I kissed a friend

Ching-ching cha linga ling

It was ok

Chinga ling

But she was a friend

Chinga ling

And now we're at an ends

Ching-ching cha linga ling

 

A song for you all.

 

So I kissed my friend tonight, only for a minute, and now I dont know where I stand with her, and vice versa.

 

The taxi ride was awkward enough, I cant imagine tomorow...

thanx 4 da song but..........never kiss a friend!!!!!!! :chinese:

Have you considered becoming a songwriter?

Um, did u talk to her after it, or what? Did you kiss her or vice versa?

When boy and girl are friends,

One day with kiss all ends...

I kissed a friend

Ching-ching cha linga ling

It was ok

Chinga ling

But she was a friend

Chinga ling

And now we're at an ends

Ching-ching cha linga ling

 

A song for you all.

 

So I kissed my friend tonight, only for a minute, and now I dont know where I stand with her, and vice versa.

 

The taxi ride was awkward enough, I cant imagine tomorow...

 

Oh geez, I am a professional ruiner of friendships. Same thing happened to me sort of. Thing is me and my friend like each other, but we had a big argument and I haven't spoken to him for 2 months. It's quite sad...

Have you considered becoming a songwriter?

Um, did u talk to her after it, or what? Did you kiss her or vice versa?

 

We talked a bit but I didnt talk to her, just casually, in the taxi and walking back to our building (She lives in my building) with our other friend, it was quite awkward.

 

I kissed her, but she was getting so close to me before that, if she wasnt aiming to kiss me then she sure was confusing the boy.

 

Oh geez' date=' I am a professional ruiner of friendships. Same thing happened to me sort of. Thing is me and my friend like each other, but we had a big argument and I haven't spoken to him for 2 months. It's quite sad...[/quote']

 

Thats frightening!

 

I'm sorry about it Charlz. I dont know if me and her will get in a fight over it, it's just a bit awkward.

 

All in all, I think we'll easily work past a little kiss. Its just a tiny bit weird for the time being.

The only advice I can give you is to be honest with each other. I haven't mentioned this before on the board but basically we got really close, I went round to his and it was all good for weeks. He decided that it was not going to work and was going to go on a date with another girl without letting me know. It was a big deal for me cos we're quite close and I've known him for so long, I don't see why he couldn't tell me. Needless to say we had a huge bust-up, and I have found out through my spies that he never did go on that date. Perhaps there is hope...

:wacko:

That sucks.That's the easiest way to lose friend and to break your heart in one moment.Every time I think about any of my friends I tell myself that I'll never fall in love with some of them.Never...never.....whah.

I just saw her in the hallway, like, way down the other end of the building. But her back was turned and she didnt see me as I leaped into my room.

 

Should it be this awkward?

 

Charl your situation kinda sucks, but I suppose there's hope if he didnt go on that date but first you have to get your friendship back I think, which is better then nothing.

 

Good luck with that.

 

Last night my plan was for today, to talk with her and discuss it, how it shouldnt have really happened. But my plan now is to run away and then act like nothing has happened when I do see her.

:wacko:

 

Thank you. On behalf of me, and Charl too.

I just saw her in the hallway, like, way down the other end of the building. But her back was turned and she didnt see me as I leaped into my room.

 

Should it be this awkward?

 

Charl your situation kinda sucks, but I suppose there's hope if he didnt go on that date but first you have to get your friendship back I think, which is better then nothing.

 

Good luck with that.

 

Last night my plan was for today, to talk with her and discuss it, how it shouldnt have really happened. But my plan now is to run away and then act like nothing has happened when I do see her.

 

 

I know, I don't think we're ready to get our friendship back though. It's hard though trying to ignore him when I he's at work!

In regards to your situation hmmmm. Can you see the two of you going somewhere in that way? I mean it's gonna be awkward anyway hehe seeing as you have been just friends. I don't know it's all so complex. Damn relationships...

Its especially awkward because we've gone out drinking and partying so many times as friends, and we've even set eachother up with other girls or boys, and it was all so comfy. She was a great mate for going out and such, as well as just hanging around my building doing nothing. And now I fear it may have changed, just a little, especially for going out, the next time shes going out with her friends (Who are also sortof my friends, just not as close) she may not be just as comfortable asking me.

 

But I would go out, because I'd never let myself kiss her again, we just wouldnt work going in that direction.

Hmm well if you two have never had that kind of vibe going on and you're good mates I don't see why you can't get past this! Me and this guy have always had this weird chemistry between us, I can't remember when we last just relaxed in each other's company as 'just friends'.

I think you can get past this though, I really do, as long as she is thinking along the same lines as you are.

Last night my plan was for today, to talk with her and discuss it, how it shouldnt have really happened. But my plan now is to run away and then act like nothing has happened when I do see her.

 

NEVER tell a girl "this shouldnt have happened" Reilly!!! You said it yourself that she was getting closer and closer to you, so she probably wanted it, if u said that to her she would either be really sad or mad.

 

But about the whole kissing friends thing... I actually dont have anything against it... ive kissed friends before, of course its a bit awkward just after it happened, but later things always seem to work out and go to what it was before... (sometimes it doesnt, but most of the times it worked out for me).

 

Your new plan seems to be good enough except for the running away part... why in gods name are you running away? doesnt make sense unless shes a scary person... :thinking:

Dont pretend like nothing happened, just treat hr the same way u always do... maybe eventually u'll get to the point of making jokes about "that day the 2 of u kissed" (yeah, it does get to that point)

:laugh4:

Well me and him were out last night with other people and got a bit pissed and I kinda made up with him. But I dunno how he feels about me, he kept standing right in front of me flirting and acting silly with other people. I don't know why that is! Any thoughts, cos I am confused!

Reilly, u have to talk to her, it may turn out its not really that bigger deal and u can move forward. she might have liked it as much as u might have?!

Its weird that this thread comes back, as I've talked to her this morning

 

NEVER tell a girl "this shouldnt have happened" Reilly!!! You said it yourself that she was getting closer and closer to you, so she probably wanted it, if u said that to her she would either be really sad or mad.

 

But about the whole kissing friends thing... I actually dont have anything against it... ive kissed friends before, of course its a bit awkward just after it happened, but later things always seem to work out and go to what it was before... (sometimes it doesnt, but most of the times it worked out for me).

 

Your new plan seems to be good enough except for the running away part... why in gods name are you running away? doesnt make sense unless shes a scary person... :thinking:

Dont pretend like nothing happened, just treat hr the same way u always do... maybe eventually u'll get to the point of making jokes about "that day the 2 of u kissed" (yeah, it does get to that point)

:laugh4:

 

I did talk to her as I normally would, but I wanted to run away from talking about us kissing, and we talked about it. We kinda laughed at first, and I should have read your advice before this morning, as I told her it was something that was silly and 'shouldny have happened'

 

Agh. Bleagh. Her face just, dropped I guess, she was really defensive, asked me "Well what was wrong with it?" and that lead us down an awful road of talking about how good it actually was, which of course lead to an awkward silence when we realised what we were talking about.

 

I'm not going to see her for a few weeks so I gave her a hug, which was also kindof awkward, as well as the way we just looked at eachother. Was that sexual?

 

I hate this, I haaate it. If I hadn't have taken us to talk about how it was good, we would've easily just brushed it off. And now I think we're both thinking about whether or not we'd like a good friend as a partner.

 

I know I am.

Well me and him were out last night with other people and got a bit pissed and I kinda made up with him. But I dunno how he feels about me' date=' he kept standing right in front of me flirting and acting silly with other people. I don't know why that is! Any thoughts, cos I am confused![/quote']

 

It sounds confusing!

 

Maybe he was trying to make you jealous?

That's what I was thinking. He is FIERCELY guarded about the way he feels and I don't think he would admit to himself that he has feelings for me.

 

And good luck with whatever happens with your friend. So you are thinking about her in a more than friendly manner then?

charl, it sounds like he is being guarded and what not. i bet he still likes you...

 

Reilly, yep a big no-no with the "it was a stupid mistake" thing :D .

 

And now I think we're both thinking about whether or not we'd like a good friend as a partner.

man thats such a weird feeling... the knots in ur stomach... i hate it when its not resolved :( ... and ur not seeing her for ages? man that'll suck... i would mull it round in my head for days then sorta get over it (but not fully, it would come back again when she would come back...).

 

haha ive drunkenly kissed friends before, we laugh about it afterwards. but its different obviously...

^Ah look at you with your little nuggets of advice! Thank you's :nice:

hee hee i like nuggets :nice:

and cheese :wideeyed:

have you ever tried nuggets dipped in cheese? i sure havent :disappointed:

Ooh no, I'm fussy about how I eat cheese. haha

cheddar mmm...