Bye Julia.... I don't know u [i'm new] but.... Everybody is telling "Goodbye" so I wanted to do it, too :D

:stunned:

 

Juliaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa! :cry:

 

I'm gonna miss you!!! And your lovely pictures!!! :bigcry:

 

Hope you achieve everything you wish for, and whatever you get up to you have lots of fun. Take care of yourself hun, you are a very special lady!

 

:kiss: :kiss: :kiss:

Aww Jules has gone :cry: My first real accuaintance on here.

 

Anyway, I respect and understand your decision, and I'm sure you will be able to reach your goals. So, until we meet again then...

Julia,just one thing,you will do another thingsf and that's why you are leaving this place?,or you are going to stop coming here to have the time to do another things?

 

You are so young and I guess that you are adding extra pressure

Julia,just one thing,you will do another thingsf and that's why you are leaving this place?,or you are going to stop coming here to have the time to do another things?

 

You are so young and I guess that you are adding extra pressure

 

what do you mean by that?

 

*edit: Oh...I think i get what you mean....I mean that I have to to some other things......to organise some other,important things in my life....and I know when I say I'll come here for some minutes...it won't work...it would end in hours....

so....I'll have to leave or to try to come here nt that often anymore...

awwwwwwwwwwww Julia! :( its so sad to see you go... but u really understand why u are doing this.... i just hope to see you here again as soon as possible :) hope u have a great time and luck in doing wtever u are about to do :kiss: :kiss: u will sure be missed around here.

------------------------------------------------ BIRDS -----------------------------------------------

Once upon a time there was a girl called Rachel. She was living her most beautiful years in the life, her teen ages. Her life was very ordinary except for one thing: she had a passion of birds that she cannot live without them. There was an open area about 500m away from her house and on that area everyday hundreds, thousands of birds came and ate bird food.Rachel visited and talked to birds on that area every day, and somehow, she felt relieved after being together with them. She was so happy as if she was in heaven. She had gone to the birds for months and years and made a lot of friends. Some birds began to talk with her and listened to her when she needed. Of course she wasn't talking with every single bird; in fact birds didn't remain the same. Some days new birds came or some birds gave up going to that area. However; Rachel loved all of them.

 

One day Rachel realized that she was spending a lot of waste time together with the birds. Although she wanted to be with them, she knew that she had a school and had friends around. She had to study and should spend time with "real" friends in the "real" world. She thought on this a lot and decided to say goodbye to the birds. That was a really hard choice for her but she had to do something and she chose this option. At first, she thought she couldn't do that but it wasn't as hard as she thought. She didn't go to the area in the very first week.That week was a bit difficult but soon she got used to it. The situation was similar in the birds' side. Most of the birds even wasn't aware of her not coming.

Days passed,seasons changed and Rachel became an adult. She had had a very successful school life and had a good job. Also, she had a lot of friends around her and got on well with them.

 

She had a very good environment and opportunities.Nevertheless; there was something missing in her life. Yes,she knew it, too. She knew the reason why she wasn't as happy as the days when she was going and talking to birds.The reason was simple: She was talking everything and everything with birds and she had nothing inside her disturbing herself. Moreover, she was in such a "different world" with the birds that she could take herself outside the "exhaustive and painful" world. Yes,she definitely knew it,the problem was that she hadn't allocated time for the "unreal world".

 

Now,being in her middle ages, Rachel thinks that she would be happier, if she had continued her "bird therapy". But, of course, it is too late for her to change her life. "If only I chose living "real" and "unreal" world together," she cries -again in herself- "If only I chose the birds..."

 

------------------------------------------ THE END---------------------------------------------------

*** For those who want to say goodbye. Is there any ???

good luck Julia!!

what do you mean by that?

 

*edit: Oh...I think i get what you mean....I mean that I have to to some other things......to organise some other,important things in my life....and I know when I say I'll come here for some minutes...it won't work...it would end in hours....

so....I'll have to leave or to try to come here nt that often anymore...

 

What I want to say is simple:

 

Sometimes I try to do something with the wrong motivation.When you do the things that way normally the things goes wrong.I am 23 years old and I figure out of a lot of things in my life years ago,even months or weeks.I HAD TO WAIT.

You are young and you have time,so my opinion is try to find the right motivation,for example if you want a new job,well search one,but only if you think that's the thing you want to do.Is like when you decide to learn to drive,some people learn beacuse their friends drive or because they want a car.Maybe you did it because you want it.

 

And I will put an example:

I use to post here more often and talk with some of you more often too,but since a months,my routine change ,I have a new job and sometimes I can't post the way I want.I change it,but I never traumatize myself with the idea of change my schedule or that I HAVE to do this or do that,I just cahnge it.Is not easy.Sometimes the most you want something,the less you achieve it.

 

And if you want to do something different just remember this 2 things:

*Priorities

*And do the things you like and the things you are good at.

Oh Julia, I'm so sad after reading this thread... It was a great time here with you and I really enjoyed writing to you. But well, it's your decision and I really hope you'll have an amazing time with your "real" friends. Hope we'll see you here once a week. That would be fantastic. :)

:bigcry: :bigcry:

awww julia

you were one of the first peoples i came to speak to alot on here

:nice:

i will misss you

and i know we haven't spoken frequently in a while

but that's because i did the same thing you did

and decided i needed to stop using the internet as much as i did and spend more time doing "constructive" and "important" things

i know this place is lovely and all

but it still is alot of time

and if you can't control yourself like you said, then sometimes you have to make a decision to stop using it as much, or stop coming on here for a while

i hope you achieve whatever it is you want to

good luck

best wishes

and everything.. else.

:nice:

:kiss:

p.s; i will miss you :cry2:

from your aussie friend hahaha

:cool:

:sad: Bye Julia, I can see where you are comin' from and completely understand, you'll probably never read this. You are a great asset to the forums, goodbye :sad:

Ok............I decided not to LEAVE this place......

to come sometimes....I will try.....and if it doesn't work...(the thing with my time) THEN I'll leave it!

 

Arrrggghhhh...................shit......now.....exactly the thing happened I didn't want to do....I just confused you!:angry:

 

I'll come here when I HAVE to do something at the Computer!

 

I'm so so sorry to confuse you!

 

wow....and Emre did you write this story?

hello Jules

why don't you do something like what i did jules

put it in your sig in big writing that you will not be using it much

i've put it there in mine, because personally it stops me from going on this website more than i should. :cool:

Hey this is cool......

but I don't understand all of what you wrote there!

In the sig I mean!

ahh well i'm not using the internet much because of the HSC this year (the final exam you sit at the end of high school) and yeah. it's important and stuff. haha i mean it determines what university you go to next year. so it's a pretty big deal.

so what i wrote in my sig just means that i won't be using coldplaying much this year because of my exams.

i suggest you do something similar, because it will make you want to use it less if you see it there in your sig in big writing.

it would be there i guess to help you control yourself using it.

it's all to do with your will power jules!

if you sit down and seriously tell yourself "i'm going to achieve these goals" and if you really want it that bad, then you will realise that you must sacrifice things like too much time on the internet, etc to achieve these goals!

you know?

tell yourself you can do it. and you will do it.

it's amazing what willpower can do for you

:cool:

Oh yeah....I understand that....good idea....I will do it.....

And this morning I did something what I'm proud of.....I did sports instead of sitting in front of the Computer......

and I'm really determined to achieve my goals!

:thinking:

so you choose the birds :P yea i did write it...anyway..welcome back :-)

See you later, I actually might be doing the same thing soon.

ohh, that's so sad Julia!!! :cry:

 

I really hope you achieve to find what you're looking for... I completely understand this feeling that you have, when you say that you're losing some precious time of your life when you could go out and doing other things instead of being here... 'cause the same happened to me some time ago, I was too obsessed in this forum, as well, but now I don't feel like that anymore.

 

I absolutely understand that you're not able to come here only for 5minutes, 'cause theoretically, in the beginning, you wanna be here for a short time, but then... you always spend more time that you would like to. However, I wish to talk to you pretty soon, that you come back here just for saying us that you've reached all you aims (that would be great!), be sure that we'll miss you all this time you won't come here! :nice:

 

I wish you all the good luck, sweet Julia, kisses :kiss: :kiss: :kiss:

 

 

Goodbye :bigcry: :heart:

Oh yeah....I understand that....good idea....I will do it.....

And this morning I did something what I'm proud of.....I did sports instead of sitting in front of the Computer......

and I'm really determined to achieve my goals!

good good good good good!!!!!!!

see.

ALL IT TAKES IS WILL POWER

it's all in your head

tell yourself you can do it

and you can!

the amount of things that have changed because i suddenly realised "heyy... i can do this" is unimaginable!

good on you.

continue, and keep this up.

:cool:

erm :thinking: you changed the name of the thread??