Liar..

 

I live with compulsive liar.

 

He works for a living to be a con man, he has lied to me about a couple of things that have affected me

1. He lied to me about a friend of mine I was trying to see last year, saying that she said she was fed up of playing a girlfriend role around me.

He has never even met her, when I questioned the person he said it was, she had no friends in comon with my friend or neither knew my friend..

still to this day, he claims he had the same lie.

 

2. I have made a new friend recently, he once met us whilst we was out, he said he asked her if she would go with me, ( meaning would she sleep with me) I asked her, and she told me he never asked this question. She was also pretty disgusted he made up such a thing...

 

For the 2nd lie, amongts the million he tells me, I am now immune, the one last year, I had belived up to a point but then I found it was bullshite. The 1st lie, messed up my head for sometime.

Please tell me what kind of kicks would a sane person get out of telling such lies, he has nothing to achive apart from messing from someones head.

 

I feel like grassing him up to the Police back in the UK to make them aware of what crimes he is commiting as an act of revenge.

Grassing him up isn't the answer. You can show you're better than him by not doing so.

Better just to not have anything to do with him any more.;)

Sounds like some sort of a sociopath. Avoid if possible. No good can come of it if he's decided he likes to screw with you.

 

Revenge isn't going to change anything or do anyone any good. It's just a way of sinking to his level. Now as a matter of civic duty on the other hand...

 

But I wouldn't want to be the tattletale with a roommate like that until they weren't my roommate anymore. If he is a sociopath of any sort, he does like screwing with you, and he has no problem with the illegal, well, setting him off may be a bad idea since there's no telling what lines he could cross to really mess up your life.

Punch him in his face.

Nice guy. . .

Revenge will make it worse, as stupid as it sounds, talk to him.

Punch him in his face.

Why don't you move out and get a new roommate or something?

Or punch him in the face

Whoa.

Why don't you move out and get a new roommate or something?

 

gonna move out eventully, it hurts me though with the constant lies.. He was supposed to be a friend.

 

This morning, he sent me a text, to ask if I can take his dog for a walk, lying in the message, saying he had took the dog out 20 minutes before. He had not, I had been in but in my room...

 

The trouble is he always wants to go out, and not face to his responsibilties etc. But to lie over his dog is pityful

I had to go to work, and had little time, this was the 4th occaision in the week he asked me to do this.

 

So I sent him a sarcastic reply back saying, I dont have the time to this, like I dont have the time to go to work, or do other things in my life.

 

He called me back instantly and was really spiteful, claimed i was messy in the kitchen and the batroom.

 

1. I clean as I go along when I use the kitchen, and often find myself having to clean his plates and pans when he has been in the kitchen.

 

I have to wait for days sometimes for him to take his laudry out of the washing machine as he is too lazy to take it out himself, he said if i need to use the washing machine i should take out his washing.

 

I will move out, however I still want my revenge for the lies, wheras he attepted to mess with my mind.

If his conning is going into illegal territories such as illegal handling of money - sure you got to the police. They won't turn up on his doorstep and say

 

' Are you (Name inserted here)? Okay (name inserted here) I'm arresting you on suspicion blah blah blah....oh and by the way cheers to your flatmate for grassing up on you'.

 

A certified sociopath you've got on your hands there!

I'd never heard the phrase "grassing up" til now. :blank:

I'd never heard the phrase "grassing up" til now. :blank:

 

:stunned:

Or punch him in the face

 

I was going to suggest kicking him in the balls too.

I was going to suggest kicking him in the balls too.

 

I like the way you think.

I'd never heard the phrase "grassing up" til now. :blank:

+1

This got very sinister and dark in the end, I have never had anyone be so evil to me. I am in a right state !

 

He went on to choose on Sunday to come into my room, carried on critising me about everything with his lies, pushing me for some sort of response. Most of this time, I was sat down with my hands around my ears trying no to listen, but in the end I burst out and said, to stop using physic logical bullying at which point he choose to tell me to find somewhere to stay by Friday( Today). He said at this point he would give me the rest of the money he had for me for rent.

 

So in a state of shock, however having to move forward I went looking for a place to stay.

I found somewhere, however this was on the condition when I moved in I paid in proportion what he wanted from this day until the end of the month, if then I choose to carry on living with this new guy.

 

Also in the meantime, I had been cleaning and packing my stuff.

Thankfully earlier this week, I got my most important personal items out of the house along with most of my clothes.

I have said to him again and again, I would be out today by 4 PM making sure the place was clean before I go, this did not stop though the constant barrage of sick SMS, with his lies and frets, my friends here seen what state as I was in and let me stay at their house last night. This was for a very good reason un known to them.

 

Not only he has now refused to give me the money I am owed for the rent, meaning I can I not go and move in the new place I had been offered. he went on to steal what money I had left for myself for the week, meaning I will struggle it eat, but most sick of all. he went on to throw or my remaining personal items regardless of the sentimental value, for example the one and only picture I have my mum, and some personal gifts from family and friends and my clothes in a bin of which I had to retrieve.

 

I hope one day this sick individual gets a taste of his own medicine.

A liar, bully and a phyco all in one.

Take him to court for the money he owes

Did you punch him in his face yet?

Yikes. Not surprised. Like I said, sociopath. Dangerous type to be around at all.

 

If he is like you say, no amount of comeuppance or vengeance will ever make him 'get it' because it's all stuff he's incapable of grasping.

Take him to court for the money he owes

 

yeah.

 

at least you'll be moving out. I'd stay as far away as I can from this person. Not only is he deceitful and manipulative, but I feel that he probably believes all these lies he says. after a while of telling lies all the time you start to believe them.

yeah.

 

at least you'll be moving out. I'd stay as far away as I can from this person. Not only is he deceitful and manipulative, but I feel that he probably believes all these lies he says. after a while of telling lies all the time you start to believe them.

 

Reminds me of one or two people I've come across in the last couple of years. Fortunately, with any luck, I'll probably never meet them.:dozey:

Now I am getting threating text messages.

By something from the freak, I am not even responsible for.

I have tried calling Customer Services to block his messages.

However my phone wont let me type in option numbers when I get though.

 

I am considering complaing to the local Police now. Please see the series of text messages.

 

 

Sent 01.44 14th September

 

You have a 5% chance me me ever speaking to you after you have f"cked off be gone by friday- I am finished dealing with you. Think yourself lucky I didn’t throw out you and your smelly shit out yesterday. Finished.

 

 

Sent 18.18 14th Septmeber

 

You realise that anyone moving in the flat might view it up to two weeks before moving in. If the place did´nt look and smell like a junkie lived there you might have had a tolerated for the rest of the Month. But you are a horrible person, life is too short to put up with your sort. The filth on the floor shows what little respect you had for my home and yourself. You can badmounth me all you want and imagine things, to your hearts content. I am just disappointed. Shame really because there was a time when I´d have gone out my way to help you.- Now when I see your scrowl i´d love it.

Are you going love it pay someone to repair for the burns on the warddrobe, or pay for that out of my deposit. Oh yea I am the villian.

 

 

Sent 19.31 16th September

 

I think your missing the point, Clean before you leave would not help the person if they wanted a photo of the room and you were still there. You need to be gone for me to advertise the room. I´ll be cleaning after you leave anywy. it will take a few days to clense the place. The state you had it in while you lived there is the real issue. Filthy dirty people equals no respect. Cotton buds all over the floor is quite dirty. untidy OK filth is unacceptable.

 

Sent 05.06 17th September

Mental I meet a guy who threw you our for the same thing years ago. No need for me to feel guilty. That’s god telling me something.Filth is Dark kalma.

 

Sent 05.13

Haha ha so many people know your nasty haha.

 

Sent 14.15 17th September

 

Are you bring thoese two containers back back or are you robbing them.

 

Sent 06.13 18th September.

 

Found a tenner cleaning up your filth. Spent a tenner cleaning prodcuts about fair. You like how I packed everything. . It was your stuff and filth Sure it wasn’t all in the room together. our a right filthy bastard. turning my home into such a filtly state. Met another x flatmate of yours who said your wrose than a pig you got a rep.

 

( this really hurt me, the things he had thrown away were personal items, photos gifts what people had given me.. with sentlemental value, as for the 10 euros, this is all I had at the time. This was on top of the money he was supposed to give me for kicking me out halfway though the month, and money I leant him at the start of this month )

 

Sent 18th September 21.06

 

You´d better be giving me back those containers back before I bump into you. because I don’t want to have to open your head " abre facil "( open easiely in spanish) Don´t imigaine you can rob them and get away with it.Tell me whatever you want. Best way out of this is to return what you took.

 

 

For the record as regards of places I have lived-

I always cleaned as I went along, in public places, even though I hardly used the living room. Mainly for the first 3 and half months I used my bedroom only, spending the rest of time as I could out, round friends places or bars. yes my room was messy but no more messy than you would expect from someone in such a small and confirmed space. And being with a sociapth, and a complusive attention seeking liar it was a lot eaiser to be out. I spent the last two weeks in a room, as a friend i met had gone away, and I promised her as well as myself most importantly, I would take a break from the bar in order to ssave myself month, plus I would be missing her, so I would be no good in the bar.

 

The plasitc containers, is something I had given him money before, however he seems to have forgotten or made himself belive his own deluded lies.

 

As for the people he has spoken to…

 

My ex flatemates will vouch for me… maybee even one or two people on the board. Peronally me thinks this is deluded.

I have never been thrown out before. I have left at my own accord.

 

I had to leave my 1st place, there was a complicated situation, wheras I moved in with a friend and her boyfriend, me and her boyfriend had issues. As earlier I had told the girl I loved her, and maybee there was issues still there.

 

Now amaziling me and the girls ex boyfriend are friends.

 

I lived in another place for 20 months, I left the place in the end, I left because I was good friends with the woman, and I did not want her fussing over my room to be an issue to get in between us.

 

Another place I lived was a shared place, wheras it was total stangers in there. I went on to leave after 10 months, as it was difficult to have all types of people that had not been vested plus there was an issue over hot water.

 

However one amazing thing happened. I made a friend, who is now a close friend whom came with me to Manchester to meet my friends and family.

 

I lived in another place for 4 months, issue there it was brillaint, but the people in there did not smoke, and I had got now used to a neighbehood of of which was pretty far from this one, and it started to turn more expensive to live there.

 

I went then to live in another place, with a older family whom before hand promised me the world, one thing on top of the list was there flat was quite during the day, for the first 3 weeks I never noticed as I was on annual leave from my work place. However when I started working I realised they had so many family members and just them coming in and out was enough, apart from me having to pass a living room full of people in order to use the bathroom, in addition to the owner of the house lending a considerable amount of money of me and not paying me back on time. In the end I choose not to live there. I had to wait over one and half months to get my rent deposit back.

 

Another place where I lived, I sensed something no to well as soon as I moved in there as the last person to leave my room had returned for her deposit, however at this stage it was too late. I already paid my rent, and deposit, things seemed nice at 1st. however it seemed when ever the girl was in a bad mood, she would come to me. One day I sent one of her ex flatmates whom is her friend to find out if she was OK. As the things she was going mental to me about were very trival. She told me she had moved out because of her freakesh ways and the amount of noise she made when she had vairous boyfriends over at nightime.

 

Anyway in the end I left for the best of both of us, as we both knew deep down we was not bad. However it seemed my sensitivity to her mood swings was going to take its toll one day.

 

 

He has not met anyone whom I used to live with... people should I go to the police with these. I think the Spanish Police will do very little, and most likley refer me to Physiologist for this guy !

updated with his text messages !

 

Another thing about this freak, he has a dog. One he hardly or rushed when it took for a walk. I found myself often having to clean this up when he was not there, and out of his head on MDMA.

 

He never hardly washed up after himself, plus I had to wait for days to use the washing machine, but I think I have stated this in a ealrier post. I could never say anything about this.

 

He was also a freak about the toliet and insisted on turning of the pipe that made the water flush in order to conserve water and save money.

I never thought this was hygenic and offerd him and extra 25 euros a month in order to get around this, beacuase as a consquence it made the toliet smell of wee constantly etc, and was embarrasing when I had female friends stay.