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Going Through My First Time of 20's thinking

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oh yeaaah!

wanna party eva lavigne? :P

 

WTF?

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oh yeaaah!

wanna party eva lavigne? :P

 

WTF?

 

That's what he calls her :P

if somebody call me mafe lavigne maybe i feel very offended

^haha :lol:

Oh man, I know this all too well. It hits us at random times. Suddenly.

 

For the longest time, my motto was "I dont want to grow up, I'm a Toys R Us kid!"

I even had a job there for a little while, didnt take it seriously.

I played video games all day, drank soda, ate pringles, and stayed skinny.

Was naive about relationships and needy when I was single.

Wrote cheezy love songs. Tried to be like John Mayer.

Listened to Dashboard Confessional.

Could care less about politics.

 

And one day I ran into a couple friends from highschool.

 

- one of them married with a kid.

- one of them married with two kids.

- they told me about all these people that I knew who got married and had kids.

 

Then I realized that I was a college drop-out and most everyone I graduated with had already graduated from College.

 

One day I stopped visiting my highschool, because everyone I knew had graduated.

 

One day I realized that Emo was annoying.

One day I realized that trying to be like John Mayer was really stupid and I stopped listening to music all-together for a while to cleanse myself of influences and find my own sound.

 

One day I got a job and started taking it seriously.

Opened a bank account.

Fell in love. This time it wasnt naive love.

Started taking music seriously and doing well in competitions.

Started drinking tea, and switched from Soda to beer.

Gave up Van Halen, got hooked on Badly Drawn Boy.

gave up Dashboard Confessional, got hooked on Sigur Ros.

Gave up John Mayer, got hooked on Rufus Wainwright.

Stopped listening to the radio. Stopped watching TV.

Stopped eating junk food when I started to realize that I couldnt eat whatever I wanted to anymore.

Started eating salads.

Started listening to Talk Radio and getting into Politics.

Started stuttering less.

Started actually reading and stopped using ADD as an excuse for not doing things.

 

 

 

And the biggest thing of all... Started talking about the future. Started planning things, being less spontaneous. Started setting goals.

 

Man, 20's doesnt come right away, but when it does, you're drowning in it.

Enjoy your life while you still can kiddies, don't stress out too much about what you should be doing and where you should be. You will all have time for this later when you are old and boring. ;)

I took my love and I took it down,

I climbed a mountain and I turned around,

And I saw my reflection in the snow-covered hills,

'Til the landslide brought it down.

 

Oh, mirror in the sky, what is love?

Can the child within my heart rise above?

Can I sail through the changin' ocean tides?

Can I handle the seasons of my life?

Mmm mmm, I don't know.

Mmm mmm.

 

Well I've been 'fraid of changin'

'Cause I've built my life around you,

But time makes you bolder, even children get older,

oh, I'm getting older too,

So...

 

I've been 'fraid of changin'

'Cause I've built my life around you,

But time makes you bolder, even children get older,

I'm getting older too,

I'm getting older too.

 

Oh, Take my love, take it down.

Oh, you climb a mountain and you turn around,

And if you see my reflection in the snow-covered hills,

Well, the landslide'll bring it down,

Oh, and if you see my reflection in the snow-covered hills,

The landslide will bring it down,

Oh, oh, the landslide will bring it down..

I'm not even 20.. :dozey: but I think it my case...it's because of an incident I had a couple of months back... :/

Enjoy your life while you still can kiddies' date=' don't stress out too much about what you should be doing and where you should be. You will all have time for this later when you are old and boring. ;)[/quote']

 

*I agree with the advice, but just how "old" do you have to be to be boring??

Did you ever felt like that Mark? :)

Nope - neither old nor boring. Age is only a state of mind........................

I didn' mean that... I meant..like David and some of us..

Have any of you here seen the episode of friends where Joey is watching how happy Chandler and Monica are together and then thinks that he is falling in love with Monica, then Rachel then Pheebs

 

I went through one of those sort of days today and It was really strange. Best way to explain it was I was talking to a friend of mine who was talking about getting married and how everything is all set up and how its all great etc and I began to think, well education hasnt got long to go now, and well, what am I gonna do when I finish Uni? I'm gonna want my own house, etc etc, and I dunno, I just kinda looked at her and was like really drawn in and the only thing that was going through my head was "I want this, I want this"...Its kinda passed now, it was only a temporary thing, but golly it was strange....

 

anyway, anyone had any similar experiences?

 

 

I had that a while ago when I was single. I wanted to have a relationship exactly like one of my best girlfriend's. Her boyfriend was so sweet and they were talking about marriage (mind you, it also freaked me out b/c they are only 20) but it was so nice to see that she found someone who she could actually think about that, ya know? I wanted that as well.

I had those moments too... I feel like I should be married already...But like you said...it's because of your friends. Most of my closes friends are married and have babies or are pregnant.... and I honestly don't think I'll ever get married because of other reasons and I don't want to get married either ...and a curse I have....yeah I'm gonna die young and I'm still traumatized... But my question is we are all born innocent and we are all sinners..because what is a sin anyways? we are born to be sinners, but my question is...What is the purpose of our creation? Is it because life is beautiful or because we are worth it? what? I want to find out about that some day and were do we go from here? yeah I have to many questions sorry

Oh man, I know this all too well. It hits us at random times. Suddenly.

 

For the longest time, my motto was "I dont want to grow up, I'm a Toys R Us kid!"

I even had a job there for a little while, didnt take it seriously.

I played video games all day, drank soda, ate pringles, and stayed skinny.

Was naive about relationships and needy when I was single.

Wrote cheezy love songs. Tried to be like John Mayer.

Listened to Dashboard Confessional.

Could care less about politics.

 

And one day I ran into a couple friends from highschool.

 

- one of them married with a kid.

- one of them married with two kids.

- they told me about all these people that I knew who got married and had kids.

 

Then I realized that I was a college drop-out and most everyone I graduated with had already graduated from College.

 

One day I stopped visiting my highschool, because everyone I knew had graduated.

 

One day I realized that Emo was annoying.

One day I realized that trying to be like John Mayer was really stupid and I stopped listening to music all-together for a while to cleanse myself of influences and find my own sound.

 

One day I got a job and started taking it seriously.

Opened a bank account.

Fell in love. This time it wasnt naive love.

Started taking music seriously and doing well in competitions.

Started drinking tea, and switched from Soda to beer.

Gave up Van Halen, got hooked on Badly Drawn Boy.

gave up Dashboard Confessional, got hooked on Sigur Ros.

Gave up John Mayer, got hooked on Rufus Wainwright.

Stopped listening to the radio. Stopped watching TV.

Stopped eating junk food when I started to realize that I couldnt eat whatever I wanted to anymore.

Started eating salads.

Started listening to Talk Radio and getting into Politics.

Started stuttering less.

Started actually reading and stopped using ADD as an excuse for not doing things.

 

 

 

And the biggest thing of all... Started talking about the future. Started planning things, being less spontaneous. Started setting goals.

 

Man, 20's doesnt come right away, but when it does, you're drowning in it.

 

 

Mark, I meant ^like that :)

:lol: well at least i'm not the only one, its pretty good for me that my life is pretty in order and I am so happy and everything...its just that....you know when it comes down to it, it may sound greedy but there is definately place for more...lol i blame it for being responsible and stuff you know cos then you get people saying things like, "damn you'd be a great husband". I mean god, who says that!!

 

anyways cheers for everything peeps! you know I love my peepulation...

 

and trust Ren to try and get it on with the girls on here when Im being serious :lol:

Oh man, I know this all too well. It hits us at random times. Suddenly.

 

For the longest time, my motto was "I dont want to grow up, I'm a Toys R Us kid!"

I even had a job there for a little while, didnt take it seriously.

I played video games all day, drank soda, ate pringles, and stayed skinny.

Was naive about relationships and needy when I was single.

Wrote cheezy love songs. Tried to be like John Mayer.

Listened to Dashboard Confessional.

Could care less about politics.

 

And one day I ran into a couple friends from highschool.

 

- one of them married with a kid.

- one of them married with two kids.

- they told me about all these people that I knew who got married and had kids.

 

Then I realized that I was a college drop-out and most everyone I graduated with had already graduated from College.

 

One day I stopped visiting my highschool, because everyone I knew had graduated.

 

One day I realized that Emo was annoying.

One day I realized that trying to be like John Mayer was really stupid and I stopped listening to music all-together for a while to cleanse myself of influences and find my own sound.

 

One day I got a job and started taking it seriously.

Opened a bank account.

Fell in love. This time it wasnt naive love.

Started taking music seriously and doing well in competitions.

Started drinking tea, and switched from Soda to beer.

Gave up Van Halen, got hooked on Badly Drawn Boy.

gave up Dashboard Confessional, got hooked on Sigur Ros.

Gave up John Mayer, got hooked on Rufus Wainwright.

Stopped listening to the radio. Stopped watching TV.

Stopped eating junk food when I started to realize that I couldnt eat whatever I wanted to anymore.

Started eating salads.

Started listening to Talk Radio and getting into Politics.

Started stuttering less.

Started actually reading and stopped using ADD as an excuse for not doing things.

 

 

 

And the biggest thing of all... Started talking about the future. Started planning things, being less spontaneous. Started setting goals.

 

Man, 20's doesnt come right away, but when it does, you're drowning in it.

 

good for you and it makes sense...your growing up traces......hmmm...

 

it is really hard to explain, i just know for love/marriage, it is like Right Time, Right Place, and Right Person...I am not dorky...you learn it from your failure..this time, it is not the right time; next place, it is not a proper place...

 

All the other things, like you need to know yourself better, know how to control yourself, how to realize a dream in real life, how to build relationship with this world, people, job, money, music..you know something is easy for you, something is just hard...Naiveness -- sorry, it is really only an excuse for Escaping...you need to face it, if you don't know you, learn, if you are lack of courage, do...

 

If you don't want to be hurt, you never grow up.

 

You need to be shallow for a while,

need to be confused for a while,

need to be twisted for a while,

need to be unstable for a while,

then you are becoming a MAN, i mean for all the young people...

 

and one day, when you look back, you gonna cry quietly, but smile as well and Appreciate this bloody exciting life, and all the people who walk along with you! Some may leave you ever around you, no where they have gone but stay in your heart more closely, eternaly!

 

I am just Soo emotional..Thanks for the thread and cheers for our Time!!!

:) no probs ;)

^haha :lol:

 

:rolleyes: :lol: :lol:

:dozey:

I admit that, im a music geek, when i was 12 i used t turn down parties and stay at home til really late trying to learn to play my guitar haha, i've been in like 20 diff bands and last year i was part of this huge radio contest gig..man. best day of my life :cool:

That and i was on tv this year playing reptilia on a local tv station..i looked so good in that white suit :charming:

 

You never showed me the pictures! :P

oh, i will next time i see ya :P

Renwick...the flirty bitch :P

If you don't want to be hurt, you never grow up.

It doesn't matter if you want to get hurt or not...and of course everybody does not want to get hurt..but in time you will get hurt for what happened or for what it never happened..for what you had or for what you never had...so it doesn't really matter...everybody hurts..everybody cries..everybody hurts, everybody cries...sometimes.. :earmuffs: (that song just came to my mind ;) )

 

oh, i will next time i see ya

 

Is today the "next time"? :idea2:

Oh man, I know this all too well. It hits us at random times. Suddenly.

 

For the longest time, my motto was "I dont want to grow up, I'm a Toys R Us kid!"

I even had a job there for a little while, didnt take it seriously.

I played video games all day, drank soda, ate pringles, and stayed skinny.

Was naive about relationships and needy when I was single.

Wrote cheezy love songs. Tried to be like John Mayer.

Listened to Dashboard Confessional.

Could care less about politics.

 

And one day I ran into a couple friends from highschool.

 

- one of them married with a kid.

- one of them married with two kids.

- they told me about all these people that I knew who got married and had kids.

 

Then I realized that I was a college drop-out and most everyone I graduated with had already graduated from College.

 

One day I stopped visiting my highschool, because everyone I knew had graduated.

 

One day I realized that Emo was annoying.

One day I realized that trying to be like John Mayer was really stupid and I stopped listening to music all-together for a while to cleanse myself of influences and find my own sound.

 

One day I got a job and started taking it seriously.

Opened a bank account.

Fell in love. This time it wasnt naive love.

Started taking music seriously and doing well in competitions.

Started drinking tea, and switched from Soda to beer.

Gave up Van Halen, got hooked on Badly Drawn Boy.

gave up Dashboard Confessional, got hooked on Sigur Ros.

Gave up John Mayer, got hooked on Rufus Wainwright.

Stopped listening to the radio. Stopped watching TV.

Stopped eating junk food when I started to realize that I couldnt eat whatever I wanted to anymore.

Started eating salads.

Started listening to Talk Radio and getting into Politics.

Started stuttering less.

Started actually reading and stopped using ADD as an excuse for not doing things.

 

 

 

And the biggest thing of all... Started talking about the future. Started planning things, being less spontaneous. Started setting goals.

 

Man, 20's doesnt come right away, but when it does, you're drowning in it.

 

these are the kind of things that i read and then i think to myself, i am soo immature. i haven't figured out life yet. and i'm two years older. :P

ah well..

:lol: everyone wants things at different times!

 

its no big deal :)

ahh thanks!

 

yaaayy!!! let's all be 5 years old untill we die!! :lol:

 

can you tell i'm in denial?? :P

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