julia, you should hang out with guys more. :D

not in the "it will get you a boyfriend" way. i mean, i've only got a handful of female friends and my closest friends are guys only. they'll make you feel a 100% more comfortable than girls and they're not as shallow as most girls.

in fact, i am afraid of girls because they'd only make me self-conscious and point out the bad things about me... :rolleyes:

 

 

::EDIT:: wooooops. just read your most recent post.

Wow.

haha yes...I was just about going to say that I hang out with guys most of the time...the only girl I hang out with is my best friend...

 

and if you are told these things by guys it actually hurts even more...

 

and my best friend tells me I am one of the beautiful women she knows...and she is a super honest person...oh my

I've seen pictures of you Julia, you are beautiful :wacky:

haha yes...I was just about going to say that I hang out with guys most of the time...the only girl I hang out with is my best friend...

 

and if you are told these things by guys it actually hurts even more...

 

and my best friend tells me I am one of the beautiful women she knows...and she is a super honest person...oh my

 

Your solution is quite the opposite of what that other person said. You should hang out with girls more. Guys don't want to approach a woman who's surrounded by guys, they'll think she's taken or they're her brothers or someone who's going to be overprotective.

erm, woah, i don't know what to say now.

of course, it hurts even more then even though it is not true.

oh merci Crests:wacko:

Grace, are you joking? You're shocked that sexist stereotypes aren't actually true all the time

 

SHOCK HORROR

Your solution is quite the opposite of what that other person said. You should hang out with girls more. Guys don't want to approach a woman who's surrounded by guys, they'll think she's taken or they're her brothers or someone who's going to be overprotective.

 

Hmmm I don't know...my best friend hangs out with the same guys like me and for her it always works...it is probably the way I act...I don't know...I'm often this "mate-like" girl...

Maybe she's just a different type of person... you should seriously try finding more girl friends.

Grace, are you joking? You're shocked that sexist stereotypes aren't actually true all the time

 

SHOCK HORROR

 

dude.

i was shocked because i didn't know her flatmates were guys.

of course, there are idiots among boys as well.

i mean, i get to meet great examples on this board all the time.

 

 

julia, sorry about my advice. :laugh3:

i couldn't have known. :dozey:

but different things work for different people and personally, it's difficult for me to find female friends.

and just a short comment on girls being surrounded by guys; come on, if that's a turn-off to most guys then i don't care because a real guys would eventually come up and talk no matter what.

I mean the whole thing though, you can't generalise a gender

^ yeah, i might have expressed my thoughts in a confusing way. sorry for that.

but i am very aware of the fact that not all women are evil and not all boys are angels.

I wasn't even saying that's what you were suggesting, ah never mind.

I do also think that it is hard to find female friends....they are so complicated most of the time...:sick:

 

ok, call me boyish...hahahaha..:wacky:

I do also think that it is hard to find female friends....they are so complicated most of the time...:sick:

 

ok, call me boyish...hahahaha..:wacky:

 

You're so right, women make no sense, you kind of just have to suck it up though, just like I have to suck it up if I ever want to get married.

^ that's true... we girls are really complicated... :disappointed:

Oh yeah boys are simple, fuck off.

Somebody has their undies in a wad :rolleyes:

Alrighty then...back to fashion... :rolleyes:

 

 

I got this at Target yesterday for $9 at the girls section. I didn't really like the stuff in the juniors section and I fell in love! It's great being small sometimes.

 

It has a bow on the neckline!

 

 

 

Don't let your eyes fool you...this is a lunch bag! :D It's insulated and all. I love that it looks like a purse.

not that i ever have any place to bring a lunch to, but if i did...i'd TOTALLY get that bag, it's adorable!

You don't eat lunch? What species are you?

Gracias. Chelsea. :D

^ awww. what a cute lunchbag.

too bad i never have lunch with me. hahaha. but i'd totally bring that to work if i prepared lunch! :)

I pack my dinner for work now and I hate using a paper bag because it's a waste. Plus this is cuter! :D