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The radio doesn't give the name of the tracks anyways. The broadcasters should do that. To save a picture, right click (buy a right click mouse. none of this single button bullcrap) and click save image to the desktop. As for the CD issue, first rip it to iTunes then play it.

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Shyness Takes Over Me

 

I never really paid attention into how extremely shy I actually am until a couple of days ago. I've been shy for as long as I can remember and I realized that sometimes I tend to shut myself off and get lost within myself. I can avoid the whole wide world and look at that sky and see the beauty of it and how stuff like that still amazes me among other things.

 

I don't know on whether being shy is a good thing or not but sometimes it takes over me and over my life. I become very stubborn about it too and in situations when I feel forced into doing something and having to make a 10000 times extra effort and really forced in having to put that shyness to the side I always end up feeling really bad about it and keep my head down. It makes me feel stepped on and squased.

 

It gets out of hand sometimes too as to making other people feel awkward or just flat out say the wrong thing when I actually do know it or start sturrering. Yes I sturrer sometimes hahaha:laugh3::embarassed: and other times I end up doing things I simply cannot explain but are just as embarrasing as it can get.

 

 

PS: One of the nicest things someone has ever told me is that they could tell I was shy just by looking at my feet. Awwwwwwwwwwwwwww!!!!!! hahaha :nice:

 

Oh yeah, I forgot that this isn't really a discussion but more like

well let's make a discussion damn it.

 

 

Do you think being shy is a good thing or not or neither? (and just to make it fun to read). Tell us from a situation you did from being shy.:)

I too suffer from that problem..I think it's a bad thing because it can hold you back!!

 

As for a situation...not going to go there..:P

I've always been fairly shy. Sometimes I dont mind it, sometimes it pisses me off.

 

One time last term, one of my lecturers was quite rude about it...we were sitting in group of about 6 people (some of them really loud people) and she asked me in front of them all 'what was it like to be a quiet person'? I didnt really have the answer to that and it felt really condescending. She didnt ask them what it was like to be loud. and I felt like people who are shy are usually always put down for it.:dozey:

I see perfectly what you mean, guys...

 

My shyness takes over me really often...

And that's why I don't have any girlfriend, neither not that many friends...

Talking in front of ppl makes me blush a lot, and I become nervous... Even if those ppl are ppl I know...

I dunno if girls like shy guys...

 

I agree with Kara who said that shy ppl are put down... According to loud ppl, it sounds like a kinda disease....

 

And I know we can work on that shyness to make it less powerful...

 

I experienced that...

 

Before delivering drinks in wintersports cities, I was so shy and so quiet that even a member of my family could make me blush just talking to me...

 

If you get a job which forces you to get over that shyness, you'll feel more assured (cos I noticed that shyness is linked with the lack of assurance...), and less shy.

It's the only solution I found to get over that shyness...

I think of myself as just a fairly quiet person, whereas when i was younger i was most definitely very shy. I just think i have developed more confidence over the years. I still often think hard about what i'm about to say (more when i'm with people i don't know very well), but generally i'm a lot more relaxed.

 

A more interesting question is: Do Coldplay fans generally seem more shy in personality than outlandish and loud? Beacuse that's what it seem like to me.

If you get a job which forces you to get over that shyness, you'll feel more assured (cos I noticed that shyness is linked with the lack of assurance...), and less shy.

It's the only solution I found to get over that shyness...

 

I know exactly what you mean...I just got a job and I had my first official day yesterday and I have to be this outgoing and friendly "people-person". And normally, I'm the shy, quiet type. I don't know what it was, but I started asking the people I was working with what their name's were (usually I let others ask me first) and I made conversation....like I initialized it....

 

I guess it's cos you're gonna work with them for awhile now, that I must get to know them anyway...but I was even chatting up the guys that worked there (lmao) and took my break with them...

 

a job somehow is making me go beyond my shyness...really is.

I never really paid attention into how extremely shy I actually am until a couple of days ago. I've been shy for as long as I can remember and I realized that sometimes I tend to shut myself off and get lost within myself. I can avoid the whole wide world and look at that sky and see the beauty of it and how stuff like that still amazes me among other things.

 

I don't know on whether being shy is a good thing or not but sometimes it takes over me and over my life. I become very stubborn about it too and in situations when I feel forced into doing something and having to make a 10000 times extra effort and really forced in having to put that shyness to the side I always end up feeling really bad about it and keep my head down. It makes me feel stepped on and squased.

 

It gets out of hand sometimes too as to making other people feel awkward or just flat out say the wrong thing when I actually do know it or start sturrering. Yes I sturrer sometimes hahaha:laugh3::embarassed: and other times I end up doing things I simply cannot explain but are just as embarrasing as it can get.

 

 

PS: One of the nicest things someone has ever told me is that they could tell I was shy just by looking at my feet. Awwwwwwwwwwwwwww!!!!!! hahaha :nice:

 

Oh yeah, I forgot that this isn't really a discussion but more like

well let's make a discussion damn it.

 

 

Do you think being shy is a good thing or not or neither? (and just to make it fun to read). Tell us from a situation you did from being shy.:)

 

So really you're Liquidshy??:rolleyes:

Seriously, though - far better to be a bit shy than brash IMO.

Shyness can be a very endearing quality........................

i too am shy sometimes, but i can't help it.

i too am shy sometimes' date=' but i can't help it.[/quote']

 

So are you "Too shy-de-shy, hush hush, I-do-I"??:rolleyes:

sorry mate, i didn't get that, any translators round here...:D

I think of myself as just a fairly quiet person, whereas when i was younger i was most definitely very shy. I just think i have developed more confidence over the years. I still often think hard about what i'm about to say (more when i'm with people i don't know very well), but generally i'm a lot more relaxed.

 

A more interesting question is: Do Coldplay fans generally seem more shy in personality than outlandish and loud? Beacuse that's what it seem like to me.

 

Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm:thinking:

So really you're Liquidshy??:rolleyes:

Seriously, though - far better to be a bit shy than brash IMO.

Shyness can be a very endearing quality........................

 

At least when you are shy, you don't have to put your foot in your mouth a lot, like some people that are louder and more obnoxious.

 

Naturally, I'm very shy. But if I'm around people that I've known forever and I'm comfortable with them, I don't really care what I look like. So yeah I go crazy sometimes. :P Sometimes TOO crazy.....I've had many 'foot in my mouth' moments..... :sad2:

sorry mate' date=' i didn't get that, any translators round here...:D[/quote']

 

 

Don't worry mate....not many people do!!

I'm VERY shy. Maybe that's one reason girls don't like me:\

I think I am in the middle.

 

Sometimes shy,but I am not afraid of talking in front of people

i used to be alot shyer than i am today

i used to have certain blocks with talking and meeting new ppl, but it's certain things that happenned in my life that go more and more blocks down and im not so shy anymore

i just have stage fright because i cant stand the thought of a big amount of ppl looking at me all at the same time

but like, i'd have no problem having to read something or say something for alot of ppl so long as i cant see them looking at me

i used to be alot shyer than i am today

i used to have certain blocks with talking and meeting new ppl, but it's certain things that happenned in my life that go more and more blocks down and im not so shy anymore

i just have stage fright because i cant stand the thought of a big amount of ppl looking at me all at the same time

but like, i'd have no problem having to read something or say something for alot of ppl so long as i cant see them looking at me

 

Well that's a relief, or else you'd be green shyes........................... :rolleyes:

i used to be alot shyer than i am today

i used to have certain blocks with talking and meeting new ppl, but it's certain things that happenned in my life that go more and more blocks down and im not so shy anymore

 

me too. i used to think i could only really be myself when i was around my closest friends. but i realised that i can be pretty outgoing when i'm around people i feel comfortable with even if i dont know them well.

me too. i used to think i could only really be myself when i was around my closest friends. but i realised that i can be pretty outgoing when i'm around people i feel comfortable with even if i dont know them well.

 

yea... thats how i feel now

i think the thing that really made me change that lately is the fact that i share a room with 7 other girls now, so i have to feel free

and im with other ppl 24 hours a day... so i hardly feel reserved anymore because i have to let all my energy out. Which is something i usually do with my closest friends... but now i've gotten used to doing it with ppl i hardly even know :wacko:

This reminds me of a song:

 

"Shyness takes over me,

Shyness takes over me,

Shyness takes over me,

Shyness takes over me,

Stay away

Come back another day......................"

 

:rolleyes:

me too. i used to think i could only really be myself when i was around my closest friends. but i realised that i can be pretty outgoing when i'm around people i feel comfortable with even if i dont know them well.

I feel the same way.

 

I'm hardcore shy in some ways. Like I sometimes can't walk into a shop or a restaurant if I'm on my own. Also I hate phoning people up. I really do. I had lots of fights about it with my mother because she doesn't get it.

 

It really depends. In school I mostly find it easy talking in front of the class, or school concerts, I really don't mind being there (even though I had only been told what I'd play the day before, and had never played bass before :laugh3: ).

 

Really, it's so strange. Especially when I feel low or when there's someone that looks interesting or that I like.

 

So I feel comfortable if I'm either around friends or people I don't care about.

Thanks. I figured out how to save a picture (without the use of a mouse) and have a burned cd play on itunes without having it copied to the computer ;)

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