I wanna write better emotional songs..but when i play them i feel embaraced at times..how can i get over this?

 

At the end of the day, music is about two things; expression and connection.

 

The greatest artists all know how to put their thoughts into words and music that will speak to people. A great example of this is my hero, Damon Albarn, in Blur's No Distance Left to Run. It's heartbreaking; Damon has split up from his love, and you can really see just how painful it is for him. That's what connects to people.

 

Obviously, it's hard to write about yourself if you're a private person. Sometimes, it can be a good outlet though, and you can get things off your chest by saying everything in a song. You just need be true to your song though, have faith in yourself and screw everybody else. Perhaps just start off by writing about a character, and put your emotions into them. I wrote a breakup song, and when my dad asked about it, I said it wasn't based on myself, to avoid the awkwardness.

 

But don't compromise your art, and who you are. As I said, expression and connection are key. And don't be ashamed to show how you feel. Everyone who hears your music would've felt exactly the same way at least once in their life.

At the end of the day, music is about two things; expression and connection.

 

The greatest artists all know how to put their thoughts into words and music that will speak to people. A great example of this is my hero, Damon Albarn, in Blur's No Distance Left to Run. It's heartbreaking; Damon has split up from his love, and you can really see just how painful it is for him. That's what connects to people.

 

Obviously, it's hard to write about yourself if you're a private person. Sometimes, it can be a good outlet though, and you can get things off your chest by saying everything in a song. You just need be true to your song though, have faith in yourself and screw everybody else. Perhaps just start off by writing about a character, and put your emotions into them. I wrote a breakup song, and when my dad asked about it, I said it wasn't based on myself, to avoid the awkwardness.

 

But don't compromise your art, and who you are. As I said, expression and connection are key. And don't be ashamed to show how you feel. Everyone who hears your music would've felt exactly the same way at least once in their life.

 

ahh ok..tyvm good sir.

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Sorry, I know this isn't songwriting-related, but I love your avatar! :nice:

Tyvm