but do you know this:

when you want to go out for example you wait until somebody asks you to go out and are never active because you think nobody wats to go out with you?:dozey:

 

 

Yeah. That's so nothing new to me. And i never actually even bother to have crush on anyone..just because i know it won't work out anyway haha.

yeah i know i'm pathetic but i can't help it!

Aww cheer up girls, you'll fine a nice decent guy someday and if nothing works i'll send ron jeremy to rolly and flavor flave to julia :kiss:

I consider myself a jealous person.

Hej! now all the jealous people is showing up :mellow:

 

I've finally decided something... I think I am going to act like I didn't care too much and well... not being so lovely, caring as whenever I feel to be at least for a while until she realises my change and sees how much she needs my constant love back. :p It's about a little of self-control. I think I can handle it... You think it's a good strategy? Well, just wish me luck!

Oh and the girls- I quite understand what your talking about, I guess there was some time when I felt like that and then I had a very self period of being happy with myself blablabla and then love just came to me... :p I'd advice you to be more optimistic about it, knowing you're such pretty girls (yeah I've seen ur pics ;)) and just take it easy... I bet with time you'll know of awesome surprises!

Hej! now all the jealous people is showing up :mellow:

 

I've finally decided something... I think I am going to act like I didn't care too much and well... not being so lovely, caring as whenever I feel to be at least for a while until she realises my change and sees how much she needs my constant love back. :p It's about a little of self-control. I think I can handle it... You think it's a good strategy? Well, just wish me luck!

 

I think i like your strategy hahaha. It's bitchy but hey, it should be!

You'll have all my support! Hope you'll make your girl go crazy about you again!

 

And noo, how is it possible that you've seen my pics :thinking: I've only posted like 2 pics during the 2 years i've been here haha

Thanks for the support... Wooo-oooh! bitchy time- :smartass:

 

Yes, I think I've your pictures Rolle... :p

Wow, 10 Jealous people, great! I am not alone... :cry::cry:

Thanks for the support... Wooo-oooh! bitchy time- :smartass:

 

Yes, I think I've your pictures Rolle... :p

 

whoa! im suprised you even know my NAME :o

 

I know yours too..it's Charles right? haha. Myeah, i remember a lot of things. Ask anyone!

 

Myeah, sorry to say but i think coldplaying is full of a bit pathetic people. SORRY EVERYONE. but it's true. so many people with low self-esteem to start with.. mwah

Can anyone not be jealous? I mean i reckon everyone get's jealous at some point in their life.

 

Myeah, sorry to say but i think coldplaying is full of a bit pathetic people. SORRY EVERYONE. but it's true. so many people with low self-esteem to start with.. mwah

 

 

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