Well I live in an area where are only small villages so I see on every party in the area of 30km the same people it's getting on my nervs :angry:

 

Sounds very familiar to me. :embarrased:

And every time I go to cologne which is 100km away from me,I think "Oh here are so many different people and some look so nice..."

I know that feeling. But don't you think you'll have to leave your village pretty soon, because you will have to work or to study in another town?

a whisper, it seems like you're sort of pressured, but i've never been in a relationship either and it does bother me sometimes, but whatever.

we r young- and in the end it won't matter WHEN it'll happen for u, but HOW!!!

yes greeneyes88 there you are totally right!

 

@sally:In 2 years when i have my Abitur I will move to cologne or Mainz and study there.

a whisper, it seems like you're sort of pressured, but i've never been in a relationship either and it does bother me sometimes, but whatever.

we r young- and in the end it won't matter WHEN it'll happen for u, but HOW!!!

 

That's true. :) That pressure ain't a good thing at all. Especially if you have a realashionship with someone you don't really love. :/

i don't live in a small town but the guys here are soo horny and immature- i wish i could find someone abit bigger ... they seem to be like that all over the city. And all the normal, my age guys, are taken or they don't really go out alot to parties and stuff

i'm gald i've only got one more year left of high school :)

@sally:In 2 years when i have my Abitur I will move to cologne or Mainz and study there.

 

That's not that much time :) ...I probably will have to leave this place in year to go studying. And I think there gonna be some thing that I will miss about it as well even though I alwys wanted to live in a town.

i don't live in a small town but the guys here are soo horny and immature- i wish i could find someone abit bigger ... they seem to be like that all over the city.

 

Do you live in Isreal?

 

 

I know what you mean. I got this feeling a bit when I went to Barcelona for holidays. But don't get me wrong, there were nice guys as well. Just their behaviour was different then here.

yes... i hate alot of the guys i see out- their behavious is really disgusting

and all the guys i liked were taken or out of my league... and there were a few opportunities missed, i guess....

yes... i hate alot of the guys i see out- their behavious is really disgusting

and all the guys i liked were taken or out of my league... and there were a few opportunities missed, i guess....

 

Well, I sometimes like it when people start talkin to you and I wish they would do it more often here because I'm to shy shy to start talking to them sometimes. But if some guys just talk to every girl who is passing by they don't really think they take you serious. They don't care who you are. They just want someone. That's what I dislike.

yes that's excatly how it is, and the way they come to u it's not like really coming to talk to u, it's hitting on u. Like they come and start touching u from the back, or use phrases like:

"is your father a gardner? because he raised a flower" and

"Did it hurt?" ... "when u fell from heaven?"

it's sooo stupid!!!!

Exactly. I hate those comments. Maybe not everyone is like this but you just the impression those boys only wanna sleep with you.

I'm always just a mate for the guys I know but not more...

atleast u get to meet decent guys- here it's even very hard to find mates

i'm not saying all the guys r like that, cause i have met guys i liked, it's just like they're hiding... i never met a decent guy at a party. Downtown there r decent guys on fridays, i go there too, but alot of the are drunk lol- including me, so it's sorta hard that way :)

The guys I get along very well are always the guys who are in a relationship because they are not in a search and so you can talk to them without thinking which opinion he has about me.

sall, a whisper- had a nice chat with you.... i'm going to watch some TV

 

c u around ;) chao

I'm always just a mate for the guys I know but not more...

 

Hm, maybe it's about you treat them. They don't even realise you want to be more than just friends. But it's very difficult if you have been friend with someone for a long time.

sall, a whisper- had a nice chat with you.... i'm going to watch some TV

 

c u around ;) chao

 

Bye. See ya! :)

sall, a whisper- had a nice chat with you.... i'm going to watch some TV

 

c u around ;) chao

 

bye bye greeneyes88 thanks for your advices :D

 

 

Well, I don't know how I treat guys,but I'm too shy to show someone that I want more...

I'm not in a relationship. :(

welcome to the club :D

sall, a whisper- had a nice chat with you.... i'm going to watch some TV

 

c u around ;) chao

 

bye bye greeneyes88 thanks for your advices :D

 

 

Well, I don't know how I treat guys,but I'm too shy to show someone that I want more...

 

I'm too shy often to. It's very difficult sometimes.

 

I haven't been in a relashionship since November too. But I have the feeling I could be in one soon.

well I think another problem is,that I'm scared about a relationship.On the one hand I think I want to have one,but when I know there will be soon a relationship I get scared.It's so stupid...

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