At my local restaurant there is a girl that I like. I have been a few times with family etc.

 

I saw her on Facebook and she was single.

 

I am due to go back there with work possibly

 

Shall I add her and chat to her or wait till I possibly see her again?

 

Any thoughts. Thanks.

Glad you trust this community

 

Im not an expert but the first impression is important. If i were you i would wait and do a nice impression.

 

But dont wait too much, don't drag it "Not gonna leave it until its much too late" [emoji6]

Do a nice impression?

Yes man, be yourself, a nice guy, a guy that cares.

But its up to you to decide, meeting online can also work out, but im just saying that if i were in your position i would wait

For?

Until you both meet again, like you said...

Feel like I don’t want to wait and add her

Feel like I don’t want to wait and add her

Just do your magic bro

Magic? Lol

 

Not worked for me in 20 years.

Well how long would it take approximately until you have the chance to see her again ?

Well how long would it take approximately until you have the chance to see her again ?

 

Awhile. 2/3 months plus. That’s is she working that night / day

Awhile. 2/3 months plus. That’s is she working that night / day

What if you go there just to talk to her?

Its too risky to wait that much

What if you go there just to talk to her?

Its too risky to wait that much

 

Or add her on Facebook to talk and arrange

That's indeed quite long to wait. I second Gsilva's suggestion of somehow trying to make a meeting happen earlier. But I wouldn't just add her on Facebook (unless you already know her reasonably well and have talked to her). I can only say of my own personal experience that random adds/chat attempts come across as quite stalkerish. I'm no longer on Facebook but when I was I always ignored strangers trying to add me or chat with me.

That's indeed quite long to wait. I second Gsilva's suggestion of somehow trying to make a meeting happen earlier. But I wouldn't just add her on Facebook (unless you already know her reasonably well and have talked to her). I can only say of my own personal experience that random adds/chat attempts come across as quite stalkerish. I'm no longer on Facebook but when I was I always ignored strangers trying to add me or chat with me.

 

 

She’s already found us on Facebook. When we gave her a tip.

 

Isn’t that what facebooks for

She’s already found us on Facebook. When we gave her a tip.

 

Isn’t that what facebooks for

Oh, in that case if she friended you in facebook, your chances of succeding by adressing to her online are better

I don't get it. Has she already added you as a friend ?

She didn’t add me.

 

I didn’t want to bore you with details so that you get a understanding I will. We gave her a tip first visit. She went home and told her mum a nice family tipper her la la la etc and had a look in fb like we all do. He mum actually knows my dad.

She didn’t add me.

 

I didn’t want to bore you with details so that you get a understanding I will. We gave her a tip first visit. She went home and told her mum a nice family tipper her la la la etc and had a look in fb like we all do. He mum actually knows my dad.

 

If your families know each other, it's indeed less weird if you try adding her on FB. I originally thought there was no connection between the two of you. How do you know she looked at your FB wall, though ? :D

There No connection. Merely my dad and her mum know each other through there work.

 

She searched with her mum. Her mum told my dad

if you know each other a bit, or your families know each other, its a pretty simple operation. if she works in a restaurant, could you pop in by yourself while she is working? for coffee? make sure you tip her well, and talk to her if you have the chance. personal attention means everything in food service. and she will notice you if you are nice to her at her job. :)

Finally a female!

 

You got this my man

Finally a female!

ermm....so am I :D

ermm....so am I :D

Oooh, sorry