June 16, 201015 yr Author [sentimental, kind, thoughtful Josh] Oh and also, don't even go for a guy who doesn't like you for who you are, titties or no titties. [/sentimental, kind, thoughtful Josh] Heh... I'm a bit insane, so they'd get annoyed sometimes. But yes, I keep this in mind (even if looks are usually the first thing to get a guy's attention)
June 16, 201015 yr The most important is to feel good in your body... I'd say girls could get implants just if they are really annoyed by their small size and are like insanely obsessing over this
June 16, 201015 yr *first thought the thread! ...it lives !!! :D *second thought girls are never happy with everything about their body my boobs are too big too small i want straight hair i want wavy hair just deal with it and make it work
June 16, 201015 yr it's the same for guys too body issues wise or at least some guys the key thing is to work on being happy inside out. something like surgery is for gratification from somebody else. trying to change for another person, even if that person is none specific and simply the opposite sex this is not a good thing and as soon as you start trying to be something else you will find more and more flaws. the human body is a beautiful thing in all its forms and personality is what prevails. we all grow old and lose our attractiveness to an extent. if you are looking for something deeper than superficial simple physical then making such a massive change to your own body is a bad idea. on the other hand i had surgery so i can't talk :confused:
June 17, 201015 yr Author *second thought girls are never happy with everything about their body my boobs are too big too small i want straight hair i want wavy hair just deal with it and make it work Erm... you can't, really. Maybe if it was something like hair, sure. something like surgery is for gratification from somebody else. Lol, it's more like gratification for myself. I'm the one affected by it. Not anyone else, just me.
June 17, 201015 yr Lol, it's more like gratification for myself. I'm the one affected by it. Not anyone else, just me. true, and i understand you, but i'm guessing you feel so negative towards it because you feel unattractive to the opposite sex or different from the other girls around you. hopefully over the next few years you will be able to accept yourself and find somebody who likes you for both your body and your personality because people tend to care a lot less about other people's body than they do their own. for example i have a huge dislike for my body and i'm very self conscious, but when it comes to girls i get close to i like girls with all sorts of different body shapes and sizes. it's just about meeting the right person. there's a whole package and other peoples faults seem more palatable than your own.
June 18, 201015 yr Author It didn't make a snot of a difference when I was with someone who didn't care about it. I was still really self-conscious about it.
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