Its just a shit feeling, isnt it? When you dont feel like certain people care about you because you're always the one trying, and they never seem to return the effort.

 

I'm feeling it with my best friend, and a girl who is a friend yet has been more then a friend.

 

With my best buddy I saw him quite a bit earlier this week, and since then I've called him but hes not in (Which is fine) but its the fact he doesnt return my calls or texts.

 

And with the girl, yeah, shes probably gone to sleep by now and she hasnt responded to my email, yet again. I'm also always the one who calls and texts her.

 

And it begins to feel like, if I never contacted them, would they even contact me, ever?

 

Its weird because there are other people who are actually trying to get my attention lately and I'm being nice about it, but its like, those who are really important to me, just arent caring much. Its felt like this for quite a while.

 

Diddums.

I hate being the one trying. Whenever I hit a rough patch with my friends I always try to break the ice, not making jokes but just talking to them when there's an unforgiving silence...and nothing. They just nod, smile and continue to be quiet (or talking between them for that matter, I'm not involved in the conversation).

hahahahaha

I always surprise myself here

 

... I'm not making fun of you

I just know exactly how it feels

that's how most of my reationships are, in fact

 

but I don't really know what to say

If I can say anything at all

well, i know what you're talking about

 

i went to my friend's house with another friend yesterday and then when we wanted to leave they said something like:"yeah, we'll meet tomorrow then" to one another

 

the thing is that we're bessie mates

those are my two best friends and they didn't even invite me to their "thing"

still don't know what they're gonna do today

When people have been nice with me and I've had no great interest in them, I was probably the person Reilly describes. Though his position is of a good friend, some people just consider you a good friend meantime you don't. When I am that person I do no think I'm being "mean" or nasty; most of the time I don't even realise it until an outsider points the fact to me.

 

My point is that they probably don't even know that things bothers you or how much it does. At least that has happened to me quite offen... I just underestimate people's reactions.

 

let's hope that makes sense!

I have a similar situation with a good friend of mine. It sucks and it hurts and eventually I think I'm just not going to care at all.

I do too. Perhaps we're all sent to this forum or something lol.

Last night I was out with a load of people, and felt like I was the one making an effort to start conversations. Noone seemed to care...I guess this could be to do with us all being drunk. :rolleyes: but all of these people never seem to contact me...its always the other way round, me organising things for them. bahhh! Theyre all such lazy buggers.

 

You think...ok I will just ignore them like they are to me...but then I dont wanna act like they are acting either. Sometimes I cant work out some of my "friends".:\ I mean I have my two or three best friends who I know I can totally trust...but all of the others...I wish there was some way of knowing if they actually do like me or if they just dont even care either way lol!!!!:confused:

I do too. Perhaps we're all sent to this forum or something lol.

 

Hahaha Coldplaying is the colony for us, types.

 

This thread has turned out to be so depressing (I know it wasnt ever going to be happy but JEESE)

How come we're all ignored?

At least we have each other *group hug*

I don't think we are ignored

we just don't get the atention we expect

or when we want it

lol..yeah

Me and moosie are talking about this topic somewhat on MSN haha....he didn't even see this thread.

I'm usually the other one. The one that puts no effort in.

At least we have each other *group hug*

 

Ah god, thanks for the most depressing comment of the night

 

Hahahahahaha

Haha, want some whine with that cheese?

dont be a jerk briggs but yea thats weird i was talking about this earlier

Haha' date=' want some whine with that cheese?[/quote']

 

I'll have some foreskin cheese!

 

Ancelotta.

Gross

 

 

I'll stick with my chedder.

I'm hoping right now that I don't know what you are talking about.

 

Dear God I'm hoping.

im probably glad that i dont know that you dont know what you are talking about

Oh you know what we are talking about.

:freak:

lol yes i do :rolleyes:

Now thas wha Im talkin bout