true true. and when you 100% sure that ur going to see that person soon (which i do :nice: ) you start feeling how real it is..

 

good luck :)

OH MY... !! :blush: will you? that's great!

 

^sure it's real but when you meet in life seems that it is even more real.

yay! someone that thinks like me! :)

 

 

Count me too Iris.:)

that's unbelievable! :stunned: I knew that Will was going out with someone from the net but I didn't expect that you too, Gábor!!!!

... I can understand, though, that for people who haven't experienced anything like that it's hard to understand what it's all about ;)

Well yes:P

And I met her in this summer and it was great :blush:

 

She's from the board too :nice:

... I can understand' date=' though, that for people who haven't experienced anything like that it's hard to understand what it's all about ;)[/quote']

 

ive had enough girlfriends in my time that i met in real life, i thought i loved them.. well 1 of them at least. and im telling you its NOTHING compared to this :blush: even though we havnt met (yet :nice: )

you're right, Sarah. It's something that they can't really imagine... it doesn't even make sense!

 

 

 

@Gábor: awwwwe!!! :blush:

Could I be curious? .....

@Gábor: awwwwe!!! :blush:

Could I be curious? .....

 

Of course..what do you want to know? :nice:

ive had enough girlfriends in my time that i met in real life' date=' i thought i loved them.. well 1 of them at least. and im telling you its NOTHING compared to this :blush: even though we havnt met (yet :nice: )[/quote']

 

aww, that's cute! well, good luck! :)

 

 

@Whisper 19: oh, really? :cheesy: haha, I was thinking the other day if there were more couples around here ^^

Who??!

 

oh, tell me more things.... now I am curious!!! how was your first meeting?! :nice:

Who??!

 

oh, tell me more things.... now I am curious!!! how was your first meeting?! :nice:

 

Her name is Anouk :) Not sure you know her though.

Everything happened so fast and it was great.

And the meeting...awww perfect. Well it was a bit strange of course but that disappeared really fast.

 

I just loved it :blush:

yes... I remember she had a cute picture of herself as her avatar but at the moment I don't remember her username!

 

I hope that things are going well for you both!

 

well, it's normal to have a weird feeling when you meet for the very first time with someone you've been talking to time after time and who you also love!!!

Yes but as I said it disappeared really fast..

I will never forget that moment when i saw her :)

 

But I have to go now..

 

If you have any questions just ask in PM or in this thread I'll answer all of them :)

 

Bye :kiss:

yeah, there're some kind of things that ppl record in their memory forever.

 

by the way, regarding your last sentence... this seems to be like an interview!! haha, don't you think?

 

bye Gábor :kiss: and good luck.

 

oh btw...Chris now that I quoted your post....one question: What do you mean with the last sentence.....that it would have been better to continue this online romance, because in the end it was your wife's fault that you split up?

I hope I got that right....

 

 

Well, Julia, I'm afraid that the last sentence was a sarcastic statement . I didn't think that what I had done was that bad. It really was a crush. Thinking back, I remember accusations of the fact that I was overly flirtatious with my co-workers, or that I had been seeing someone on the side. I really think that she was subliminally letting me know what she had done. Trying to put guilt on me for her infidelities. I really took it hard....for a long time after we had split I wouldn't even get online. I immersed myself in my work because I felt so guilty about what I had done to ruin our marriage. The truth was she had been seeing people for a long time before I started anything online. I think that when she found out, that she had a golden opportunity to knock me down.

 

Hindsight is 20/20.....No, I don't think that i would've kept the online romance going.

 

After some friends convinced me that I needed to pull myself together, I slowly began dating and meeting people...both in person and online....like you said there are 2 worlds for me too, virtual and real. Coldplaying.com is a safe-haven for me to escape the pressures of daily life. I think it gives me an opportunity to meet some really great people. And although I am currently in a happy relationship, my girlfriend knows that I come on here and the main reason is my love of Coldplay.....she's a myspaceaholic....(not knocking it---just not for me).

 

As for any online crushes.....I think that everyone on this site is pretty hot.:wink3:

 

COLPLAYING.COM RULES!!!!!!!

I think it is possible to have online freinds and crushes. and even cyber/virtual love

Well, Julia, I'm afraid that the last sentence was a sarcastic statement . I didn't think that what I had done was that bad. It really was a crush. Thinking back, I remember accusations of the fact that I was overly flirtatious with my co-workers, or that I had been seeing someone on the side. I really think that she was subliminally letting me know what she had done. Trying to put guilt on me for her infidelities. I really took it hard....for a long time after we had split I wouldn't even get online. I immersed myself in my work because I felt so guilty about what I had done to ruin our marriage. The truth was she had been seeing people for a long time before I started anything online. I think that when she found out, that she had a golden opportunity to knock me down.

 

Hindsight is 20/20.....No, I don't think that i would've kept the online romance going.

 

After some friends convinced me that I needed to pull myself together, I slowly began dating and meeting people...both in person and online....like you said there are 2 worlds for me too, virtual and real. Coldplaying.com is a safe-haven for me to escape the pressures of daily life. I think it gives me an opportunity to meet some really great people. And although I am currently in a happy relationship, my girlfriend knows that I come on here and the main reason is my love of Coldplay.....she's a myspaceaholic....(not knocking it---just not for me).

 

As for any online crushes.....I think that everyone on this site is pretty hot.:wink3:

 

COLPLAYING.COM RULES!!!!!!!

 

ah ok....now I get it...(I think hehe....);)

and yeah I agree with your last statement .....Coldplay fans are pretty hot or cute.....awwwwww....

Well, Julia, I'm afraid that the last sentence was a sarcastic statement . I didn't think that what I had done was that bad. It really was a crush. Thinking back, I remember accusations of the fact that I was overly flirtatious with my co-workers, or that I had been seeing someone on the side. I really think that she was subliminally letting me know what she had done. Trying to put guilt on me for her infidelities. I really took it hard....for a long time after we had split I wouldn't even get online. I immersed myself in my work because I felt so guilty about what I had done to ruin our marriage. The truth was she had been seeing people for a long time before I started anything online. I think that when she found out, that she had a golden opportunity to knock me down.

 

Hindsight is 20/20.....No, I don't think that i would've kept the online romance going.

 

After some friends convinced me that I needed to pull myself together, I slowly began dating and meeting people...both in person and online....like you said there are 2 worlds for me too, virtual and real. Coldplaying.com is a safe-haven for me to escape the pressures of daily life. I think it gives me an opportunity to meet some really great people. And although I am currently in a happy relationship, my girlfriend knows that I come on here and the main reason is my love of Coldplay.....she's a myspaceaholic....(not knocking it---just not for me).

 

As for any online crushes.....I think that everyone on this site is pretty hot.:wink3:

 

COLPLAYING.COM RULES!!!!!!!

 

Your situation is exactly what I was talking about or trying to say. Would you have felt betrayed if it was the other way around...... If the one you loved doesn't really feel comfortable or be that open with you but with someone else? This also brings up another question (Yes, I know.. me and my questions:embarassed:) Would it hit you more if they splet with someone else or if they didn't but they did emotionally than with you?

 

This is so like Nip/Tuck with Julia and Sean. They love each other but aren't able to be honest and open with each other...so they always look for someone else while still being together.

 

PS: It took me a while to finish reading this thread, so sorry for replying so late but I finally got the chance to read it all before it gets more pages ;) and is this forum turning into a Find Love Site?!:stunned::laugh3: We should have a little game to try to find someone a lover haha:laugh3: that'll be fun.. and yes Mariana I was inspired if that's the word.. hehe :p

Your situation is exactly what I was talking about or trying to say. Would you have felt betrayed if it was the other way around...... If the one you loved doesn't really feel comfortable or be that open with you but with someone else? This also brings up another question (Yes' date=' I know.. me and my questions:embarassed:) Would it hit you more if they splet with someone else or if they didn't but they did emotionally than with you?[/quote']

 

 

Yes...looking back now , I would have felt betrayed had the "shoe been on the other foot"....., but I wasn't given a chance to explain myself. I am now quite open with my current girlfriend about my postings...just as she is with hers. And although the net allows me to relax and be more open, I do not let it interfere with my daily life.

Yes...looking back now ' date=' I would have felt betrayed had the "shoe been on the other foot"....., but I wasn't given a chance to explain myself. I am now quite open with my current girlfriend about my postings...just as she is with hers. And although the net allows me to relax and be more open, I do not let it interfere with my daily life.[/quote']

 

I would too and sorry things didn't work out but I think we both would agree that communication is very important in a relationship :wink:

 

So what's your name anyway?:P:)

Like for example' date=' Eric and I used to be friends until our friendship or cyber friendship ended.[/quote']

aw :( I don't want our friendship to be over viri

Did she really post that? :o I could not find it

sorry for the randomly long post..... I don't know how to just move into this but I had to say it

 

well I lost a game of 2/3 paper rock scissors with andrea and now I have to tell our story :anxious:

 

... I used to be totally against relationships with people online until I started making some friends on forums I posted at like ... mmmmm, now I honestly think it almost makes MORE sense to meet someone online rather than at school or whatever cuz...... it's harder to find out what someone is really interested in for me at school........ :bigcry: why is this so hard??

 

andrea and I met on coldplaying and we like each other a lot. we are great friends, more than that, and we support each other and we wanted to meet because we have a good time together and who knows? maybe something will come out of our friendship. that's why we will meet.. if it doesnt happen then we are still great friends

Thanks for sharing eric..:)