Everything posted by Coldplay
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I have a problem (and answers to questions about having a neutral gender)
You are being overly sensitive; he said that sometimes gender identities are being described like rare diseases, they are not like rare diseases, they are described like rare diseases, go read it if you don't believe me Have you ever in your life been told that you couldn't classify yourself as asexual, or neutral gender? Why is this brought up? Not everyone who is debating with you wants your rights taken away, and oh my god I had the exact same argument with Fix40ClocksYellow2 or whatever his name was, I can't believe we're here again. This is just looking really hard for a reason to be offended by people, which, in the most politely put way possible, is what I think the bulk of this thread is about --- I have short hair and I like to dress fairly masculine and it's hard to go a day without someone calling me a butch, mistaking me for a boy, whatever. It hurts sometimes, because I want to be with someone one day and I feel like I can be really pretty and I choose not to be. But labeling and categorizing and subsectioning yourself doesn't help the problem, how can it possibly help. People are mean, they don't care. While I wouldn't say that all this stuff doesn't matter, I think it does to some extent, I mean look, people get bullied. A looot worse than my little anecdote, it's a laugh to even call it bullying compared to the stuff that happens to some people. And other people find comfort in all this because there's a word for who they really feel they are, so they feel less alone. And I think that telling her that she doesn't know what she's talking about because she's fourteen is absurd, like you know any better because you're three or four years older. But how is this a solution? If it's not a solution, it's a cry for attention. If someone on the street looks at you funny and you say 'HEY YOU KNOW NOTHING ABOUT THE MODERN CIVILIZED WORLD I AM NEUTRAL GENDER AND I AM NEUTROIS AND I LIKE TO BE CALLED THIS AND I AM THIS SEX BUT I AM THIS GENDER AND I AM SEXUALLY ATTRACTED TO THIS BUT ROMANTICALLY ATTRACTED TO THAT , but even though I said all that, I am COMPLETELY NORMAL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! AND I EXPECT YOU TO TREAT ME AS SUCH until I point out a mistake you made with a pronoun, because it's very disrespectful and you forgot for a second that I am completely unique for many reasons, by the way all of this is to help you better understand society because prior to this you were probably a close-minded fool who probably can't tell the difference between xe and hir :snobby:', are you really changing society? Are you really making the people who respect you, respect you even more? And are you really making the people who love to put you down give a damn about what you said and start respecting you? That humorous little thing there was by the way not an attack on you, but based on experiences I've had with many people my age I mean I respect you sweetie and you're really smart but what's going on here
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My mom put some fuschia crap around the lining of my throat it's 3 A.M. I can't sleep because of the
Earlier this week my mom caught the fever or cold or idk do I look like I have a medical degree Well she started out with a sore throat and coughing a little bit, and her temperature was a little bit higher than normal, and then it got worse, to the point where she couldn't even stand up to go to work (and the poor woman goes to work under nearly any circumstance as she owns a little shop) But she got over it, and then I caught it from her, but it wasn't nearly as bad, I had the sore throat the first day and since then my voice is a little funny and I cough occasionally but I'm sure if I take enough of those damned big red pills it will go away by the end of the week well yeah that's what I thought So anyway, today I walk home from school and I get to my mom's flower shop and inside, there's a really strong smell of flower spray paint everywhere (there are some deranged imbeciles out there that think that sending a pretty vase of red roses to their wife's work is inferior to spraying them in fucking tacky stripes of lime green, fuschia, and purple, and dipping them in a vat of glitter, but that's not the point). The point is that it always really bothers me and she never does this outside. It's a very small and claustrophobic little store, so it's not like the smell can be diffused. Whatever. At least I get to go home in a few hours. I get food for all the employees and I come back and she's spray painting again. The smell is even stronger than before. I walk up to her and the air all around her is hot pink and she's coughing and choking like, sorry, but an idiot. What did I just tell you? You've been really sick this week and you had nasal surgery recently. Why didn't you go outside? Why don't you wear a mask before doing this at least? Why? Too lazy, she says. Ok whatever. The smell gets to me and I start coughing to the point where I'm bright red and laying on the floor like the room is filled with smoke. This happens a lot today, with me and my mom. I'm offered like 2 tons of water, some tea, all sorts of pills and cough drops, none of them helped even a little bit. My sister didn't get it, I guess because her throat wasn't weakened by being sick, which is why I mentioned it. You can't cough like you have a giant piece of food lodged in your esophagus for 8 hours, it has to get out at one point. But I'm not sure if this will ever get out, because this is spray paint and it's designed to be water-proof and .. probably mucus-proof. I bet you the inside of my throat is bright fucking pink polka dots. Anyway I can't sleep, to be honest I think I'm actually having it worse than my mom, I've been coughing really violently all day and night, and I was having a really cool dream where I was at an amusement park eating ice-cream with Duran Duran so you have to help me or else I might never know how it ends :''( What do I do? Pills don't work, I'm not sick. Do I call a doctor tomorrow? What can he do about it? Do I need throat surgery?!?!!? Am I gonna DiE?!?!?!!?1/1!? 1
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The Coldplaying Scrapbook III
Will be shipped out on Saturday, Monday is worst case scenario :smiley:
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Waddup Peeps!
^ Basically that Hi, I used to have the username Dee. I too came back earlier this year and now I've been addicted to this waste of time for around nine months. feels bad man Welcome back.
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Your top 50 albums ever
so much love for 13 and since i left you :bliss:
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Your top 50 albums ever
This is cool Uhh we basically have the same list, seropusly we have a lot of music in common hahah EDIT: seropusly .... seropusly seropusly This is not in order, and not definitive, toooo much work. Just fifty albums I like
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How old are you all?
I think at one point I was the youngest in the entire forums, I was eleven jesus
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How old are you all?
You should make a thread for teens only
- TEENZ ONLY THREAD
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The Coldplaying Pub.
This is cool But those are all very strange shades of green My eyes are a deeper green, I guess it's not on the chart, well probably gonna die of cancer in six months
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I have a problem (and answers to questions about having a neutral gender)
Hey, :huh2: is mine the rest of you peasants can use :huh:
- How old are you all?
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Albums of the Year 2012 - Voting
idk I'm just bitter about everything
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Albums of the Year 2012 - Voting
Bland year for music, last year had a lot more to offer imo I'll try to get a list done within the next few weeks
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A Very Rezzy Thanksgiving
a very reilly thanksgiving
- A Very Rezzy Thanksgiving
- A Very Rezzy Thanksgiving
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How beautiful are you? ???!!?!?!??!?
It really should have a rotate feature like most other 'upload-your-face' sites
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How beautiful are you? ???!!?!?!??!?
And Joseph Merrick, otherwise known as The Elephant Man :smiley:
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How beautiful are you? ???!!?!?!??!?
Here's our good friend Chris Martin
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How beautiful are you? ???!!?!?!??!?
Stolen from another forum I frequent. This is according to, y'know, math and ...science ... http://www.anaface.com/ Let's see who's the first person who takes it too seriously
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A Very Rezzy Thanksgiving
i look like adriana lima, but a bit taller and curvier
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= Coldplay Record/CD Collectors' Thread =
I cannot believe someone would spend thousands of dollars just to put a few tracks on iTunes. I mean I get it, he's reselling it and probably making profit, but holy crap
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The 13th Mixtape Exchange - It's Review time.
That sucks, I'm sorry!
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Albums of the Year 2012 - Voting
Yeah, a higher rank gets more points.