Hmm.. I honestly afraid of my dream.. Sometimes, if I'm in stress I feel like when I go to sleep at night, there's something creepy in my head... My dream's is like about near to death. I don't know why but it just sometimes to happen.... And that's weird :(

It depends how you mean. If you mean you'd like to die quick and painless as in, you wouldn't know that you were gonna die, then I'd disagree.

 

I'd rather I knew I was dying and I was in a little bit of pain just before I died, so my family and friends would know that I was much more restful in death. It'd make them feel better, because it's much better knowing your relative or friend died and is now in a more peaceful place, than thinking that they went so sudden.

 

I'm not sure if I would want to know I was going to die or not. I mean I would rather just die as an old man in my sleep. Sure it would make those who know/love me sad, but I think it would be easier on them then if they had to watch me suffer.

mmm...

 

leaving my girlfriend... i wih it won't happen

Agreed, I'm not afraid of spiders,bugs or whatever else, but losing someone is hard.. last night i was talking to my granny who's over 75 (she certainly doesn't act like one though, haha) and i just started to think that she's actually probably gonna die soon..or that she won't remember me after a few years..that's just sad. Happened with my other granny, she doesn't recognise her own son anymore, bah.

 

 

 

 

Yeah, some call me weird when i tell them i'd like to die in pain.

I don't mean to have my head chopped off or my legs and arms pulled off, nah.

But a bit of pain at least. It happens only once after all..and it's bye bye everything after that so what's the point to just die..in sleep or whatever.

But hey, that's just me

 

Man, have you ever seen someone die on a hospital? It's so fucking depressing and desperate and everything life stands as survival goes. It's knowing but it's also a moment of we've ran out of possibilities and everything that could have been done to save that person was done so I do understand what you are saying. It's a bit of a comfort..

i am afraid of getting old

Man, have you ever seen someone die on a hospital? It's so fucking depressing and desperate and everything life stands as survival goes. It's knowing but it's also a moment of we've ran out of possibilities and everything that could have been done to save that person was done so I do understand what you are saying. It's a bit of a comfort..

 

Yeah hospitals and nursing homes are depressing to walk threw. Just watching people losing their memory, senses, identity. It is a hard thing to watch. Its like an inbetween stage, just watching people who will die soon.

and im honestly afraid of getting into a car accident

and im honestly afraid of getting into a car accident

 

Sometimes I worry about that, it usually depends on who the driver is though.

Things I'm afraid of are, religion and marriage.

 

Religion because its so risky believing in one thing, because there are so many other things to believe in and when you really sit and think about it, its quite immense, because who knows if they are really believing in the right God/way. Whatever.

 

I think religion in general is pretentious, particularly the Christian religion. I could never distinguish if I only believed and "loved" God because I truly did, or because I feared hell. I guess thats one of the reasons I don't follow a religion.

It seems though that with most or any religion you are avoiding an unhappy afterlife, therefor your not genuinely believing in something.

If I'm believing in a God, I want to love that God, and be able to worship and feel genuine love for a God, and not have to question why I believe/love.

 

I guess if I had to say I was most comfortable in a religion, it would have to be Atheism. Only because I would rather nothing happen when I die, then have to face Hell or some kind of punishment.

Re-incarnation sounds comforting to me also for some reason.

I would honestly be reincarnated and have more lives till I reach Nirvana then get into Heaven or any of that.

Hard to explain.

 

I fear marriage because I kind of see it as a weakness.

I don't want to have to depend on a spouse for me to be happy or live a full, exciting life.

When I picture my ideal life 10 or 15 years from now, I picture me, with my own house, or apt, whatever, working as a Promotions Director for radio, being successful in my own terms, getting to travel, travel for culture and for music.

I feel like marriage would hold me back on what I want to do.

 

Another factor is that I don't want to compromise with another person, to have things the way I want them, such as the home I live in, or how its decorated, to little things like how I clean my house. Its pretty odd I know.

 

Maybe as I grow older, I will see the light.

I don't know.

I'm not naive enough to think my outlook won't change, but as of now, thats how I want things to go.

 

The whole dependency complex is weird to me, as I kind of am needy with friends.

heights,10 metres are enough for vertigo

interesting thread.

i've always been scared of sharks and spiders. those are the only 2 physical things that scare me. to be more indepth, i'm scared of not reaching my potential, as in never trying my best when it counts, especially when i know i can do way better than i usually do...if that makes any sense.

Man, have you ever seen someone die on a hospital? It's so fucking depressing and desperate and everything life stands as survival goes. It's knowing but it's also a moment of we've ran out of possibilities and everything that could have been done to save that person was done so I do understand what you are saying. It's a bit of a comfort..

 

 

Yup i have and i know what you mean. And that's not the way i want to die, i don't want to be in a hospital for weeks and then die.

If i could decided i'd die quickly but also feel something. But that's not really up to me, so

I fear marriage because I kind of see it as a weakness.

I don't want to have to depend on a spouse for me to be happy or live a full, exciting life.

When I picture my ideal life 10 or 15 years from now, I picture me, with my own house, or apt, whatever, working as a Promotions Director for radio, being successful in my own terms, getting to travel, travel for culture and for music.

I feel like marriage would hold me back on what I want to do.

 

why would you fear marriage?

 

just dont get married if that is how you feel about it.

Muppets :uhoh:

and all those kind of puppets

Man, have you ever seen someone die on a hospital? It's so fucking depressing and desperate and everything life stands as survival goes. It's knowing but it's also a moment of we've ran out of possibilities and everything that could have been done to save that person was done so I do understand what you are saying. It's a bit of a comfort..

 

 

I already have seen that too. It's scary. You notice how the person you knew so well, so alive became a kind of... a kind of "I dunno what".

You see her state getting worse each second that slips away.

That's something I don't wanna live anymore, neither see. That's why I don't visit relatives when they're in hospital. I'm scared, scared of hospitals.

 

Otherwise... I'm afraid of the future. Being a continuous worrier, I always try to forsee what can't be forseen. And as there's a part of "Unknown" in life, it always scares me, a bit, even when everything goes damn fine.

 

I'm afraid of getting old, as well. I mean, when I see people who are over 60 or 70.... it scares me, honestly, to be alive that long.

Don't ask me why, neither to explain that -because I couldn't...- but I fear this,truly.

why would you fear marriage?

 

just dont get married if that is how you feel about it.

 

I'm afraid of falling in love and getting married, when I feel so strongly against it.

I'm afraid of falling in love and getting married, when I feel so strongly against it.

 

Well if you feel so strongly about getting married, then don't do it!

It isn't compulsory!;)

Really a world without Retro

 

And

 

Spiders :rolleyes:

Well if you feel so strongly about getting married, then don't do it!

It isn't compulsory!;)

 

I know that, but anything can happen in the future.

I know it doesn't make sense to all of you, it makes sense in my head though.

failure, and spiders :rolleyes:

failure, and spiders :rolleyes:

 

Does Jenjie have to come to your rescue when there's a spider in the house, then?:rolleyes:

I'm afraid of falling in love and getting married, when I feel so strongly against it.

 

everybody changes there mind but right now i really dont think i ever wanna get married.

 

some of my friends already think about getting married and settling down and i find the thought of it quite scary. i mean most of them are in their early twenties.

 

i dont think its necessarily happens when you fall in love. well it hasnt happened to me.

everybody changes there mind but right now i really dont think i ever wanna get married.

 

some of my friends already think about getting married and settling down and i find the thought of it quite scary. i mean most of them are in their early twenties.

 

i dont think its necessarily happens when you fall in love. well it hasnt happened to me.

 

Marriage is completely unnecessary and is likely to die out in years to come.;)

I´m afraid of going to the school bathroom and forgetting to lock the door!:p

 

I´m afraid of ending my life alone and fat

 

I´m afraid of not living my dreams and being laught at by everyone who knows me:embarassed:

Marriage is completely unnecessary and is likely to die out in years to come.;)

 

i talked about this with my mum today because her friend's son [who is twenty] plans to get married. she said that young people feel more like they wanna settle down now than when she was at my age. thinking about the people i know i think she does have a point. i dont think its the same everywhere but i cant imagine its gonna die out anytime soon in switzerland.