Well, guys.. he is my best friend. And I want him there. He himself wants to be there, so I guess it is settled. I am happy to see him when I come home. And it really isn't an issue.

^ Well' date=' I like to have him around, it makes me happy. And we just moved in together on a lease for a year in May.. so it will be some time. And I want to recover and understand what is going on. And he still cares about me and loves me as a friend. I am happy that he is still here.[/quote']

 

I wans't trying to be harsh Justine, just honest.

I completely understand why you want him around and for your sake, I hope you get back together. It will be harder for you to have him around though if you continue to stay broken up. Sorry if I upset you at all.

It is not harder, it helps.

Justine' date=' I am sorry for your situation but it is not good that you two are still living together. For either of you to heal, space is needed. It would be impossible for me to stay with an ex-boyfriend as friends and still live with him. :/[/quote']

 

That's what I said, too......................

 

I didn't know that. :cool:

It is not harder' date=' it helps.[/quote']

 

ok :)

Settled Thank You. If anyone wants to help.. you can help me understand what is happening, please do not pick at what it is that I am doing that makes me happy. It is VERY hard for me to be happy now so if I can be content with something, that is good enough and makes me a little less fucking angry at this whole retarded stupid situation!

Justine, I wasn't trying to pick, I was trying to help. Now that I know, I won't pick :)

Ok. No problem. I know that you only meant good.

:)

Justine! If I were in your situation, it would drive me nuts to be around him all of the time, but I'm glad it's working out for you. Actually... I was with my boyfriend for about 4 to 5 months last year before he broke up with me. So, we were apart for 7 months, and... well, I don't know. It was horrible, but things get better... with or without that somebody. Give it time.

So you got back together?

:cry:

:cry:

 

What's wrong?

First love, lost love, love bad, leg sad.

That's sweet. That happened to me too.

So you got back together?

 

Well... yeah... We did. About four months ago. But looking back on the entire thing... I'm really glad he left me, actually.

 

But all through that time that he wasn't with me, I missed him. So, my point was... it definitely takes time, but... you'll be okay.

So you got back together?

 

Well... yeah... We did. About four months ago. But looking back on the entire thing... I'm really glad he left me, actually.

 

But all through that time that he wasn't with me, I missed him. So, my point was... it definitely takes time, but... you'll be okay.

 

Hmm odd. You were glad that he left you why?

i'm in a forbidden relationship!! mwhhahahahahaha :lol:

 

naah!

So you got back together?

 

Well... yeah... We did. About four months ago. But looking back on the entire thing... I'm really glad he left me, actually.

 

But all through that time that he wasn't with me, I missed him. So, my point was... it definitely takes time, but... you'll be okay.

 

Hmm odd. You were glad that he left you why?

 

Not at the time, no. I was devastated, but this time around it's not like it was last summer. It's a lot better. We're a lot closer than we were before and we're moe sure of what it is that we want from each other... And we're a lot more open and honest with each other, and we communicate really well. It just kind of changed the relationship... really, really improving it.

That sounds really great. I really, really hope that happens to me. :)

 

Why did you break up? And how long before you got back together?

We broke up because he said he just didn't feel the same for me. He got bored with it, didn't love me anymore, whatever... and we were broken up for seven months until this past March when we started getting close again just before I went to Chicago for Spring Break. And then... well maybe two weeks later, we were back together.

That sounds like part of the reason that my boyfriend and I broke up. Was there anything that lead to these feelings of being bored with it and not loving you anymore? (Sorry if I am being nosey, I just really need advice and like hearing from people with similar experiences.)

relationships are evil! :stunned:

evil like Paul! mwhahahaa

haaaaaaaaaa...so I want him now!... :sneaky: