How do u know you love someone, or just have a crush on them ??/

Please help

ummm good question! :idea2:

 

i might have loved only one girl until now. i dunno. also. can't there be times when you have feelings for more than one person at the same time? :huh:

 

i guess u know ur in love when you find yourself not being able to do anything but think of her... :embarrased:

 

i dunno. what does a doofus like me know about love anyways.

I have that feeling all the time, thinking of this one girl I like all the time....That doesn't mean I'm in love with her. I don't know really, I've never been in love. :(

When you cant stop thinking about them 24-7 and you get butterflies anytime you see them...or maybe thats a crush :confused: I dunno, i wouldnt know how to diffrenciate between love and crushes. Ive never been in love :blush:

I guess i havent experienced life enough yet :rolleyes: lol

...I don't think about this one girl 24/7, just a lot.... And every time I see her, I just get like this feeling like "ohhhhh, there she is".

 

:embarrased:

yeah i can't stop thinking about this one guy in my class.

and i keep staring at him. :stunned: :embarrased:

If you're soul-mates :nice:

yep yep. i totally understand how that goes!

 

it's just hard to tell someone if it's love or just a crush or something else altogether. only you can decide for yourself. and plus, i am starting to think that 'love' is not something really very far off from oa 'crush' or something else. it's just one more step further. it's the commitment that you may/may not have that ultimately makes the difference. or else you'll keep thinking you just like someone and not love them...cuz you're afraid of committing to that one person.

:/

yep yep. i totally understand how that goes!

 

it's just hard to tell someone if it's love or just a crush or something else altogether. only you can decide for yourself. and plus, i am starting to think that 'love' is not something really very far off from oa 'crush' or something else. it's just one more step further. it's the commitment that you may/may not have that ultimately makes the difference. or else you'll keep thinking you just like someone and not love them...cuz you're afraid of committing to that one person.

:/

 

True and very deep :)

So whats this girl like then?

Why is it that all this talk about if you're in love with this person...if you only just think about them a lot? Wouldn't you have to be with them and fall in love to be in love with them technically?

 

Aww, Mandy, tell him. :D :cool: :)

HELLO! i wasn't the one who asked the question...it's the other dude! :rolleyes:

 

:P @ ya'll for still messing up between us two!

TwinForLife, not to worry...you're too young to be actually falling in love! lmao :lol: :lol:

 

that's def. just a crush, or an obsession or something like that! :P

Um...is 16 too young? :angry: :(

Aww, Mandy, tell him.

 

:huh:

 

being with them? you can be with someone without being there physically. but i see your point too. it's just very weird with this thing called love! you're on your own in that subject, and you can't learn it from others' experiences either! lol

 

Guy's Gal...you asking me about some girls i like?

what ur name musiclover (sometimes I get confused on who has stateted the post

I'm saying that maybe not even knowing them, or being with them and feeling like you're in love with them... How could that be?

yeah. if you don't know her, or never spent time with her, then i guess it's a different thing. may be something inside you wants to get to know her...?

and no, 16 is not too young, but it's still young. i mean...you've not been out there and seen the world yet...i dunno.

No, I haven't really...Or experienced love. I'm going to die alone probably goddammit!!! :(

me too! :(

I know I love my girlfriend when I feel ahsamed for even accidentally looking at another girl in a "sexual" way.

love is...

 

having a joint bank account :stunned:

HELLO! i wasn't the one who asked the question...it's the other dude! :rolleyes:

 

:P @ ya'll for still messing up between us two!

 

Hahaha, sorry its not my fault you have the same name :P

not at all! :P

howcome people don't confuse between Lifeisforliving, and Lifeisforliving_Amanda?? it's basically the same thing between me and the other guy! :P :D

I don't get confusies!

that's 'cuz you're super! :-) :smug: *hugs*