Are you any good at it? Are you scared when people do it?

 

Its difficult, this. I've seen people really fuck it up by going overboard. Talking about nipples and sex cheese isnt flirting, its just public perversion.

 

I'm an good flirter, however (!) and this was always my problem, I don't know when to step it up from flirting to getting action so ultimately some girls just think I'm a flirty friend. Which is way gheeey.

To be honest....

 

I think I flirt a lot in my life...but I never notice it!:confused:

You tease! :shocked3:

hahha...maybe I'm totally wrong and I've never flirted in my life...

umm... personally i think i'm not a good flirting person... :embarassed: :shame:

I'm quite a good at flirting when I don't really mean it... i mean... when I'm talking to girls that I don't really intend to flirt with and I talk about interesting stuff and they like it...

 

when I'm interested in the girl I blow everything!!!

Hahah I sometimes blow it too when I'm interested. I overthink what Im saying, and try to be overly brilliant and HILARIOUS, it becomes obvious pretty quickly and then I have to start digging myself out of a hole.

i really dont know if im a good flirt or not, but from what u know about my stories (this is meant for reilleo), u say im a tease... :laugh4::laugh4: but i dont consider myself one... :uhoh:

 

but i think i do know how to flirt... usually...

Actually i think my problem is that I suck most at flirting with guys I'm interested in...because I'm too shy....or maybe this is wrong again....

I think people around me are better at judging this....

 

I think about this sometimes....I'm confused,,....

well, the best way to flirt is to be yourself... the problem is that sometimes we want to impress the other person and everything goes wrong... simply because we're not being ourselves...

well' date=' the best way to flirt is to be yourself... the problem is that sometimes we want to impress the other person and everything goes wrong... simply because we're not being ourselves...[/quote']

 

 

Exactly!

 

haha.....i think this is my biggest problem...

although i realised one thing:

if there are people/guys I feel awkward being alone with.....because I don't know what to talk with them......

then it is senseless for me to try it anyways....

 

so maybe I do not really flirt because I think I never really met a guy who shared my interests....:dozey:

 

hah.....I've just realised that I had the best conversations with those guys who were maybe 5 and more years older than me and who were already taken...:thinking:

Nooo, I'm too shy to flirt.

I'm still stuck with the childish method of being mean and abusive to any female I talk to. It has quite a decent success rate to be honest though

^^ hahahahaha... sometimes im mean to guys i like too... but usually its just my defence mechanism when ppl are making fun of us and stuff... most guys dont care, they just use it as drama material to try to convince me to be nicer...

I've never had a date...I can't be good at flirting,right? I suck

I think I'm one of those people that always seems like they're flirting. I tend to talk to guys more anyway, but I'm never really trying to flirt with anybody. I think I'm doing it unconsciously. xP

 

So I'm not that good because I don't try. o.o

I belive I do it quite often :tongue:

 

Not that I want to date evry single guy I see, it's just in my nature haha :uhoh:

 

No, seriously, I don't flirt too hard, just a little bit.... And only if I like this person's appearance.

I've never had a date...I can't be good at flirting' date='right? I suck[/quote']

 

me too :D

I couldn't flirt even if i wanted to, i'm always expecting the guy to make the first move. Maybe the situation calls for a strategy change.

Aww Marry me

 

 

:P

 

I flirt sometimes , and i dont even noticed , i need to pay more attention heheh

yeeeesss. I flirt alot at work...not with co-workers, but with customers so that they open a credit card with us. Usually works.

 

I think you are a good flirt when you can do it subtle enough so that you know the limits between customers, co-workers, friends, new people, and the person you date.

 

Also, motives as well...when you can differentiate..and not pass these lines, then you are class A flirt.

umm... personally i think i'm not a good flirting person... :embarassed: :shame:

 

 

me neither. I terrible at it. Either I get all tongue tied or I end up looking like this ::wacko:

Erm.... I think I'm pretty good. I know what to say to certain people anyways.

 

I've been told I'm good at it anyways. I'm pretty funny which ALWAYS helps. :D

yeeeesss. I flirt alot at work...not with co-workers, but with customers so that they open a credit card with us. Usually works.

 

I think you are a good flirt when you can do it subtle enough so that you know the limits between customers, co-workers, friends, new people, and the person you date.

 

Also, motives as well...when you can differentiate..and not pass these lines, then you are class A flirt.

 

The funny thing is though, in a guys mind, flirting DEFINATELY means hot sweaty sex.

 

I was in the room once when Chandler Bing pointed this out one afternoon in a Greenwich apartment, New York. I cant remember exactly why I was there but Monica Gellar's argument is that she should be allowed to flirt if he is. But Chandler, (I cant actually remember how I know this guy, its weird) defended men everywhere by claiming that when a man flirts with a woman, hes just being playful and friendly, and the woman realises this. But when a woman flirts with a man, the man is thinking "Woah, yeah, she wants it, hoe yeah!"

 

Its true though. Obviously not if the girl is selling you credit cards, but if a girl I've just met in a neutral circumstance starts slipping in sly innuendo's around me and generally fooling around in a flirty fashion, Im definately thinking "Woah... hoe yeah!"

 

Wait a minute! That was a TV show :stunned:

me too :D

 

What?? But from the pictures I've seen, you're really cute. And I mean that in a non-flirtacious way. :D

 

For me, I've never been good at flirting when I try, but when I don't try, it seems to work better.