I dont have much more to say, just that, I've had my years of not knowing exactly who I am, and you'll find yourself.

So you act in the exact same manner around a long term best friend, as you would around someone you've just met?

 

Its not wrong to act differently, because if you dont know where to stand with someone, its better to open up your personality and become a little more bland or boring, you get to seek out what kind of person they are.

 

The different levels of friendships rely solely on comfort around someone, and its simply not comfortable enough sometimes to be yourself, thats ok I think.

 

Obviously there are situations which require a certain adaptability - but the only people who matter are those who accept you for who you are. They are the ones who are most likely to end up as true friends as opposed to temporary acquaintances!!

Well....actually i think I know who I am I'm just in the wrong environment.....this plac here is a special environment...

Well....actually i think I know who I am I'm just in the wrong environment.....this plac here is a special environment...

 

Yes - it's a "Kaff" environment, and you need to escape from it before it's too late!!:P

Yes - it's a "Kaff" environment' date=' and you need to escape from it before it's too late!!:P[/quote']

 

Yes...this is true....if i lived in a city i coild more be who i wanted to be...here almost everyone is the same....their world picture is very limited.....

typical village people (:lol:) are not that smart in my opinion...of cours there are some you can have intelligent conversations with....but the majority of the people has only one thing in mind:drinking beer and celebrating!

Yes...this is true....if i lived in a city i coild more be who i wanted to be...here almost everyone is the same....their world picture is very limited.....

typical village people (:lol:) are not that smart in my opinion...of cours there are some you can have intelligent conversations with....but the majority of the people has only one thing in mind:drinking beer and celebrating!

 

"Kaffers"!!

If anybody is acting particularly stupidly, you should say: "I think there's a village somewhere missing an idiot.":P

^haha.....they could move there...

^haha.....they could move there...

 

And it could be named "Doof Dorf"!!:P

I hate my third nipple...well its more i hate how it doesnt exist.

I hate my third nipple...well its more i hate how it doesnt exist.

 

Well I'm glad you got that off your chest!!:P

Well I like myself but I also dislike myself and the self-contradiction begins :laugh3: :shy:

 

I am natuarally a happy person and what I mean by that is that it could be the end of the world.. and I would still be smiling and laughing when disaster is knocking on my door and I like that. Other times.. I just accept everything else.. I guess you could say my "Destiny" whether is good or bad and start to go with the flow.. and I dislike that because it makes me think that everything badddddddddddd that happened to me.. makes me feel like I actually deserve it. It also makes me feel like I shouldn't laugh.. shouldn't smile.. shouldn't be happy and shouldn't nothing.. that I should just go with the flow with a straight face and see where it takes me and I dislike that. I refuse, refuse, REFUSE, REFUSE!!! To become a careless person who doesn't even care about themselves and to accept their destiny.. I REFUSE :angry:

 

This has very little with the topic but I also dislike people who suck off your energy or that they only like you because you make them laugh, they have a good time with you.. but if they don't do the same for you... then I am just wasting my time with them.. :dozey:

Well I'm glad you got that off your chest!!:P

 

yeah, ive been dyingto tell someone that for years.lol

Well I like myself but I also dislike myself and the self-contradiction begins :laugh3: :shy:

 

I am natuarally a happy person and what I mean by that is that it could be the end of the world.. and I would still be smiling and laughing when disaster is knocking on my door and I like that. Other times.. I just accept everything else.. I guess you could say my "Destiny" whether is good or bad and start to go with the flow.. and I dislike that because it makes me think that everything badddddddddddd that happened to me.. makes me feel like I actually deserve it. It also makes me feel like I shouldn't laugh.. shouldn't smile.. shouldn't be happy and shouldn't nothing.. that I should just go with the flow with a straight face and see where it takes me and I dislike that. I refuse, refuse, REFUSE, REFUSE!!! To become a careless person who doesn't even care about themselves and to accept their destiny.. I REFUSE :angry:

 

This has very little with the topic but I also dislike people who suck off your energy or that they only like you because you make them laugh, they have a good time with you.. but if they don't do the same for you... then I am just wasting my time with them.. :dozey:

 

They're called energy leeches!!:P

They're called energy leeches!!:P

 

Are they? Really? I didn't know they had a name :laugh3: :P Anyway, I hate the energy leeches!:angry:

Are they? Really? I didn't know they had a name :laugh3: :P Anyway' date=' I hate the energy leeches!:angry:[/quote']

 

Yes - you have to remove them before they suck you dry!!:P

Yes - you have to remove them before they suck you dry!!:P

 

Thanks for the advice.. I know it is not too late :P But fortunately I don't have any at the moment. Got rid of them.. well actually I still have one left.. but I just don't know how to tell them I don't want to be their friend.. :sick::dead::sick:

Thanks for the advice.. I know it is not too late :P But fortunately I don't have any at the moment. Got rid of them.. well actually I still have one left.. but I just don't know how to tell them I don't want to be their friend.. :sick::dead::sick:

 

Speak to Julia - she's an expert at that (after her experiences with Maria)!!:P

Speak to Julia - she's an expert at that (after her experiences with Maria)!!:P

 

 

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Speak to Julia - she's an expert at that (after her experiences with Maria)!!:P

 

Her annoying friend? :laugh3: Don't worry.. I will get rid of this person the only bad thing is that.. I might end up seeing them again at random places..:sick:

Her annoying friend? :laugh3: Don't worry.. I will get rid of this person the only bad thing is that.. I might end up seeing them again at random places..:sick:

 

As does Julia with Maria!!:P

As does Julia with Maria!!:P

 

How did that worked out? :idea2:

self loathing is self obsession, and that's rarely good.

How did that worked out? :idea2:

 

Fine. I think she got the message (finally)!!:P

self-loathing can be good, it can also lead to suicide

Fine. I think she got the message (finally)!!:P

 

well I was friends with this person a couple of years back... but I stopped talking to them.. and then I saw them at a friend's mom funeral.. and well I couldn't really say something like "Don't talk to me":sick: