Cobalt

It depends on what you actually do with the break. If you actually work on the issues that are causing a problem and/or re-evaluate what the whole relationship means and how you want it to work etc etc it could be pretty beneficial. If one partner is gonna sit on their butt and not do anything about the issues though then you've got a problem.

Really? I must have missed it, wasn't following thread closely. I figured as much. I dunno, I guess I'm just having trouble dealing with being disappointed by the decisions made and other things. I appreciate that you are actually one of the few (if not only) mod(s) who actually try to talk to us without snarking.

Corrected. Of note, apparently mods reserve discretion to take action against things not expressly mentioned in rules (reasonable enough). I get you guys obviously have a lot on your plate and do manage to handle what must be at least tens of spambots per day as well as juggling news and multimedia but it is seriously starting to be constant balls-up regarding The Lounge. Stahp. If you could pass that link on Cyan Kat that would be lovely.

seriously - why couldn't someone have just posted "you can't post nathan's video here because he is banned and that would be breaking the rules" etc BEFORE it was posted. i mean i highly doubt from that response that you decided within that hour after it was posted to baleet the content, seeing as everyone knew it was being posted, it was said that it was going to be posted. hell, perhaps even PMing ainsley beforehand. what would have been so unreasonable about that? instead it was necessary to waste everyone's time and excitement in seeing their well-loved fellow ex-member again. what a joke. yet people wonder why loungers are not taking mods seriously anymore and are leaving. i also don't give two shits if i get in trouble for posting my dissatisfaction publicly because everybody knows this already.

I get that she *tried* to make some sort of commentary on the state of the pop industry while making fun of Robin Thicke and Miley Cyrus with the song... and I do kinda like it At the same time she has managed to do the exact same fucking thing Miley did with this video - reducing women of color to the background, to be scantily-clad while she dances at the forefront dressed more modestly... she basically shits on them with "Don't need to shake my ass for you, cause I've got a brain" and meanwhile they twerk furiously throughout the clip. Using them as a prop to objectify and this time also mock. Goddamnit. Also note the implication that you can't be smart and express your sexuality for someone else without being 'dumb' or something.

Dear Lily Allen

LOL. gib link

.... :embarrassed: *trudges off*

this thread is kinda depressing me if this is the level of comedy we enjoy now that said, BUTTSACKS

im missing something, was that guitar smashed on stage or...?

I have to agree, there are some really nice hidden gems there that get overlooked simply because they're not album tracks. This includes some of the alternates that are occasionally nicer than the final song in their own way.

pssssst which one is greg (i have a bad feeling its braddock oh my god i will be so embarassed if it is)

oh they were fun at the time before everyone started getting banned. but now when we see repeats it just genuinely disappoints me

I'm not sure how old Chloe is but it is near the end of the year exams for some of the higher year levels, let's just hope she's busy preparing and just hasn't had time to shoot us a message back. Though I would like to ask if anyone has messaged her/was it sent with a read receipt (if so, was it read or when was it read)/when they did so. I might send a gentle reminder over.

oh yeah i forgot to mention my work anxiety too that's a long list

so many good and interesting members gone ;-; i miss their presence on here dearly especially sara. goddamn i loved her posts

i feel so out of touch with these 'coldplaying trends' of 'changing names' maybe ill swap usernames with someone for shits and giggles, but I think josh already did that once

neat

let's see being alone forgetting all my loved ones forgetting something important somewhere and losing it medium and large bugs thunder lightning hail heavy rain can spook me when im at home and strong winds too, ptsd i guess electronics fucking up and electrocuting me (irony because im taking an IT course) failure i am a rather timid person

rudy would like to do the thing with me what is this i am feeling, i am not sure oh my god help

that is if i get it before then

help i keep venturing into this thread

i get that this is the language barrier most likely but can you imagine after sex your partner saying 'VERY WELL'

the last time i watched it it was LOL WE'RE BEATING UP THE MUM AND INSULTING HER BECAUSE THE DAD'S MAKING HER OUT TO BE AN ASS ON TV HAHAHAHAHA HAHAHAHA!!!! like how oblivious are you apparently this was funny to ex because 'it's just so over the top and ridiculous' HM

die the (possibly sad?) thing is i never really was 'with' anyone on here publicly in some cutesy way even when people considered me likeable oh well