well at least im not a big fat hoebag:laugh3:

 

 

not big

not fat

and definitely not a hoebag...leave it to you to make assumptions about a love life you know nothing of, scum.

Hey! why r u saying hi to me in teh sex thread??:lol: :sneaky:

 

heehehehhe :D Just hi ani that's all.And i know you write every day in sex thread!!! who is randy ani?..:Dheheheh whatever maybe another thread Ani :P :P

Yeah, I never understood that "hit it and forget it" concept...never been there.

 

But I will urge you put a stop to it. Do you even know if you wore a condom! :shocked2:

 

Ive been really drunk before, I cant even remember the situation, but apparently I wouldnt without a condom. I cant see me ever doing it without one.

 

And also, putting a stop to it is kindof ridiculous concept to me, I cant imagine not getting completely drunkheaded on nights out. Its an unlikely prospect that sex comes into the equation, so Im not going to stop partying because of a situation that barely ever happens when Im in that state.

 

Maybe it did happen and that is why its akward. Poor her and shame on you

 

Hahaha! Why is it always the guys fault in this situation? Its not as if my penis fell in when she wasnt looking (If it did actually happen).

 

She was the one who started talking to me on the night, and she was way more forward, I had to catch up. Its just as much her fault as it is mine. Unless I did something stupid like telling her I like her a LOT which simply wouldnt be true.

 

Haha but yeah, again, its ridiculous (And sexist) to just assume the girl is always the victim. Its even worse how your probably thinking "Well if she did go for it, shes a slut, he was just being a guy" when girls have needs just like guys.

 

Bah, I give up.

heehehehhe :D Just hi ani that's all.And i know you write every day in sex thread!!! who is randy ani?..:Dheheheh whatever maybe another thread Ani :P :P

 

haha:lol: , its okay!! its really funny post in here....hehe

 

blablablaa!! Im boredd! and tiredd! I just wanna sleep, no sex tonight!:P

Ive been really drunk before, I cant even remember the situation, but apparently I wouldnt without a condom. I cant see me ever doing it without one.

 

And also, putting a stop to it is kindof ridiculous concept to me, I cant imagine not getting completely drunkheaded on nights out. Its an unlikely prospect that sex comes into the equation, so Im not going to stop partying because of a situation that barely ever happens when Im in that state.

 

 

 

Hahaha! Why is it always the guys fault in this situation? Its not as if my penis fell in when she wasnt looking (If it did actually happen).

 

She was the one who started talking to me on the night, and she was way more forward, I had to catch up. Its just as much her fault as it is mine. Unless I did something stupid like telling her I like her a LOT which simply wouldnt be true.

 

Haha but yeah, again, its ridiculous (And sexist) to just assume the girl is always the victim. Its even worse how your probably thinking "Well if she did go for it, shes a slut, he was just being a guy" when girls have needs just like guys.

 

Bah, I give up.

 

 

:laugh1: so cute!

 

anyway...well SHE'S the one who feels akward now..not you aparrently...fact: the more sensitive sex is female... so of course I feel her shame a bit more than I feel it for you...which i why I made the comment.

 

She's prolly all weirded out now because....

 

:idea2: maybeh she's pregnant! Riles is a daddeh!!!! Who knows if you were just too drunk to put on a rubber...or if she *gasps* slipped it offfff!!!!!

 

Riles is a daddeh!!!!! Little Reillies everywhere !!! :cheesy:

I'll try to ignore the fact that you appeared to go INSANE!!:!2 :freak: as that post veered off-course

 

If shes going to feel sensitive about it, she shouldnt have done it in the first place, she wasnt that drunk. Its the most annoying thing in the world when both parties agree that its just a one night thing on the night, and then the very next damn day shes acting so weird.

 

I'm very sensitive when it comes to sex. Sometimes I can have it with nosstrings attached if its with someone who is almost a stranger, but its been a while since Ive done that. I cant be too sensitive if I cant remember it!

 

So maybe its a shame for her, but I shouldnt feel ashamed. Let me recite a poem for you that sums up everything I am trying to get across to you, by the late Cherubina de Gabriak, (1887–1928), entitled "оно принимает 2" (Obviously I'll post the English transcribed version, which lyrically works just as nicely, genius):

 

HER: One can have a dream, baby

HIM: Two can make that dream so real

HER: One can talk about bein' in love

HIM: Two can say how it really feels

HER: One can wish upon a star

HIM: Two can make that wish come true, yeah

HER: One can stand alone in the dark

HIM: Two can make the light shine through

 

CHORUS (BOTH):

It takes two, baby

It takes two, baby

Me and you, just takes two

It takes two, baby

It takes two, baby

To make a dream come true, just takes two

 

HER: One can have a broken heart, livin' in misery

HIM: Two can really ease the pain like a perfect remedy

HER: One can be alone in a car, on a night like these all alone

HIM: Two can make just any place seem just like bein' at home

 

(chorus)

(instrumental)

 

Just takes two, just takes two

 

HER: One can go out to a movie, lookin' for a special treat

HIM: Two can make that single movie somethin' really kinda sweet

HER: One can take a walk in the moonlight, thinkin' that it's really nice

HIM: But two walkin' hand-in-hand is like addin' just a pinch of spice

 

(repeat chorus and fade)

 

Some of it goes a tad off course, but you get the idea.

I like this poem, it's really nice! :nice:

Haha, I agree.

O ho ho :cheesy:

 

 

I just want Reilly babies so bad! :bigcry: is that such a sin!!!!?

 

 

 

No, seriously. One night stands are really disgusting. They are for people that lead a life of pure pleasure. I like to keep my dignity as high as I can. Sure, I have had more than one partner in my life. . . but at least in those days, I really thought (if even that counts..)

 

I really thought I had sex with kind and mutual love. And it was all that...later on the break ups came. But that does not change the fact that AT THAT time...it was all for love and not just

"hey im piss drunk..who wants a ride ?"

 

and you both had a bit of blame..one for being overly promiscuous and the other for being to weak and delerious off drugs to keep his control in tact. Guess which you were?

 

Seriously, I think you're a really awesome man, with a good head on the shoulders, but the things you do to your body...make everything so contradictory, Reilly!

 

I think you know where drunken situations could lead you..and its funny how the subconscience knowledge hides in moments where actions can be taken.

 

Please lay off the one night stands because, I am sure this is not the first time you have suffered ugly consequences, Riles. They are dangerous not to one person, or even two...but quite possible a giant group of people.

awww!!:nice: :nice: nicee Rielly!

OThey are dangerous not to one person' date=' or even two...but quite possible a giant group of people.[/quote']

 

ORGY?! :freak:

 

Haha, I know what you mean, but I dont find one night stands to be DISGUSTING.

 

I find it a little bit silly that some people hold their absolute highest sense of dignity by the fact that someone penetrates their little pouch with their stupid dong.

 

Being above sexuality is a new kind of dignity, that only some very special lady's can truely pull off. They are very loose with their body but thats because they only acknowledge it as a tool for their power or enjoyment, really it is a very small part of life.

 

LOVE is not mechanical sex, thats different, its about more then enjoyment, but I'd be damned if all sex has to mean absolutely every heightened emotion to people.

 

It can be fun, too.

 

But I liked your post, thanks for calling me awesome, and you are right, I do screw up my body, I have little respect for it. The mind and soul are way more important, the body just chooses what parts to represent from them.

 

I'll only lay off the one night stands because they do nothing for me at the moment and theres a girl who probably wouldnt be happy with me for doing such things, but in future, if I feel its right, I can live with a more adventurous sex life and I just hope the other party knows the consequences (Which should be, very little).

not big

not fat

and definitely not a hoebag...leave it to you to make assumptions about a love life you know nothing of, scum.

 

sorry about that!

because to me its more than just a pouch and a dong Riles! :laugh1: ?

oh gawd so VULGAR....

 

anyway...it really is. I have alot in me and 75-80 percent is love.

I give my lovin what its called...love.

And its my pride, my dignity, my body, my feeling...you get all that and more in a session

(uhhh that sounds off ..but I know you understand)..

its more than just penetration and that.

 

I love that for ME, love does mean 'absolutely every heightened emotion'

it makes it all the more glorious Reilly.

If every session that I had...didn't leave me in an akward rut like that lady friend of yours, then what more can I ask for when it comes to sex?

 

Nothing...

 

So its fun, loving, and a high that cant be matched with any 200 orgasms you could recreate in a drunken stupor.

I won't take that statment back ever because I love when I get to the point in my mind where I am completly satisfied with what I have so far.

 

 

That was a witty thought..that your mind and soul are way more important...

but to this gal, having both at an equal level...means my corpse and the spirit that was once in it..

will be one I would be proud to look at would I ever be given the chance. If glory like that can be reached..if even in my very own mind.. I will have it.

Its all deeper than you have it set up in your mind Reilly. How I wish others could strive for that...

 

For Crystal, its like: If you can help it..then you are awesome.

sorry about that!

 

 

I will let that one slide, kid. But I will forewarn you that if you're gonna make comments like that about anyone..don't make it with me. You better know you will be postin about it in that regret thread floating around. :wink:

because to me its more than just a pouch and a dong Riles! :laugh1: ?

oh gawd so VULGAR....

 

anyway...it really is. I have alot in me and 75-80 percent is love.

I give my lovin what its called...love.

And its my pride, my dignity, my body, my feeling...you get all that and more in a session

(uhhh that sounds off ..but I know you understand)..

its more than just penetration and that.

 

I love that for ME, love does mean 'absolutely every heightened emotion'

it makes it all the more glorious Reilly.

If every session that I had...didn't leave me in an akward rut like that lady friend of yours, then what more can I ask for when it comes to sex?

 

Nothing...

 

So its fun, loving, and a high that cant be matched with any 200 orgasms you could recreate in a drunken stupor.

I won't take that statment back ever because I love when I get to the point in my mind where I am completly satisfied with what I have so far.

 

 

That was a witty thought..that your mind and soul are way more important...

but to this gal, having both at an equal level...means my corpse and the spirit that was once in it..

will be one I would be proud to look at would I ever be given the chance. If glory like that can be reached..if even in my very own mind.. I will have it.

Its all deeper than you have it set up in your mind Reilly. How I wish others could strive for that...

 

For Crystal, its like: If you can help it..then you are awesome.

 

This post was one gigantic waste of time! Because you didnt listen to a word I said (Or rather, as usual, decided to interpret things that I did not actually say)

 

Did I even compare meaningless drunken sex with love? At any point? No, Id never do that.

 

Love, to me, hurts sometimes, its awful. Maybe you are just experiencing it for the first time Crysto, but there have been 3 girls in my life that have left me hurt. Having sex with them is so emotional then when other things dont work out, it hurts too much.

 

If I could feel the pleasure of sharing love through sex at any given time, I would, but thats just not possible. You cant just pick that up on the street.

 

Random drunken sex can be fun, its not even a substitute for love, its a whole different kind of sex, its meaningless but feels good at the time, it doesnt emotionally exhaust you. Right now I'm a fairly content person, and I want a break from the hectic LOVE word which can screw me up, theres no reason I shouldnt be able to enjoy myself.

 

So in conclusion, your post, which was basically "Love is better then meaningless sex" (Stating the obvious award drum roll please!) doesnt dare look at the possibility of taking a break from love in your life. You may be feeling it at the moment, and fail to put yourself in other people's shoes. For me, I dont want or need love at this moment, and I still fail to see what is wrong with having fun sex.

 

You shouldnt even compare the two, because like I said, its two different worlds. LOVE means something so much different then casual sex, which is like eating peanuts to pass the time.

This post was one gigantic waste of time! Because you didnt listen to a word I said (Or rather, as usual, decided to interpret things that I did not actually say)

 

Did I even compare meaningless drunken sex with love? At any point? No, Id never do that.

 

Love, to me, hurts sometimes, its awful. Maybe you are just experiencing it for the first time Crysto, but there have been 3 girls in my life that have left me hurt. Having sex with them is so emotional then when other things dont work out, it hurts too much.

 

If I could feel the pleasure of sharing love through sex at any given time, I would, but thats just not possible. You cant just pick that up on the street.

 

Random drunken sex can be fun, its not even a substitute for love, its a whole different kind of sex, its meaningless but feels good at the time, it doesnt emotionally exhaust you. Right now I'm a fairly content person, and I want a break from the hectic LOVE word which can screw me up, theres no reason I shouldnt be able to enjoy myself.

 

So in conclusion, your post, which was basically "Love is better then meaningless sex" (Stating the obvious award drum roll please!) doesnt dare look at the possibility of taking a break from love in your life. You may be feeling it at the moment, and fail to put yourself in other people's shoes. For me, I dont want or need love at this moment, and I still fail to see what is wrong with having fun sex.

 

You shouldnt even compare the two, because like I said, its two different worlds. LOVE means something so much different then casual sex, which is like eating peanuts to pass the time.

 

 

O Reilly, but of course those two are like black and white! I only pointed out the obvious becuase I didn't know if you had understood, dear.

And I don't usually care to answer posts that riducule mine (useless awards )

But in your case, the pity I hold for you is a big things..be glad

 

I just hope you could settle down for once, and have those two colors come together ..black and white... because it would be sex, love and everything else in between!

 

I just don't understand how you could just go around finding new "pouches" when your drunk. KEEP TO ONE!!!

 

I mean, I know why you do it (one night stands) but why not try NOT doing it.

 

Why would I take a break from the love in my life..and have casual sex? Why, that is the weakest and most self answered questions my eyes have ever seen!

 

 

And if you don't see whats wrong with casual sex..the term itself should make ya wanna puke a little..is that there is no more self respect in you (sounds harsh,,may not be true..buts its what I get out of casual sex). I don't mean...save yourself...but if you're gonna be doing it...at least find that love of yours and beg her to be yours already...I know your song doesn't beg to differ with me now.

 

I know if you use a few more ounces of strength..you could think of other things to do than casual sex :wink:

Like I said, if my entire being and dignity and respect was summed up in whether or not I put my dick in someone I hardly know, well thats pretty shabby.

 

Of course I could think of other things to do besides casual sex, I just dont understand why I have to see it as something to avoid. I enjoy it, its fun, it feels nice, so does making a curry and eating it. Its a hobby like anything else!

 

Why would I take a break from the love in my life..and have casual sex? Why, that is the weakest and most self answered questions my eyes have ever seen!

 

That there shows just how much you cant relate to me. It also fits in with how I think the love you feel must be your first.

 

I wish you all the luck with it (Which is implied of course) but if the day comes when it doesnt work out, the pain there, is too much.

 

I believe you cant relate to me because its not as simple as just going to beg to someone that we have sex because I love them, you have to understand that its just not that easy. She is not my only love, Im not even sure if I do love her, there is another girl that I love so much that it drained my strength (Youve read all about it). And for the time being, I want to remain strong.

 

Love breaks down all your emotions and stretches them to their extremes. In a way, it can make you stronger then ever, and then in a heartbeat you are at your weakest and most vulnerable. I dont feel like being played around like that this summer, thats not going to stop me having sex.

As an add-on to why I cant beg her to see me again, is because I might hurt her. I've already lead her down the wrong roads, I dont want to make stupid promises that I cant keep, because I dont know if its true and everlasting love, I dont know if this is the one and I have a feeling that my feelings are a result of confusing and tampering meaningful sex that we had, which kindof heightened the emotions that werent actually, ever there.

 

I love her as a friend, I shouldnt feel like I need her in my life all of the time, but I do, because we screwed, and that leaves me feeling empty when shes not around. If we hadnt have had sex, I reckon I'd be fine, I wouldnt have to talk to her everyday and constantly write emails, she'd be just a friend, genuinely.

 

Because of that meaningful sex I'm very confused. When I'm focussed and concentrated I know how I see her in my life, but when I'm down or intoxicated (For example) and just not thinking straight, I think its love, when its not.

Like I said, if my entire being and dignity and respect was summed up in whether or not I put my dick in someone I hardly know, well thats pretty shabby.

 

Of course I could think of other things to do besides casual sex, I just dont understand why I have to see it as something to avoid. I enjoy it, its fun, it feels nice, so does making a curry and eating it. Its a hobby like anything else!

 

 

 

That there shows just how much you cant relate to me. It also fits in with how I think the love you feel must be your first.

 

I wish you all the luck with it (Which is implied of course) but if the day comes when it doesnt work out, the pain there, is too much.

 

I believe you cant relate to me because its not as simple as just going to beg to someone that we have sex because I love them, you have to understand that its just not that easy. She is not my only love, Im not even sure if I do love her, there is another girl that I love so much that it drained my strength (Youve read all about it). And for the time being, I want to remain strong.

 

Love breaks down all your emotions and stretches them to their extremes. In a way, it can make you stronger then ever, and then in a heartbeat you are at your weakest and most vulnerable. I dont feel like being played around like that this summer, thats not going to stop me having sex.

 

I may seem young...and it may seem that for that reason alone...this love is my first...I have had at least three major heart breaks resulting from this very topic. So maybe I can not relate with you (not for the amount of lovers) but because we do not share the same value in sex...

 

i would agree with that much.

 

 

then sex on, kid...is all I can say to one who loves the holes..

As an add-on to why I cant beg her to see me again' date=' is because I might hurt her. I've already lead her down the wrong roads, I dont want to make stupid promises that I cant keep, because I dont know if its true and everlasting love, I dont know if this is [i']the one[/i] and I have a feeling that my feelings are a result of confusing and tampering meaningful sex that we had, which kindof heightened the emotions that werent actually, ever there.

 

I love her as a friend, I shouldnt feel like I need her in my life all of the time, but I do, because we screwed, and that leaves me feeling empty when shes not around. If we hadnt have had sex, I reckon I'd be fine, I wouldnt have to talk to her everyday and constantly write emails, she'd be just a friend, genuinely.

 

Because of that meaningful sex I'm very confused. When I'm focussed and concentrated I know how I see her in my life, but when I'm down or intoxicated (For example) and just not thinking straight, I think its love, when its not.

 

Welll I suppose I will never be too sure on how to tell you that as long as you know whats right for the both of you, then keep on the road.

 

But don't ever let fear or uncertainty stop you from saying the things you think concerning this Subject L(ove)

 

I mean, who knows..maybe in another house, on another street, in another city..she is thinking the very things you are..or maybe better...maybe it will all end well..and I do wish the best for you (you've heard this spill already) no matter what these exchanges make you think (the worst in me, or least understanding of all)

 

But I will say..for the record. Daniel is not my first love..and could very well be a fourth..but for now..I wouldn't give him up for any other pleasure out there.

then sex on, kid...is all I can say to one who loves the holes..

 

Coulda said that before I wasted paragaphs upon paragraphs explaining how simple it really is.

 

But don't ever let fear or uncertainty stop you from saying the things you think concerning this Subject L(ove)

 

I mean, who knows..maybe in another house, on another street, in another city..she is thinking the very things you are..

 

I'm still convinced you do not listen to a word I say!

 

I told you I only feel I LOVE her when Im feeling weak and vulnerable. In reality, I dont. "She is thinking the very things you are..." ? So that would mean, it doesnt end in a love, just a friendship. Because thats the way that things could end well here.

 

Id never let fear stand in the way of telling someone I love them, but uncertainty is a very different matter. If Im not sure whether or not I love someone, Im definately not going to just come out and tell them I do, because they catch me on an off-moment. What happens from there is that I spend a HELL of a lot of time with them, we both make the effort to make this thing work, and then I discover I dont love her afterall, and shes left just hurt. Thats one cruel way to be.

 

She also has another boy in her life, she isnt dating him, but she may love him, maybe not right now, but some day. They are in different countries at the moment. I think he can promise her a lot more then I can, and he will mean it. There is no way I'd try to ruin that because of some childish feelings I have when Im alone or drunk, that would just be ridiculous.

 

I'm getting more and more past it everyday, I know at the end of the day its not love, I just get confused. And me being confused, leads to her being, very confused, thats just not ok.

 

But I will say..for the record. Daniel is not my first love..and could very well be a fourth..but for now..I wouldn't give him up for any other pleasure out there.

 

If you still (Somehow) think I was ever trying to convince you that casual sex could somehow be better then love, well, just stop thinking that.

I will and hey...Daniel, as of an hour ago..has just become that fourth.

 

 

For all who care an ounce...about strangers...

 

Daniel and I just officially split up.

 

Which prolly will explain for the down time I will be having. And why I don't answer you back, Riles (I am a bit weaker ..so quickly it is all happening!)

. I will say this incident has weakend me to bits...but still I will try to take everything in a lighthearted manner now. From now on until I am better.

 

 

I am single...what a scary thought that is ...shouldn't I be more upset?

:blush: we got back together .... he begged :blush: me ... how could I resist?

 

 

where are all the sex topics? :huh:

Im confused, you had sex and then split up?

 

Mega head screw.

hope this has not been asked before. whats the longest you've been without sex?