They're doomed.

 

I mean you're really into a person but you're 18 years old. You're gonna grow up, mature, and change as a person.

 

It's not gonna last. 95 percent it's not gonna last. You put all your time into it, you put all your emotions into it. And one day it's just all gonna change, right? You're just not gonna feel the same and then its all over. Good times.

 

It's hopeless.

Well I suppose it gives you experience :disappointed:

 

What happened? :hug:

Nothing happened. I'm just pointing out FACTS.

I honestly don't know

 

I am a teenager in a relationship so can't really make a comment yet

:huh:

 

most my friends who had couples before they finished high school, they are not together now, others are.... but all them who used to share time together in class, have broken since they went to uni. :\

 

on the other side, the others are yet together (some them for more than 5 years now).

 

if both yet keep working for it, it should work, but well those couples i say, were a bit doomed since the begin, so just some changes was the excuse for them to break up.

Well, they'll probably not last a lifetime but that doesn't make them pointless. They're lovely as long as they last, right?

What I want to know is, what happened to your smelly "fume-mate"??:rolleyes:

this thread about teenagers in relationships created by a teenager gives me hope:blank:

Is it bad that i've never been in one?

All the lads i know my age are either

immature or gay. :laugh4:

 

I'm good friends with a group of people,

they have basically all gone out with each other and

now because of that,

they're starting to drift apart as a group.

Is it bad that i've never been in one?

All the lads i know my age are either

immature or gay. :laugh4:

 

 

............................or a combination of both??:P

............................or a combination of both??:P

 

like you??? :P

 

 

 

 

 

 

haha just pickin

like you??? :P

 

 

 

 

 

 

haha just pickin

 

.....................a fight?

 

:lol:

............................or a combination of both??:P

:thinking:

One of them.

 

We were joking about it last night,

saying we would have relationships.

but they're all gay or ....greg. ( greg is weirdish ...? nice but... )

:P

This is slightly depressing.

 

Plus I don't have a halloween constume.

 

What the fuck is my life.

They're doomed.

 

I mean you're really into a person but you're 18 years old. You're gonna grow up, mature, and change as a person.

 

It's not gonna last. 95 percent it's not gonna last. You put all your time into it, you put all your emotions into it. And one day it's just all gonna change, right? You're just not gonna feel the same and then its all over. Good times.

 

It's hopeless.

Relationships end later, too. It's not like they don't end if the lovers are 20+.

 

And they are beautiful if the two persons really love each other even though they know that they'll break up sometime.

 

 

I mean no offence but this is similar to saying "I won't eat now because I'll get hungry again after a while anyway."

Yeah. But it's a bit of a depressing thought knowing that what you think you have is gonna be gone and it's most likely inevitable.

That's why you try to enjoy the moment. :)

Yeaaaaa having someone who loves you and cares about you is SUCH a waste of time. It's SO pointless to have someone who you can talk to about anything, because chances are things won't work out in the end.

 

Worst argument ever.

It's not a waste of time. I wouldn't actually break up with someone over this thought. Why would you? You have to live day by day.

 

I'm just saying its a shitty thought looking at the future. Especially cause you feel like you'll last but reality says you probably won't. It's hard to think about is all.

It really depends on the people involved. If it's two people who are only sexually attracted to each other then yea, it's not going to last. If it's two people who actually have genuine feelings for each other then who knows?

 

It also helps you with figuring out what kind of traits you're looking for in a partner. A person who's been in a few good relationships is going to have a lot easier time finding someone to marry than a person who's never been in a relationship before.

.....................a fight?

 

:lol:

 

:lol:

It really depends on the people involved. If it's two people who are only sexually attracted to each other than yea, it's not going to last. If it's two people who actually have genuine feelings for each other then who knows?

 

It also helps you with figuring out what kind of traits you're looking for in a partner. A person who's been in a few good relationships is going to have a lot easier time finding someone to marry than a person who's never been in a relationship before.

 

THIS

It really depends on the people involved. If it's two people who are only sexually attracted to each other then yea, it's not going to last. If it's two people who actually have genuine feelings for each other then who knows?

 

It also helps you with figuring out what kind of traits you're looking for in a partner. A person who's been in a few good relationships is going to have a lot easier time finding someone to marry than a person who's never been in a relationship before.

 

That was a really excellent- and very true- argument, Josh.

 

Yes, it will most likely not last forever. Prospekt, you're very right about teenage relationships being hard to maintain, because you go through such major changes in the years between 17-25. You find out (or you start to at least) who you really are. But you can't dwell on the fact that it might end one day. You really just have to enjoy it while it lasts. And when it ends, even if it's really heart-breaking, you just have to look at it as a stepping stone to something else. Of course, that's hard to do while you're in the middle of it, but time helps that. :)

It's weird arguing/debating with Kiran because she's usually right...

this makes me sad...yet at the same time awkwardly happy :confused: