I don't give a flying fuck what's "in" or "out". The most important thing should be that it's comfortable. Aside from that, just a hat that looks nice. Guys don't give a tit if Paris Hilton is wearing it or not.

^Thank you, Josh.

That's basically what I said, WHERE'S MY THANKS

 

I feel like I am being ignored today :(

 

*goes away to cut self*

Paris Hilton's style is bad and her clothes are ugly, I'm not even gonna lie.

 

 

edit: another cutter? THANK YOU NATHAN...

Paris Hilton's style is bad and her clothes are ugly, I'm not even gonna lie.

 

 

edit: another cutter? THANK YOU NATHAN...

 

Beside the point.

That's basically what I said, WHERE'S MY THANKS

 

I feel like I am being ignored today :(

 

*goes away to cut self*

 

Didn't see your post. :P

 

Here: Thank you, Nathan.

Nobody likes Paris Hilton. And i wonder why people ignore you Nathan...

I have....a question:

 

How girlish has a girl's style to be?

 

I have the impression that some of my flat mates think I do not like guys....like I am a lesbian!:stunned:

 

I mean....I have a casual style...jeans trousers and nice shirts (not basic simple shirts...). I soooo hate some guys for that. Seriously. It makes me think so much about this thing although I shouldn*t do that. I just feel more comfortable in sneakers and jeans than in skirts and high heels...and sneakers and jeans suit myself even better....but holy shit I am really upset right now, because they just showed me indirectly that I don't find a boyfriend because I'm not girly enough....and my personality is also not typical girly (like girly screaming, etc...):bigcry:

 

Argh I am really angry right now. I could cry.

 

I told them I am too picky....they laughed and said that boys are too picky....gosh...I hate them now...:angry:

^ seriously, your friends seem like a bunch of pricks most of the time.

I feel so bad right now. I know I shouldn't.

 

But this is the most sensitive topic for me. This is the reason why I do not dare to tell them anything when it comes to love things, because they only would make fun of me. I mean it is unusual that I haven't found someone, but it is not because I'm ugly or soemthing like that I think...it's because I always hated myself. Damn damn damn.

 

and I can*t change the fact that I just do not get to know anyone who I could be interested in. You can't force feelings to be there.

You have to looooove yourself, Julia, and you have a lot to love :nice:. And if you ask me, the first rule of loving yourself is saying SCREW WHAT EVERYONE ELSE THINKS. Just because you're flatmates are saying those things doesn't mean they're true or that you should take it to heart. As long as you like the things you wear and buy for whatever reason, it doesn't mean crap what everyone else thinks :D

^ i guess anyone can relate to your feelings, julia.

the thing is that i sometimes (most of the time) act like a total guy.

hahaha. no, for real. i don't have a high-pitched voice, i love formula one, i am sarcastic and i have a horrible sense of humour.

i'm not girly at all, which is probably why i dress like a total girly girl. if that makes sense...:inquisitive:

 

 

i must seem totally unattractive to most guys, but then again... i don't want most guys. i want that one special guy who understands me and loves me for who i am.

see, most people are small-minded and have a very dull personality and i wouldn't mind about them.

just be yourself and like yourself for who you are. love is not a competition. it's not about how many boyfriend you've had or will have. it's about being picky (at least in my opinon) because you're too good to give yourself away like that.

and if there's nobody you're attracted to atm, then so be it.

Julia, you should be you :kiss:

 

Because you rule :wacky:

see, most people are small-minded and have a very dull personality and i wouldn't mind about them.

just be yourself and like yourself for who you are. love is not a competition. it's not about how many boyfriend you've had or will have. it's about being picky (at least in my opinon) because you're too good to give yourself away like that.

and if there's nobody you're attracted to atm, then so be it.

 

+1 :D

I always took the things other people said about my looks too seriously...that's why I hate myself. I do not hate myself as much anymore as I used to, I mean actually I get more compliments than those bad things. But the bad things are stuck in my head of course. I never dared to wear dresses (that's why it felt so unusual to buy a dress some weeks ago..), because I thought people could make fun of me, because I wouldn*t look good in it...and maybe this is the reason why they think I am boyish or something like that...a thing do actually not really get, because I have a basic style just like most the girls I know. I want to get away from here. Seriously. gah

I just decieded one day I didnt care anymore :\

I understand also Julie...

I understand COMPLETELY :bigcry:

^ i guess anyone can relate to your feelings, julia.

the thing is that i sometimes (most of the time) act like a total guy.

hahaha. no, for real. i don't have a high-pitched voice, i love formula one, i am sarcastic and i have a horrible sense of humour.

i'm not girly at all, which is probably why i dress like a total girly girl. if that makes sense...:inquisitive:

 

 

i must seem totally unattractive to most guys, but then again... i don't want most guys. i want that one special guy who understands me and loves me for who i am.

see, most people are small-minded and have a very dull personality and i wouldn't mind about them.

just be yourself and like yourself for who you are. love is not a competition. it's not about how many boyfriend you've had or will have. it's about being picky (at least in my opinon) because you're too good to give yourself away like that.

and if there's nobody you're attracted to atm, then so be it.

 

THIS. People always think if you can't find someone you have to take just anyone! Just to show that you have a boyfriend. And for me it is so much more. Not just getting along and finding each other attractive. I'm always looking for that special one. And most guys I know are like my flat mates, which is not special but super dumb actually.

 

I never wantes to be one of those girlys who go to a discotheque just to find a guy there. That has never been my niveau. Probably this is why it is so hard for me to find someone, because I do not have a high opinion of meeting guys at parties when you're drunk and just make out with them and either regret it the other day or not.

I wish i could say something profound :\

Yeah! Screw the haters, I stopped caring what most of them say too, about a year ago I went to visit my aunt that I haven't seen in a long time, that first effin thing she said was "HI OH MY GOODNESS YOU GAINED SO MUCH WEIGHT MAYBE YOU SHOULD GO ON A DIET HAHAHAHAHA" and she started pinching my cheecks "Just looks at that " :dozey: I almost said "fuck you" I mean i love her, but you just don't say those things to people openly especially when my weight was about 100-105 pounds back then ughhhh

Oooh and how the conversation between me and my flat mates started was:

 

*"You can't touch this" in the background*

me: " Hahahahah at that party I danced Cha-Cha-Cha to this song with Peter. It was so funny":lol:

flat mate: " YOu love Peter"

Me: "Erm no!?"

flat mate: " Why don't you love Peter?"<<<in a tone like "You have to love him, because you obviously can't find someone"

Me: " Because he is not my type esp. his personality I wouldn't get along with him if we were together and I am too picky"

flat mate: " hahahahahahhahahahahaahaha....too picky. Yes I'd say guys are too picky"

 

Idiot.

 

and then the final was this joke:

 

flat mate: "Just be like the smiley. :)" It was a magnetic smiley on or fridge.

flat mate: "Ahhh well, at least the smiley has some force of attraction!Hahahahahahha" Because it can be stuck on the fridge.

 

It's one of the most ugly things to tell a girl. Seriously.

:dozey: Tell her the same thing I was about to tell my aunt...

Well actually just ignore her if you can :nice:

Her? My flat mates are boys...:bigcry:

really? :stunned: