well I just posted this and I want people to discuss it :P

 

People deny that they love each other just because they feel it's somehow wrong to love someone. I believe I have loved a lot of people in a sense' date=' but it didn't mean I was somehow doing something wrong. It's just a fact. Right now I don't know that I love love anyone like I used to because I haven't had the chance to share it like I used to. But I believe that one day it will happen again and maybe I'll love a few people, but it doesn't mean I'm doing anything wrong unless I literally do something wrong.[/quote']

 

stop pretending love is such a touchy thing. I have loved a few people and love in my opinion is genuinely caring for someone and hoping for their best. What is wrong with that? Why should I be afraid to talk about it, but some people feel it is a touchy thing.

 

Oh no, he loves me, crap... this is awful. :stunned: <the person that said that is an idiot. :lol: really

well I am gone, leave me lots of love :nice: :heart: :daisy:

I completely agree with you!

Sometimes people feel ashamed of expressing their feelings... but I think they shouldn't feel like this, because love the best feeling that the humans can have :)

 

Lots of love for you and every member from here:

:heart: :heart: :heart: :heart: :heart: :heart:

I agree with you for the most part, but I think that you have to be careful who you let have your love. Some people actually might not deserve it (sorry if that sounds bad, but it's true). But when I do love someone, I LOVE them in every possible way and they would have to do A LOT to change that. I am nothing, if I am not loyal. :D

I agree with all of you...

I'm agree too

Y'know you coulda just continued this in the 'Love topic' :P

 

But anyway, I cant believe everyone agrees with this, the first sentence in particular:

 

People deny that they love each other just because they feel it's somehow wrong to love someone.

 

Wha?! Thats not true at all. Not even sub-consciously.

 

I deny I love someone up until a certain point in the relationship when I'm sure that I really do love them, otherwise it's misleading and that's awful in such a situation. I have felt that I've loved a girl after only knowing her a few days or weeks but didnt tell her because I wasnt sure if it was genuine feelings, and when I looked back on it, no I didnt love her afterall.

 

I think the word 'Love' should be more sacred then applying it to lots of people, feeling positively about someone should be on different levels. Wishing the best for someone or enjoying their company for short periods of time just isnt enough for you to trust them wholeheartadly. There's a difference between those you like being around, and the few people in your life that can see your Bank Account pin number. Y'know?

 

At the end of the day, if the term "Love" gets thrown around for every person you like or dont mind, then they will invent a new word for those you especially "Love".

Oh my God Reilly took words right out of my... er... fingers.

 

Yeah, Love is a sacred thing. Its to do with trust, accepting a person for what they are, to fear losing them, to want to be with them. Forever. Theres a whole difference between love between, say, siblings, and between a couple.

 

I'll only ever say that I'm in love when I'm absolutely sure about it, because the last thing I want to do is to regret saying something and hurting someone in the end.

 

Make it special.

 

Only say you love a person when you're sure that he/she is the one you can picture growing old with. The one you're sure you'll never get sick of. The one you think is the most beautiful being on earth, warts and all.

:blush:

People deny that they love each other just because they feel it's somehow wrong to love someone.

 

Wha?! Thats not true at all. Not even sub-consciously.

but of course it is, otherwise I wouldn't have said it. I know this from personal experience. People are afraid to say they love someone. They want to think that they only love one person, and in a most might be telling the truth, but a lot of people are lying. I told someone I loved them one time, not meaning anything about it, not talking about this fake type of love that people talk about. I was just talking about friendship type and they got offended. People are afraid of admitting they love someone and get offended when someone loves them.

 

On the other hand this girl loved me in a different way than I loved her, in fact she loved me in a way that you might call real love and I didn't love her that way at all. Your type of love is passion, my type of love is real. But people get offended by the word.

 

Another thing I thought about is hate. I am embarassed to say I hate someone. I don't hate anyone right now, but I have hated people before with the same passion some people call love. But people deny that they've ever felt that feeling and I know they're lying. Everyone has felt hate, which to me is just the opposite of love, hoping that something bad will happen to someone.

lalalalalalalala

 

uhh... I didn't have enough time to really review what you said reilly, sorry, but I will come back later and look again :D thanks for the reply

Ahhh so you are talking about love for a friend, a guy friend Im guessing?

 

Dude's are a bit more protective about loving another guy, for some reason they think it's gay. They dont like being told they are loved by another guy, its a homophobic nature which is pretty childish.

 

But once again, it's not a phrase I'd throw around. I love one guy in my life, who's been a good friend for a while, but I wouldn't go around loving a lot of friends when really I dont know if I could trust them 100% completely.

no, this was a girl that loved me in the girlfriend boyfriend kind of way and I just loved her as a friend. I even told her that, but she was an idiot, and she was like Oh! Love, that is so wrong! and she wouldn't talk to me for a while, stupid girl. Anyway, she was one of the people I hated later on :anxious: I still really really don't like her.

People deny that they love each other just because they feel it's somehow wrong to love someone.

 

Wha?! Thats not true at all. Not even sub-consciously.

but of course it is, otherwise I wouldn't have said it. I know this from personal experience. People are afraid to say they love someone. They want to think that they only love one person, and in a most might be telling the truth, but a lot of people are lying. I told someone I loved them one time, not meaning anything about it, not talking about this fake type of love that people talk about. I was just talking about friendship type and they got offended. People are afraid of admitting they love someone and get offended when someone loves them.

 

On the other hand this girl loved me in a different way than I loved her, in fact she loved me in a way that you might call real love and I didn't love her that way at all. Your type of love is passion, my type of love is real. But people get offended by the word.

 

Another thing I thought about is hate. I am embarassed to say I hate someone. I don't hate anyone right now, but I have hated people before with the same passion some people call love. But people deny that they've ever felt that feeling and I know they're lying. Everyone has felt hate, which to me is just the opposite of love, hoping that something bad will happen to someone.

 

This response is kinda late, but i haven't been around in a while so..shove off! :angry:

 

 

anyway. I did not know there were people who thought that love is touchy or a touchy subject, either. I have hated before...

My answer is that EVERYONE is gonna die SOMETIME and you might as well be real while you LIVE and LOVE.

I think whenever anyone asks me a question, any freaking question...the root to all of my answers comes WE ALL DIE EVENTUALLY...seriously. I don't care why, but it always goes there...

 

Innocent kid: "Can we go to the store and pick up some milk right now?"

 

Me: "Sure, we might as well right now, because someone could run over you and oh, we all die eventually."

 

weellll not so simple as that..it actually involves a little more thought, but I can get to that conclusion with a few chains of though.

WTF!!!!!!

yup :smug:

who? you mean the girl should shove off?

things are starting to go downhill!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :angry:

no' date=' this was a girl that loved me in the girlfriend boyfriend kind of way and I just loved her as a friend. I even told her that, but she was an idiot, and she was like Oh! Love, that is so wrong! and she wouldn't talk to me for a while, stupid girl. Anyway, she was one of the people I hated later on :anxious: I still really really don't like her.[/quote']

 

Hahahahaha man that is the perfect example of why the word 'love' should be a sacred thing, how could you have loved her if she does one stupid thing and you end up hating her?

 

When I 'Love' someone it would take a hell of a lot for me to one day hate them or even stop loving them. This is exactly why Love should be a special thing. Obviously you just 'liked' that girl, the word 'love' should represent something much stronger then that.

anyway. I did not know there were people who thought that love is touchy or a touchy subject, either. I have hated before...

My answer is that EVERYONE is gonna die SOMETIME and you might as well be real while you LIVE and LOVE.

I think whenever anyone asks me a question, any freaking question...the root to all of my answers comes WE ALL DIE EVENTUALLY...seriously. I don't care why, but it always goes there...

 

Innocent kid: "Can we go to the store and pick up some milk right now?"

 

Me: "Sure, we might as well right now, because someone could run over you and oh, we all die eventually."

 

weellll not so simple as that..it actually involves a little more thought, but I can get to that conclusion with a few chains of though.

 

I dont want to upset you as you seem to get ANGREH ( :angry: ) so damn easily, but thats a ridiculous way of looking at life.

I don't plan on dying. :smug: