Is it good to give a guy alcohol to see if he lies ? Has this ever worked as a truth serum ?

 

No, it's not like the guy starts revealing things he's been lying about... It just makes a person more honest. For instance, I revealed to a girl that I had a crush on her once when I was shitfaced at like 7am.

 

This.

 

 

And this. Not really from experience since I've only been drunk twice or something, but just from seeing other people (cough cough, hubby) when they've had too much to drink. The mental self-censor is stripped away and they say what they are really thinking. They might not remember it (what they said) later on, but it's the truth.

 

Yep, the mental self-censor analogy is spot on. We tend to say things that we've been meaning to say or that we'd like to say...

last time I said too much :lol:

I'm still shy and quiet when I'm drunk. o.o

we'll see :evil:

last time I said too much :lol:

 

what did you say?

let's stay in topic, this is about Jules :lol:

I think I get kind of touchy feely. :uhoh2:

let's stay in topic, this is about Jules :lol:

 

:lol:

 

way to avoid the question :P... I guess whatever it was it didn't go so well :(

no :(, I was with a guy I've liked for years now... and I said too much, that's all :P

no :(, I was with a guy I've liked for years now... and I said too much, that's all :P

 

ah that sucks :hug:

 

i've never done that, or have that happen to me... well yet :P

it's better that way :P

haha... unless it's mutal

I think I get kind of touchy feely. :uhoh2:

 

Sames :awesome:

I haven't read all the way through this but drunk people are often more compulsive so that is one thing to bare in mind. The best thing to do is to just communicate with them, and see if they meant it. Don't invest too much hope in it yet, but it has potential. Get to know them and see if you believe them. If they are liars then they are more likely to lie more when drunk. If they were compulsive and not acting as they normally would, but if they regret it then they should be straight with you. At least you will know.

 

Talk to him.

If they are liars then they are more likely to lie more when drunk.

I will have to respectfully disagree with you there. I think when they're drunk, liars will reveal what they've been lying about the whole time as their sober selves.

 

 

Talk to him.

Agreed.

I will have to respectfully disagree with you there. I think when they're drunk, liars will reveal what they've been lying about the whole time as their sober selves.

 

 

Agreed.

 

Sometimes, but if they want to sleep with you and are idiots and drunk (and decent enough liars), they will also have even less of a conscience.

nah I'm not hoping for anything actually....(just secretely in my dreams I guess haha), but my realistic mind doesn't....

I think I get kind of touchy feely. :uhoh2:

 

Lol, I do too...

 

I'll hug anything that moves.

 

People say it's cute.

 

But I'm quite embarrassed by it.

(just secretely in my dreams I guess haha)[/color], but my realistic mind doesn't....

 

= the truth

nah I'm not hoping for anything actually....(just secretely in my dreams I guess haha), but my realistic mind doesn't....

 

welcome in the club

I think you should go over at the beginning of the party and talk to him... Before he's majorly drunk.

 

There has to be something to it. That way you know for sure.

Julia it really sounds to me like he likes you. Whenever you have the chance to, you should go and speak to him as much as possible ! I mean, he wouldn't have been insisting on saying he likes you that much and everytime he sees you if he didn't mean it at least a little ! So basically FUCKING GO FOR IT :wacky: wacky: !!! haha

 

What she said.

 

It does seem like he really likes you, and maybe he's a bit shy so being drunk gives him extra confidence, I hope something good works out for you:).

haha nah it's ok I can tell you:

 

First of all I've grown up in an area of villages where everyone kinda "knows" each other (at least their names)....spring/summer is usually the time where there are some parties going on and you meet mainly people from your area....

 

so last year there was one of these parties going on and it was late at night and there were only around 10 people left having fun and dancing outside while the sun was rising (hahaha)....including me and that guy who I've always considered as kinda cool and who I always wanted to talk to before, but I've always been too shy I think or I never really got the chance...so, he came over to me and started talking to me saying hi and stuff....later the other ones left, him and me went home together and he was asking me, another girl and another guy to come over to his flat just to hang out a bit...it was so good, because we had some pretty good conversations and I liked his views on things and before that other girl and me went home (at 10am in the morning) he told me that he likes my views on things and he liked those conversations we had and I am pretty cool and he likes me....

 

so, some days later there was another party going on and we were kinda tipsy again and he came over to me and told me again that I am one of the coolest people he has met around here and all that stuff

 

 

some weeks later there was another party and he went home with a friend of him and asked me if I wanted to go with them (but I said no for some reason haha)...so he kissed me on the cheek and they went away

 

 

last night there was one of the first parties around here this year and he had a football match and when he and his team came to the party they were all pretty drunk....and once again I was too shy to go over to him and start to talk to him, because I wasn't sure if he remembers how cool it was last year (ok why shouldn't he?:wacky:)....but then he started talking to me and told me once again that he likes me and I said that I hope he remembers that he's been telling me this since he was pretty drunk, but he said he really means it.

 

and then my sister, two other guys, him and me went home together (in my sister's car) and we brought him home and I brought him to his flat (because yeah fuck he was that drunk and he had a bag to carry....:wacky:) and he was asking me to stay, but I said I can't and gave him a hug (a pretty long one) and then that other guy came and we stayed some more minutes and he was telling that other guy what he thinks of me and that I am his Jules (I am not sure but I think he said something like "my Rock'n'Jules" haha) and he was asking me to stay again, but we had to go....so he asked me for a kiss and gave him that one on the cheek and then we went away...(I was kinda sober btw....)

 

I am just not sure if he does the same with other girls or if he really thinks I am hm kinda "special",....well what I know is that I am pretty different to the other girls around

 

I don't want to interpret too much in those things since he was drunk and since his situation is kinda difficult when it comes to relationships and that stuff (due to other reasons...I am not even sure if he has a girlfriend or not omg)......

 

But well usually I don't care too much about those things, but this time I just want to get to know him better and to hang out with him just because I feel like we could get along pretty well and we could have some good conversations

 

there is another party going on next weekend and I am pretty sure he is going to be there too....and I feel like I should go over to him and just talk to him....sometimes I feel like I act too "distanced" or "sceptical" which might make me appear like I don't really care about this.....but sometimes I am just not self-confident enough (esp. when it comes to people I like) and don't consider myself as too important...and I feel like I should take steps towards those people more esp. in this case, because there is no reason at all of not doing it I guess

 

 

 

(ok I am sorry, but THAT WAS MUCH:uhoh:)

 

 

Ohhhhhhh dear :hug:

 

 

Before you start getting attached and getting your heartbroken and disappointed and cry about it, find out whether he has a significant other or not and is interested in someone or has a crush on someone but it has to be you straight up asking him (not asking other people on who he likes, if he has a girlfriend or whatever). Some drunk guys will tell a girl they like them just to sleep around or not really mean anything by it. Some guys just think it's funny.

Soooo... has anything happened yet?