Signs - independence, contempt for popular people, contempt for popular events

WTF??

he feels a loathing for popular people...

 

for, as he said, they only know what is in their "popular" worlds

:)

o.o

So which one am I? :idea2: :P How are you Eric? Everything allright today? :)

I love popular people...their very nice...atleast to me..they got my back...

I don't like popular people either...Most of popular people are selfish and arrogant... :/

thats just a stereotype...most popular kids are nice.

So which one am I? :idea2: :P How are you Eric? Everything allright today? :)

I don't know :P and yea, today was okay. I had some very weird feelings :stunned:

So which one am I? :idea2: :P How are you Eric? Everything allright today? :)

I don't know :P and yea, today was okay. I had some very weird feelings :stunned:

 

:stunned: Weird Feelings? Explain? :stunned: Tell me about them :stunned: well if you want to anyway :P But I gotta go now. Lost is on! :stunned: :kiss:

So which one am I? :idea2: :P How are you Eric? Everything allright today? :)

I don't know :P and yea, today was okay. I had some very weird feelings :stunned:

 

:stunned: Weird Feelings? Explain? :stunned: Tell me about them :stunned: well if you want to anyway :P But I gotta go now. Lost is on! :stunned: :kiss:

well I've been feeling a lot of weird feelings but today (and yesterday) I realized a few things. I've always wanted to be more professional and well, yesterday I tried it at work and it was pretty nice. But then today I felt like being really nice to my ex and apologising for being really mean to her :uhoh: then I waved really nicely to someone today just for no reason (which I never have done before) and I actually felt really nice :P but then the feeling subsided very quickly... not sure why :lol: I think it's because my mouth hurts because I burnt it :P

So which one am I? :idea2: :P How are you Eric? Everything allright today? :)

I don't know :P and yea, today was okay. I had some very weird feelings :stunned:

 

:stunned: Weird Feelings? Explain? :stunned: Tell me about them :stunned: well if you want to anyway :P But I gotta go now. Lost is on! :stunned: :kiss:

well I've been feeling a lot of weird feelings but today (and yesterday) I realized a few things. I've always wanted to be more professional and well, yesterday I tried it at work and it was pretty nice. But then today I felt like being really nice to my ex and apologising for being really mean to her :uhoh: then I waved really nicely to someone today just for no reason (which I never have done before) and I actually felt really nice :P but then the feeling subsided very quickly... not sure why :lol: I think it's because my mouth hurts because I burnt it :P

 

Sounds like you had a lovely day. :P How did the ex took it? :idea2: :P Okies, me going now.. I'm chatting too much, take care good night,

buh - bye :smiley:

I didn't get to talk to her ... I was hoping I could catch her as she was walking out at church but I didn't... have fun watching lost!! :P

(Don't take any of this the wrong way, or anything ya'll)

 

 

I am pretty popular around these parts. I am known all over school, you know, people know my name and the things I do (cuz I dunno, I am just the type to do what is on my mind, crazy stuff)... I do not say that from me being like,

UN modest...I say it because people call me, they talk to me, ask me for advice and come to me when they need help and all.

 

that means being popular to me. Like if you are known for certain traits (they don't have to be negative)

 

I have many friends and few close ones ( I like it that way) Like, being popular is always associated with being negative and arrogant, in their own little group of people like them.... (that must be the popular you meant, Eric)

 

I dunno what I am trying to say exactly, just that popularity is not just a bad thing

 

:confused:

it's people that depend on friends to hang out with that are pathetic

who does that?

who doesn't do that??

it's people that depend on friends to hang out with that are pathetic

 

sweetie, if you were alone alllll the time, you would go nuts! :freak:

 

You have to have some friends you can't be a-social all the time.

 

I know you have friends that you hang out with, and all. I just worry that maybe you feel different, or i dunno :/

it's people that depend on friends to hang out with that are pathetic

 

sweetie, if you were alone alllll the time, you would go nuts! :freak:

 

You have to have some friends you can't be a-social all the time.

 

I know you have friends that you hang out with, and all. I just worry that maybe you feel different, or i dunno :/

you have nooo idea miss how anti-social I am often

Sorry Eric, but this kinda ethic looks more like it belongs to a 12 year old, one with acne.

 

Crystal made a good point.

 

Why are people popular? People dont get popular by being horrible to everyone, they do it by being nice.

 

But- there are those who gain popularity and power by being mean, I've seen it happen. They drag people in with a fake niceness and then turn on them when they need something done. When they have dragged in enough people, singling some of them out to criticise leaves the person looking more exclusive and they know this, and thus more people flock to them.

 

Its an unlikely situation to see past the ages of 16. Thats when the real world begins to take over. It makes me wonder why you are still stuck there, as a 21 year old, Eric. (With all due respect)

maybe I am a 12 year old with acne then :rolleyes:

You remind me of my best friend.

 

He's anti-popular, and I'm his only friend, full stop. He doesnt hang around with anyone besides me, he hates people who have friends and are in popular situations (Which is odd because he knows that I am quite popular and have an active social life).

 

I dont even hang out with him that much. We're pretty close but for the most part I try to keep in contact with him, he always returns my calls and such but if I didnt call him it would probably take a few weeks before he'd call me. Thats how anti social he is.

 

What he does is judge people without getting to know them. He feels that distancing himself from scary popular groups of people is a bubble of safety, he knows that socially you are bound to be rejected by somebody, and he's just not willing to put himself out on the line like that.

 

Sometimes I find myself hanging out with the same people that he loathes, and it's remarkable how once you get to know them, the anti-social and social are the exact same kind of person with different irrelevant attributes.

would you hang out with me if I was a 12 year old kid with acne? My real friends aren't the ones I have fun with and make jokes with. They're the kids who look up to me and I look up to them.

But Whyyy is my question to you Eric? What pushes you to now want to hang around people too much...i mean, it has to be something.

 

I know why I am like that ...but what about you?