losing friends really sucks too. it actually hurts more than I thought it would

 

this one person who I knew a few years ago was really great friends with me for a really short while but I can't stand to talk to them after I got rejected "because they thought I was cool" Then apparently I wasn't cool enough. after that rejection I still can't really talk to them because I'm intimidated by them.

 

and I just felt rejected again by a friend just now anyway,

 

SO

 

I guess what people can give is whatever lovely details they want to rant about their last big friend or girlfriend / boyfriend rejection like me :blush: or not we can let this thread go to the dung heap of threads because it is depressing :wacko:

yep. losing friends sure sucks.... it sucks quite alot actually.

yeah it sucks.. I just had a fight with a friend. I think she hates me

 

 

I'm really really sad right now..

yup. losing friends definitely does suck. i've been best friends with this guy for years (literally, we grew up together) and recently we haven't been tight at all. I think i talk to him like once every 3 weeks or something. It's depressing. I have no idea what's happening in his life, and that sucks.

yea, that probably seems totally random but that was a girl I just saw today with her boyfriend who is like .5 meters taller than her. well, she was never my girlfriend but I thought she was going to be. She gave me some lies about why she didn't want to date me. I know why, she thought I was funny and she thought I was cool.

 

Saying you're sorry to someone is a very important thing I think. It's not that I would never forgive her otherwise. I just have no way of knowing she really cares. And I'll probably be intimidated by her for the rest of my life knowing her...

yeah.. it fuckin sucks how that happens where one fallout will change your reaction towards the person for the rest of the time you know each other.

:angry:

friends are the best :wacko:

too bad that some of them leave :sad:

but you can always find someone to be there for you and that's great :nice:

i sorta fought with my friend last night

 

well we just argued on the phone, and i hung up on her

but it was probably for the best, i was too mad and if i had kept talking things would have gotten worse

 

i'll probably call her later, she's probably still asleep

 

arguements between good friends are only natural :)

(cool) Friends rock. :D

 

Last night I kinda lost a lot of respect for 3 of my friends (who are... uh... my best friends) because I was at a birthday party and they were all looking staring at my friends laptop looking at porn. :rolleyes:

 

But uh, I'm friends with this one kid that I completely hated for a while that used to be my best friend who is now just my friend. :uhoh:

losing friend sucks

even he/she's the one you dont like

Well I reckon that sometimes people change so you might suddenly stop being best friends etc..

To be honest...I lost 2 friends in maybe the last 3 years....and no in these cases I can't say that it sucked....because I was the one who made an edn to these friendships....because i realised that we didn't "fit together" and I had this feeling in those friendships for a long time....mabe I made friends with them because I'm just too nice or something like that.....or I didn't know them well enough at the beginning....

 

fact is...they got on my nerves after some years.....that I even didn't want to have anything to do with them anymore.....so I had to make an end....

 

 

I'm sure I hurt them......I wasn't really hurt...

 

but however..I can imagine if someone doesn't want to be my friend anymore.....yes this would really suck!

Sometimes friends drfit away without even noticing until one day it hits you! :cry:

Sometimes friends drfit away without even noticing until one day it hits you! :cry:

 

Yeah, they do. I lost my best friend that I was friends with for about 6 years. We didnt have a fight or anything...we just drifted apart. And he lives 5 doors down from me! :\

I lost this really good friend who were my best friend for about 4 years...I used to hang out with zoe, that's her name, everyday until 8th grade when she and another girl in our class began to hang out with the cool kids in school, and I weren't cool enough for her I guess because I didn't smoke or care much about clothes, guys or make-up.

 

Then in 10th grade zoe moved to another town because of some trouble in her family and now we don't talk anymore :( they only times she contacts me is on msn when she wants to ask something, it's never because she want's to talk to me.

 

Last week she called and wanted to meet me and carolina, another friend, because she was coming to öregrund where carolina lives, to go to the dentist. :rolleyes: I went to carro's house to wait for zoe to arrive but then when that damn girl never showed up (she didn't call either) I went to another friend because I got sick of waiting and I was really mad at her...Two hours later zoe finaly showed up with the excuse that she had missed the bus but she didn't apologise for not calling :thinking: bitch :uneasy:

 

 

uhhh ok I'll shut up now :uhoh:

i lost so many good friends in my life, and only one of them was because of a fight.

Usually things like these happen between good friends because of different circumstances that lead to it.

I lost 2 good friends when i switched school, i still talk to them, but i cant really call them close

I lost a friend out of choice when i told her out relationship isnt healthy and i dont want us to be in touch. I know i hurt her, but i had to do it

I also lost a good friend last year, but that was because we both changed into really different ppl in the passing year and we drifted apart.

 

and im sure ill lose some of the good friends i have now. It's inevidable.

There are only the special few that stick. Like one of my really good friends has been my friend since we were toddlers. I know her my whole life

 

and the friend i fought with now, i know we'll work it out cause we always do. Because we have a healthy relationship

it looks like a lot of people lose friends because their friend makes more friends. but that could still be both friends' faults because the one making friends isn't really rejecting the other neccessarily... but if the other friend is anti-social then it probably won't work... so it goes both ways

losing friends really sucks too. it actually hurts more than I thought it would

 

 

and I just felt rejected again by a friend just now anyway,

 

SO

 

I guess what people can give is whatever lovely details they want to rant about their last big friend or girlfriend / boyfriend rejection like me :blush: or not we can let this thread go to the dung heap of threads because it is depressing :wacko:

 

Was that me?

 

 

Anyway, I've also lost a couple of friends as well. Some of them turned from ex-friends to enemies. The one that hurt me the most was this guy who was my close close friend or at least I thought we were. I even had a crush on him. We were more than just friends. I guess we got annoyed of each other. I started going out with someone else since we were just friends and he had someone else too. We got a little apart when we started dating other people but we were still close. After that he started saying some not very nice rumors about me and I kinda stopped talking to him. He apologized after I found out about the things he had said about me. We gave it another try to be friends but I couldn't even talk to him like I used to. I couldn't even stand it to look at him. There were some tears and sorrys but it was one thing after another. I couldn't take it anymore:\

^i tottaly understand your point!

 

it sucks to lose friends! and it sucks too when you want to forgive or forget something that they done but you can't!!! you take a long time to build confidence and then in just one moment everything falls apart, it's so sad :(

 

it sucks to lose friends! and it sucks too when you want to forgive or forget something that they done but you can't!!! you take a long time to build confidence and then in just one moment everything falls apart, it's so sad :(

 

absolutely..........:(