...Er, yep. I'm going to school tomorrow.

be good

Erm... Ok. I will try to. lmfaooo

 

 

 

Dude, I've got to admit. That was kind of random LMFAO

dude LOL were u from

I read all the post in this thread and I found a few of things in commom.

Parents in troubles,people who dont fit in the society,love problems,etc.

Everybody here are young people and it does not matter which counrty we live,the problems seems similar.

I dont want to say that I have bigger or minor problems.We all have problems,and like we are different people,the problems could have different solutions.

Post a reply saying that I can't deal with my problems,could be considered like way to call the attention,but I don't see the problem of posting.

Like this is a place in which I can post almost everything,I think is ok posting things about lifes.

Now the question is:

Why post my problems here?

There is too many answer,everyone of us could have one.

Maybe is beacuse I feel most comfortable talking here than other place.

Maybe I like the people here.

Maybe some people of here,has the same problem than me.

Maybe is the only place I can talk.

And we could continue asking us why.

 

Making a post and "complain" could not resolve our problems,but could give us a better perspective of them.

For example,you could ask me for an answer,maybe I could not give the things you should do,but I could give the things you should not do,Sound stupid but,is better than nothing.

 

Another thing is that we have to see the things we do now.

Why?

Simple,what we make or allow doing now, later will help us or harm us.

I know I sound like a dad or something like that,but my experience said me that this is a good advice.

 

And dont be ashamed of asking for help,that is the worst thing you can do.

dude LOL were u from

 

 

I'm from the east coast, in the USA.

 

 

 

Ryujiki, I agree. It is good to talk about things. It's better to talk about how to resolve them. I think that if you even feel mildly sad or scared, or whatever, then you should find someone you completely trust and confide in them. Preferably, in person (just talking about how you feel in a thread online isn't real help...). There COULD be some underlying cause to your problems. Perhaps a painful, childhood memory? Perhaps a chemical imbalance.

Im from the west coast in dublin

Awesome, I love Ireland. What a beautiful country. I'm heading out there this summer to go to a music festival. I'm psyched!

do you ever think about going on Dr Phil

There is not a manual that tell us the exact instructions of how to handle a problem.A problem could have differents answers.

Talking with people online could not be the best help,but if there is nothing more,I guess that in those cases everything helps.

A chemical imbalance?

I am not sure,could be but not in all the young people here.

A bad childhood?

That is a real possibility,but again it depends on the person.

Maybe we just like to complain.

coming to ireland weekend full of drink and drugs oh yeah

Nah, I don't think it's that people like to complain. People really do have geniune problems. A lot of times it can be due to a chemical imbalance in your mind. That's why medicine helps. It certainly has helped me. Or it could be due to trauma from childhood.

 

I certainly don't like to complain. Even though sometimes I do feel like a whiney bitch... I certainly hope I don't come across as whiney in this thread!

 

And yeah, talking online IS definately a form of comfort. I didn't mean to dismiss it so easily. But a lot of times talking to a professional is a great form of help.

 

It does always depend on the person, though. Different strokes for different folks!

 

 

lmfao. My mom jokes about us going on the Dr. Phil show all the time. I have a sort of messed up family. My aunt kicked my grandma out of her house a couple years ago, and she's been living with us. Basically the only family I have, I live with. Definately not a great environment. But they're all good people, so I'm alright. We always see DPhil do segments on big families living together, or the annoying mother in law, so we joke about going on and having him analyze us. But then again, my dad's a psychiatrist, so he should be able to do that any day! LMFAO!

anyone who says its that easy should be poked with a very sharp stick.

 

preferably numerous times :mellow:

 

hahha!! agreed!!! :kiss:

anyone who says its that easy should be poked with a very sharp stick.

thats why he is an egghead

ok.

 

first of all..i'll take my sig down cus i uppsets some ppl, and that wasn't my intention. this place brings some calm to my life and i want it to stay that way.

second of all.. i don't get all the grudging made by some ppl,cus on one hand you're judging how and is someone depressed, and on the other hand you're telling us that we don't even know what's deppresion and all..

 

you think i didn't think about it? look for it ? try to find out about it?

 

anyway i'm out.

I read the whole thread. It's so strange when you realise that people from all over the world struggle with kinda the same problems as you do.

An_cat, what you wrote is so moving(sorry for my poor vocabulary lol). I think I'm kinda the same.

I don't even know where to start my story. There would be so many things to stay. I really have no idea.

I never had the courage or intension or whatever to go to seek professional help. Because I think I'm depressed. I don't know how serious it is, but I think I am because it's been permanent for years now. Sometimes I'm ok, but sometimes I'm so not. And it's not a simple mood change because my bf left or cheated on me (because I don't have one, lol crappy joke, sorry)

 

What I'm trying to say is that I know something's going on with me I'm terrified of, becuase I feel that I cannot control it. And I think that's the most awful thing in your life(in mine, at least). When it's not you who's on top, and doesn't have any control. And usually I feel this way.

 

As I said I didn't go to see doctors. Partly because I hate the idea of having your life controlled by pills. Although I KNOW they often help.

And partly because I don't think I could talk about my problems to "professionals". And now I mean the things that I think really started the whole "low-mood" era in my life.

 

Oh, yes, you mentioned that you're ashamed of being depressed. That almost made me cry, it really did. I know it would sound stupid if I said you should not feel ashamed about it. But I truly think that.

 

I'm kinda open to talk about this. But I may be stupid to think that anyone is interested in my problems :/

 

I don't know... ignore me lol

I'm not depressed but I realised time ago I've fallen into semi-dark hole of loneliness and low self steem and I just got used to it...

I'm not depressed.......long time I wasn't......at the moment I feel like this

 

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strange somehow

On a train yesterday...listening to Warning Sign. Suddenly something just clicked in my head and I have felt incredibly low and sad ever since. Just the story the song is telling seems to be a parallel with my life. Being single, nothing in particular to look forward to right now, the time of year and too many other things to list. I am not normally the kind of person to get depressed but right now I just have no energy or desire to do anything at all. I mean ffs I am 17...I have a great bunch of friends and I have my life ahead of me but right now I couldn't care less. :cry:

im depressed... just needed to say coz i dont feel like talking about the reason

I'm not.....Its weird haha

I'm not depressed now but i will be very depressed tomorrow....im gonna need a drink adn i poured it all out...damn

Good for you,alchohol ruins brain and soul

Xadajoda, I can't thank you enough for the kind words. I know I shouldn't be ashamed of it, I can't help it that I'm this way. But a lot of times I notice how people will immediately segway conversations from depression to suicide. It makes me feel like if you're depressed you're immediately labeled emo, suicidal, crazy, etc ec. I'm not, I'm just not motivated and very sad a lot of times. Which, thankfully, hasn't happened in awhile.

 

Your vocabulary is fine, by the way. :)

 

I don't think anyone here was chastising anybody who says that they're depressed. I've noticed that there are different meanings to the word "depressed". Everybody here seems to have a slightly different interpretation. I guess to some it is the word they use to describe their low moods, their sadness. To me depression is a disease and a curse on my life. Sure, it makes me sad, but more often it makes me physically sick and dead inside. So I'm sorry if I came off a bit defensive and... bitchy about it all. We've all got different problems and it's not right for anyone to belittle anybody's. :) I hope that's not how I came across.