May 20, 201016 yr thanks. Thanks you all. It made me feel better :hug: the thing is you keep in contact with your friends as often as you all can, so the 'spirit' doesn't change that much. my friends and i try to meet all together at least twice a year, and as the years go is harder to organize it, as we are getting jobs and so on.
May 20, 201016 yr I bet something happened to you before. Either he's pretending to be a real badass or yeah, that.
May 20, 201016 yr Author the thing is you keep in contact with your friends as often as you all can, so the 'spirit' doesn't change that much. my friends and i try to meet all together at least twice a year, and as the years go is harder to organize it, as we are getting jobs and so on. It´s difficult to organize it according to everyone´s schedules, but it´s great to see them again
May 21, 201016 yr I still see some guys. But they are not like the kind of group that get together now. school is over and everyones thinks we should go on our own ways. Hey that´s not true. Friends do exist. But you´re right saying I shouldn´t miss them. I know how you feel! :hug: But when you get together it's like time just froze and you will laugh about things you did and said & make new memories and stuff.. sometimes things & other things get in the way so it's best to just enjoy it & live in the present :hug: You will buy it when you finally get divorced and start paying for child support. Although you might believe that friends do exist, you can make a self-analysis of your friendships and reach your own conclusions of whether they're real friends or not. Do they care about you as a whole person? Do they call you and keep in touch with you in your good and bad times? Do you trust them enough to tell them all of your problems and secrets? Would they give their lives to save yours? Those are real friends, which are pretty nonexistent as far as friendships go. "Fake Friends" are only present in your life for pure interest, they will only call you whenever they need something, and don't care for you as much as you might think. Next time you say friends exist, ask yourself whether they're real friends or not. Hmmmm...:thinking:
May 21, 201016 yr You will buy it when you finally get divorced and start paying for child support. Although you might believe that friends do exist, you can make a self-analysis of your friendships and reach your own conclusions of whether they're real friends or not. Do they care about you as a whole person? Do they call you and keep in touch with you in your good and bad times? Do you trust them enough to tell them all of your problems and secrets? Would they give their lives to save yours? Those are real friends, which are pretty nonexistent as far as friendships go. "Fake Friends" are only present in your life for pure interest, they will only call you whenever they need something, and don't care for you as much as you might think. Next time you say friends exist, ask yourself whether they're real friends or not. Is this whole thing just you trying to justify why you have no friends?
May 21, 201016 yr Is this whole thing just you trying to justify why you have no friends? I do have, but not real and loyal ones.
May 21, 201016 yr Author I know how you feel! :hug: But when you get together it's like time just froze and you will laugh about things you did and said & make new memories and stuff.. sometimes things & other things get in the way so it's best to just enjoy it & live in the present :hug: yes, its a great thing. Today I have a b-day party and Im seeing my school friends, after a long time without see them I do have, but not real and loyal ones. Why? Do you have any reasons to say that? Maybe you´re expecting to much from them and you think they are not so, but they are indeed
May 21, 201016 yr It´s difficult to organize it according to everyone´s schedules, but it´s great to see them again great to know that you can see each other often :) btw is it your first year at uni? non of your old friends are there?
May 21, 201016 yr I do have, but not real and loyal ones. So when someone else says they have a 'friend' you bring up this whole vague issue of exactly what a 'friend' is and what they should be, but you can say you have friends and that's just fine. Full.Of.It.
May 21, 201016 yr Why? Do you have any reasons to say that? Maybe you´re expecting to much from them and you think they are not so, but they are indeed It's not about what I expect from them, it's about the trust involved between each other in the friendship.
May 22, 201016 yr So I am gonna put this here cause it has to do with classmates. Me and my boyfriend went to play pool with some of our friends from university who also went to my highschool. These guys are super nice. Love them. But then some people from my high school showed up. Particularly this one guy who is just such a loser. Like I just wanna strangle this guy so bad. I don't even know where the hate stems from but man I wanna kill him. So yeah. Fucking loser. I wanted to cut his face.
May 22, 201016 yr I don't miss my classmates at all. We didn't have much in common and I think we were only friends with each other because we lived in a small village and didn't really know anyone else. I went to a class reunion a while ago and it was rather awkward. I didn't quite realise how much I've changed since I moved away. Anyway I'm sure you'll find a way to meet up if you do miss them a lot. I'd definitely try to keep in touch with the people who really matter to you.
May 22, 201016 yr Author great to know that you can see each other often :) btw is it your first year at uni? non of your old friends are there? Yes, it´s my first year, and one friend of mine is with me. but i miss the rest. anyway, at least I have on friend. the other classmates are dumb i guess. but i can´t judge them before knowing them It's not about what I expect from them, it's about the trust involved between each other in the friendship. auh, right. well, try to find people you can trust them I don't miss my classmates at all. We didn't have much in common and I think we were only friends with each other because we lived in a small village and didn't really know anyone else. I went to a class reunion a while ago and it was rather awkward. I didn't quite realise how much I've changed since I moved away. Anyway I'm sure you'll find a way to meet up if you do miss them a lot. I'd definitely try to keep in touch with the people who really matter to you. of course, I felt a bit bad with some of my classmates, but i miss the moments at school in general. I hope i can find new interesting people at the uni :)
May 17, 201313 yr Friends don't exist, and you shouldn't be missing them. Mature and face the reality of the world. :lol:
May 19, 201313 yr I don't remember if this is so, didn't he show up at someone's house once? (I remember who it was but don't feel like dragging other bullshit up)
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