mhh .... i never told anyone bout that ... but my dad once beat up my mum (well a few times but not everyday ... prolly once in three years or something) ... he never raised his hand against me but ... you know ... i was always scared to leave her withm him when they had an arguement ...

but after the last time he said he won't do it ever again (my mum was about to sue him).

and now they wanna get divorced (they've said that so many times before and i'm so sick of it)

 

oh man..poor thing..

well do you think things would go better if they do get a divorce?

Awww poor you. I feel so bad for you. I wish i could help :(

my name's grace btw ...

my family is weird ... my dad is already old and retiree which means it wouldn't be that good for us when they get divorced (because of the finances)

my mum's working all day long and they don't even see each other that much ...

whatever ...i never felt they truly loved each other ... it was like:"oh,we gotta stay together for the kids"

mhh ... it's not like a family to me ... it's twisted ...but we have our good times ...

they're rare though

mhh .... i never told anyone bout that ... but my dad once beat up my mum (well a few times but not everyday ... prolly once in three years or something) ... he never raised his hand against me but ... you know ... i was always scared to leave her withm him when they had an arguement ...

but after the last time he said he won't do it ever again (my mum was about to sue him).

and now they wanna get divorced (they've said that so many times before and i'm so sick of it)

 

sorry to hear this,Grace :(

 

my parents divorced years ago (I was 5 then i think),so i can't really say what was wrong with their marriage...they never talk about it :/

they think they're staying for the kids, they have no idea how we feel about how they never talk to each other and the none stop arguing and fighting and how he gets really angry sometimes and beats her up, its just terrible.

 

i just wish i lived somewhere else.

they think they're staying for the kids, they have no idea how we feel about how they never talk to each other and the none stop arguing and fighting and how he gets really angry sometimes and beats her up, its just terrible.

 

i just wish i lived somewhere else.

 

come here! :nice:

my name's grace btw ...

my family is weird ... my dad is already old and retiree which means it wouldn't be that good for us when they get divorced (because of the finances)

my mum's working all day long and they don't even see each other that much ...

whatever ...i never felt they truly loved each other ... it was like:"oh,we gotta stay together for the kids"

mhh ... it's not like a family to me ... it's twisted ...but we have our good times ...

they're rare though

 

you have beautiful name.

that's so stupid, such a dumb situation. my father used to hit me and my sister when we would piss everyone in the house, but after that happen last summer and left a scar on my leg (this one was kinda accidental) he never ever tried to hit me nor my sister ever again, cus it shocked him what he did. it hurt me so much, i couldn't belive. i even think that my depression and everything regarding it started that day, just because the scar. don't know.

i kinda found out how to deal with all that ... whatever ...

 

the one thing that really made me depressed ...

there was this bloke i met and i really liked him a lot. i was so into him but he totally refused ... i was so down ... prolly for a year (which is quite stupid cause i'm so young ... ) +_+ i thought ... "well, i'm not lucky when it comes to my family but maybe i'm lucky when it comes to love" but i was so wrong

Areej :kiss:

my name's grace btw ...

my family is weird ... my dad is already old and retiree which means it wouldn't be that good for us when they get divorced (because of the finances)

my mum's working all day long and they don't even see each other that much ...

whatever ...i never felt they truly loved each other ... it was like:"oh,we gotta stay together for the kids"

mhh ... it's not like a family to me ... it's twisted ...but we have our good times ...

they're rare though

 

*hugs*

my problem feels so much smaller. i really really hope it works out for the best and don't be afraid to tell your parents how you feel, that's your right! and it's their job to make a good life for you and your family! :kiss:

i kinda found out how to deal with all that ... whatever ...

 

the one thing that really made me depressed ...

there was this bloke i met and i really liked him a lot. i was so into him but he totally refused ... i was so down ... prolly for a year (which is quite stupid cause i'm so young ... ) +_+ i thought ... "well, i'm not lucky when it comes to my family but maybe i'm lucky when it comes to love" but i was so wrong

 

i don't want to hear these sort of things coming from your mouth. don't ever say it.you know what..i always thought that, but after i got boyfriend i wished it all happened few years later.these things happen when you're least hopin to. how old are you?

you have beautiful name.

that's so stupid, such a dumb situation. my father used to hit me and my sister when we would piss everyone in the house, but after that happen last summer and left a scar on my leg (this one was kinda accidental) he never ever tried to hit me nor my sister ever again, cus it shocked him what he did. it hurt me so much, i couldn't belive. i even think that my depression and everything regarding it started that day, just because the scar. don't know.

thanks ;) what's your name? (i feel so stupid asking you this ... +_+)

whatever ...i didn't know about that.

sometimes i got the feeling that i hate my father but then again ... i can't hate a person. he's my flesh and blood ... hmm ... he never beat me up but to see all this anger in his eyes when he hit my mum ...

that was so hard ... i mean ... i always wanted to go between them but he was (of course) stronger and pushed me away

i don't want to hear these sort of things coming from your mouth. don't ever say it.you know what..i always thought that' date=' but after i got boyfriend i wished it all happened few years later.these things happen when you're least hopin to. how old are you?[/quote']

i'm only 15 ... +_+

 

__therese, i think that my problem's prolly as big to me as yours to you ;)

 

Areej, i sometimes just wanna die ... yeah, i wanna die ... i think about all those problems that will be gone then but then again ...

i think that only weak people wanna leave this planet by suicide

that thought kinda keeps me alive in an emotional way

Yeah, my problem seems so small compared to yours ..... if there's anything we can do, tell us :kiss:

well my father never hit my mother,it never, not even close came to that, you know that old fashioned way of teaching your kids? well it that aspect my dad was that like when it comes to hitting, nothing too much he just thought he would teach us better with it, still don't know what to think. cus my father is like..person i respect and love more than i don't know what.

my name is Zorana, as for hating your father-- it's that moment, the moment he hits your mother you feel this and it's normal.

count me in the club!! im depressed now, i wont see coldplay in years!! :bigcry:

my life has been a rollercoaster, ups and extreme downs...

Welcome !

surely you mean 'check in here' lol

 

 

I am a bit down myself today.. I said something stupid to this guy I fancy last night, and I haven't heard from him all day today... :( I think I may have fooooked things up... :bigcry:

 

*goes off into a corner to wimper*

I think I should join the club too b/c I just get depressed by reading those awful things.. loads of hugs to everyone:kiss::kiss:!! You need them..

thanks

its a great idea to have a depressed club, this way we know that we arent alone...that despite living in a beautiful world, there are still people like us, that go through so much.

My dear Camille..did you say something harsh or ?

 

Grace- stay strong.

welcome berrywoman!!

My dear Camille..did you say something harsh or ?

 

Grace- stay strong.

hey,thanks but you too ... i mean ... you opened this thread which means that you had your reasons ;) so ...

to all the depressed souls out there: move on :)

My dear Camille..did you say something harsh or ?

 

Grace- stay strong.

 

 

 

wasn't so much harsh.. just a topic that should've been left alone.. and I don't know why it even came up... the topic of 'ex's... :(

 

d'oh! *slaps forehead*