Richard has turned into the luurrve guru! :lol:

guys need advice too and i ffink it rulez!!

The following quote is from Good Will Hunting. Unfortunately it’s not really advice, just a great moment in an awesome movie. It shows how easy meeting a girl *should* be..

 

SKYLAR

You suck.

 

WILL

What?

 

SKYLAR

I've been sitting over there for forty-

five minutes waiting for you to come

talk to me. But I'm just tired now

and I have to go home and I wasn't

going to keep sitting there waiting

for you.

 

WILL

I'm Will.

 

SKYLAR

Skylar. And by the way.

That guy over there is a real dick and

I just wanted you to know he didn't

come with us.

 

WILL

I kind of got that impression.

 

SKYLAR

Well, look, I have to go. Gotta' get

up early and waste some more money on

my overpriced education.

 

WILL

I didn't mean you. Listen, maybe...

 

SKYLAR

Here's my number.

 

Skylar produces a folded piece of paper and offers it to Will.

 

SKYLAR (cont'd)

Maybe we could go out for coffee

sometime?

 

WILL

Great, or maybe we could go somewhere

and just eat a bunch of caramels.

 

SKYLAR

What?

 

WILL

When you think about it, it's just as

arbitrary as drinking coffee.

 

SKYLAR

(laughs)

Okay, sounds good.

 

She turns.

 

WILL

Five minutes.

 

SKYLAR

What?

 

WILL

I was trying to be smooth.

(indicates clock)

But at twelve-fifteen I was gonna come

over there and talk to you.

 

SKYLAR

See, it's my life story.

Five more minutes and I would have got

to hear your best pick-up line.

 

WILL

The caramel thing is my pick-up line.

 

Personally, I approach girls differently than most. I don’t *lust* after someone based off a first impression. In the past, when I was ever interested in a girl, it was because there was a friendship first. Making new friends is what makes life fun, at least for me… Once this sequence is understood, the break down helps me move past that friend-barrier without the nervousness that comes with asking out a new girl. Making a *friend*, regardless of what the future may hold, is simple. Build off a common interest or mutual friend. When nothing’s on the line, people allow themselves to open up easier. When dating someone you don’t know very well, you watch your words to exchange the right impressions, etc. It’s just too much trouble in my opinion - Friends before all else.

 

 

I think I wanna go out with you now... :lol:

 

j/k :sneaky:

rf_ucsd ... would it be shallow to go after her friend? because i really dont think i have a chance with her...

man I say fuck the ex... go with the friend... and then we'll see who is a truly friend.. :wink3:

ive never had a gf so yeah...

no ex for this old dog

haha im seriously a dork

man I say fuck the ex... go with the friend... and then we'll see who is a truly friend.. :wink3:

did you not just post that 3 times?

see if you can do it 4 times

My first gf was in 5th grade...yup...lasted two days. She said i played too much kickball and didn't hold hands enough. 5th grade...the good old days... :lol:

LMAO!!

hahahha oh man the good days ahhh

you played kickball too much haha

who could blame you man

you were just bummin it like any other kid

much props though

did you not just post that 3 times?

see if you can do it 4 times

 

I keep on having problems with this sorry.. :embarrased:

no worries

PMSing wont help ur girl troubles... ;)

hahahaha

clean it up clean it up

no worries

 

okies :embarrased:

Richard has turned into the luurrve guru! :lol:

true :D

rf_ucsd ... would it be shallow to go after her friend? because i really dont think i have a chance with her...

 

not in and of itself. if you're doing it just to put knotches on the proverbail bedpost then it's shallow. i don't think you're doing that, though.

 

so much for the "major" crush, eh? that's ok. 15 year olds shouldn't be doing anything in a "major" way, least of all crushing.

Richard has turned into the luurrve guru! :lol:

true :D

 

no ... that's false! richard is no love guru.

 

brian fellow is not a zoologist.

he's just a man with a fifth grade education and a love for animals.

richard is my king :D

Lea! You're embarassing me now :D

 

We have our private life, our public life, and then our board life. Let's keep the private stuff private ...

 

my queen.

i have got nothing to hide baby :wink3:

what is GOING ON HERE? :huh:

oops :D

OoOoOoOoOoOoOoH!!