Why is it that when you like or fancy someone loads, the tendancy tends to be (well it might just be me) they dont fancy you back or are spoken for.

And then you find someone else fancy you loads, but you dont fancy them.... is it just me or are there others out there that face the same situation...

 

Its seems to happen to me all the time.... !

well the first part happens to me but not the second, i don't ever find that people fancy me loads i'm afraid, or if they are out there i haven't found them

Well the second part does not happen, that often but it has a few times... !!

Tell me about it...

Maybe it's just coz I like guys who give off a 'safe' vibe - hence => tend not interested in that way... :rolleyes:

totally, and i tend to somehow end up friends with the guys i like which so doesn't work out the way you'd like

Tell me about it...

Maybe it's just coz I like guys who give off a 'safe' vibe - hence => tend not interested in that way... :rolleyes:

hmmm I have done this, but I can not help being friendly and it I think it may give of confusing signals. Then I have to do the right thing, sometimes which might hurt them and go on about someone I fancy or have fancied... and I end up losing them as a friend !

Everyone fancies me, Im too good for anyone, I jerk off. :cool3:

*jeff off :wideeyed:

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Ive been so clumbsy thumbs while youve been gone :sick:

 

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it's okay ;)

 

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becausse they get jealous that the attention isnt focused on them anymore... beware of these... beause they may not be 'really into you'... they just chase you out of spite. :cool:

Yeah I got this a lot, It's when you find out 5 months later that they're going out with your/her best friends brother though

Tell me about it...

Maybe it's just coz I like guys who give off a 'safe' vibe - hence => tend not to be interested in that way... :rolleyes:

hmmm I have done this, but I can not help being friendly and it I think it may give of confusing signals. Then I have to do the right thing, sometimes which might hurt them and go on about someone I fancy or have fancied... and I end up losing them as a friend !

 

Aww.. that's too bad. I wouldn't do that to a guy, after all it's partly my fault too if I misconstrued... I'd rather have a friend than none at all. Besides, it is good to know that there are guys who like you for who you are as a person rather than just somebody to go out with n stuff :D

well maybe both sexes have to fall in love together :/

or ppl just like to play hard to get...cos it makes them feel better and more interestin :confused: ...even tho they may realy like u....or maybe it is just a test to see how strongly u want them

pfff girls!! :P