Wellll that would kinda ruin the hypothetical theory of this question.

 

You either get:

 

1 or 2 friends that LOVE you and care about you deeply, as well as being able to just have a casual hang around.

 

OR-

 

20 friends who like you and enjoy your company, are good for being sociable and going out and doing stuff with. But wont individually have a major life changing effect on you.

 

And thats it, hypothetical. Out of 20 people, in practice, you'd definately find a few who you could get really close to, but in this theoretical question that possibility doesnt exist (And playing it by real life scenario is kind of cheating)

yep in that instance it doesnt

i wonder what sort of answers celebs would say,,,,compared to what they actually have

Today was one of those days when it really hits home just how totally shit some of your friends are, and that they really dont give much of a crap about you.:disappointed:

 

Doesn't feel too good. :( So I say quality, any day.

Quality, absolutely.

But sometimes also quantity:idea2:--> I know it´s difficult to find real friends but I also think that going out with people that maybe aren´t really your best friends may be cool anyway...I mean:sweatdrop:...it´s also cool hanging out with people that maybe aren´t really close to your charachter or your ideas! You can learn many things anyway...and having many friends means having lots of connections so that every time you may need something you can ask some of your acquaitance...I just think that´s important not to just stick to your best friends forever and maybe think"no, I don´t wanna stay with that person cause we don´t really understand each other":thinking:...know what I mean??:smug2::drunk:

Id probably say quality.....I have 2 or 3 friends who I know I can rely the majority of the time. Theyre usually there for me. but the larger group of friends I go out with, I find a lot of them extrememly fake...Ive tried to get to know some of them better but theyre just too self-centred. I find some of them ok on their own, but they just want to show off in large groups....insecure perhaps..I dunno. :\

Def. quality. You can have fun with anybody :dance: :p

defnately quality....i would only pick a few pf my friends that i would essentially choose to go out with and see in my own time

Ive tried to get to know some of them better but theyre just too self-centred.

 

I totally understand what you mean with that.

So like everybody else, quality.

Id probably say quality.....I have 2 or 3 friends who I know I can rely the majority of the time. Theyre usually there for me. but the larger group of friends I go out with' date=' I find a lot of them extrememly fake...Ive tried to get to know some of them better but theyre just too self-centred. I find some of them ok on their own, but they just want to show off in large groups....insecure perhaps..I dunno. :\[/quote']

 

I have the same sort of situation.

 

My best friend (who's more like my brother than anything) moved away, so although we speak on the phone most weeks, its very hard to have the relationship we used to. It kills us both to be apart, and I often get upset about it, but it's just the way it has to be. :cry:

 

I have one mate who is always there for me, no matter what, day or night...but she's away at uni...so it's also hard to see her when I need too. :(

 

Then the majority of people I work with//hang around with are quite fake most of the time, and I never quite know where I stand with them, and what I can/cant tell them. And they do the same - show off a lot when we are out and always have to be the centre of attention. I used to be really loud at school, and always happy, but because of the people I hang around with I can feel myself getting quieter and more reserved by the day, and I hate it.

 

I think i'd rather have just a few very close friends, than a whole load of friends that I barely know//they barely know me, any day.

i have i would say about.....3 or four people who i could have a chat about with anything..any woes....and i would feel comfortable in their presence etc.i have a group of about erm 5/6 people...and i can get on with each of them quite well....like a normal friend..but only a couple of them become great friends..if that makes any sense.but in general we are a pretty good group.my closet friend is going off to college....i hope i can stay in contact :(

id say quality cause i have trust issues and really only have a small group of close friends

im speaking from someone who has quantity over quality....dont go for quantity its not nearly as good as quality.