.. old :inquisitive:

 

I do. :confused:

 

i imagine myself in 4 years trying get a job and thinking to find the right girl..THAT sucks.

i'm not really ready for these goals..:thinking:

I am not even sure if I feel old....I do on the one hand but on the other I seriously don't...I still want to be that girl who can be as crazy as she wants...and act like a child sometimes....but then I think of the time after I have finished my apprenticeship...I want to have a family in some years (ok in something like 6 years haha...)----I do actually not even know what I want....and I don't even know I will ever find the right person to found a family with...:disappointed:

 

so it's not really a feeling of being old, but just a feeling of being immature and erm....confused...and the fact of getting older and other people telling me I should find someone sucks...it makes me feel rather unhappy and useless,.,....

 

oh god...I could write so much more now, because I think about my lame life 24 hours a day which sucks...I wonder when I will be happy

and this was not really the answer to the question...

.I want to have a family in some years (ok in something like 6 years haha...)----I do actually not even know what I want....and I don't even know I will ever find the right person to found a family with...:disappointed:

 

You should never set "time limits" for things like that, or you'll probably end up in a situation you'll later come to regret.;)

 

and the fact of getting older and other people telling me I should find someone sucks

 

You should never let others "tell" you what you "should" be doing in your life. It's none of their business.;)

You should only ever do things because you want to.;)

I wonder when I will be happy

 

You should be able to find "pockets" of happiness in things you do every day. If you "chase" happiness, you'll never find it.;)

I feel like an old kid.

I feel like an old kid.

 

:confused:

Sometimes

You should never set "time limits" for things like that, or you'll probably end up in a situation you'll later come to regret.;)

 

 

 

You should never let others "tell" you what you "should" be doing in your life. It's none of their business.;)

You should only ever do things because you want to.;)

 

but the society requires us some customs.. i mean if you are 30 and you're still with your parents or not married.. maybe some parents would ask you to move your ass or get a life/job. and then you would feel down.

.. old :inquisitive:

 

I do. :confused:

 

i imagine myself in 4 years trying get a job and thinking to find the right girl..THAT sucks.

i'm not really ready for these goals..:thinking:

 

Then do it in 5 years?

:confused:

 

What? :thinking:

Then do it in 5 years?

 

i wouldn't be able to even in 5 years..

Well, I don't know..

 

I feel alright. I used to feel like this before but now with Uni and all it's different. I don't have time to think about these things with Uni now tbh hehe, and all that is on my mind now when is this project due and when am I ever going to finish all this work and whatnot.

 

These feelings of "Man, I wonder what's it going to be like in a few years.." and being scared of the future come at times of having nothing to do for me. But when I'm occupied with stuff I'm pretty much meh about it, kinda like "whatever will be will be" (song refrence!)

 

I also remember before going into Uni and Architecture I was scared shitless. I had no idea what to do at all.. but then it happened, I just realised Architecture might suit me perfectly. I didn't have it planned at all.

 

But I do still have my doubts regarding it at times.. when you think of the work load there is to come.. man. I hear that Architects have the highest suicide rates amongst all the other majors too hehe.

 

But anyway, just relax and live it as it is. Things come around, trust me.

that question is a bit.... :wtf:

imagine you ask a kid when is like 4... do you feel a like a kid? .... obvious answer will be, i am a kid, right?....

 

we are getting old, kids become teens, teens become adults, adults become mature people and so on, is the normal thing.... another thing is our behaviour and plans...

 

for my behaviour some times i feel yet like a teen, but for my plans i'm more like a mature.

 

currently i've almost finished my degree, and i'm trying to find a job which no doubt is much more difficult thing than passing all my degree exams in a day. :dozey:

 

other things come as we grow and we'll decide what to do with them.... (as for instance getting a partner, form a family and all that...), we can decide what we do with our lives but we can't change the fact we get old...

I feel terrible.

Aww, Paulie!

that question is a bit.... :wtf:

imagine you ask a kid when is like 4... do you feel a like a kid? .... obvious answer will be, i am a kid, right?....

 

we are getting old, kids become teens, teens become adults, adults become mature people and so on, is the normal thing.... another thing is our behaviour and plans...

 

for my behaviour some times i feel yet like a teen, but for my plans i'm more like a mature.

 

currently i've almost finished my degree, and i'm trying to find a job which no doubt is much more difficult thing than passing all my degree exams in a day. :dozey:

 

other things come as we grow and we'll decide what to do with them.... (as for instance getting a partner, form a family and all that...), we can decide what we do with our lives but we can't change the fact we get old...

 

lets try to change that question..

how old are you and how old you feel ? you feel alright ?

 

But anyway, just relax and live it as it is. Things come around, trust me.

 

this! but sometimes I'm very scared about the future anyway. I hope I'll reach everything I want before I'm 30, I want to start a family then and hope I'll have a nice job/partner etc.

 

And well, I don't think we can do whatever we want at any age, it'd be unfair to have babies if we're too old for example.

but the society requires us some customs.. i mean if you are 30 and you're still with your parents or not married.. maybe some parents would ask you to move your ass or get a life/job. and then you would feel down.

 

Depends on the individual circumstances. Some people have no choice but to live with their parents because they can't afford to live anywhere else. That's not their fault.

Getting married or not is an individual's choice, and "society" has no right to dictate to anybody on that score.;)

i wouldn't be able to even in 5 years..

 

In my opinion you should just live on your life and hopefully those things will come to you. That's at least what i would have done.

this! anyway. I hope I'll reach everything I want before I'm 30, I want to start a family then and hope I'll have a nice job/partner etc.

 

thats exactly what i want ..;)

I hope I'll reach everything I want before I'm 30, I want to start a family then and hope I'll have a nice job/partner etc.

 

 

this!

yes. I think that we look at age in terms of the way we used to feel, and the way we feel now. So while I'm only 18, I remember how far away that seemed when I was 13, so the inevitable changes to our appearance and attitude keep us feeling old to ourselves.

lets try to change that question..

how old are you and how old you feel ? you feel alright ?

i'm 23, and i feel at times as if i were for instance 13 or 33... you see. ;)

 

it depends, one thing is how old we are and how do we feel is a different thing.

 

i feel good with my life now, it could be better i know, but don't that's what we try, to get a better life every day? ;)

 

i never rushed myself to get my goals (not of life nor academic), i took my time when i needed to (and i was able to take that time)...

 

the only thing i regret now is i think my parents should had made me get a job just when i turned 16, at least now i would have an experience and my job applications won't be refused just cause i have few experience. :dozey: but i can't change that now so...

man. I hear that Architects have the highest suicide rates amongst all the other majors too hehe.

 

Sounds like they're "architects" of their own doom!!:stunned: