yeah i have the same idea as you, burningmonk (sorry, don't know your name)

 

i figure part of the joy in having someone special is finding them in the first place...

Yep, I feel that if I look for someone who has certain credentials, I won't be able to find them, so I'd just end up disappointed. (My names Mo btw)

oh boy... the last line of my last post is such a song line comment....

I've never really felt this feeling eventhough sometimes I'm not that far.

 

I don't have any girlfriend, but all the friends who are girls could be my girlfriends.

I should say "I didn't", cos in two weeks, i'll know if I will have one.

 

Although I was used to do that during years, Wait for love isn't a thing to do, act!

Sometimes, Love comes, knocking at your door. And sometimes, you come , knocking at Love' door...

It's so much better when it's unexpected, when Love comes out of nowhere, like an angel.

Sometimes, you don't realize that it's love. And many times I didn't realize that it was love... I missed so much opportunities... I don't wanna miss more...

 

As some coldplaying friends said, everyone can find someone.

If you seek, you'll find!

Well, you're right, the only way to achive anything in life is to act.Things don't happen on their own, take a chance, risk, seize the day, you only live once!!!

^ amen to that.

true love lives on lollipops and crisps

Twist your head around

It's all around you

All is full of love

All around you

All is full of love

You just aint receiving

All is full of love

Your phone is off the hook

All is full of love

Your doors are all shut

All is full of love!

 

:wacky:

 

:cry: :)

That song is so true...

True Love Waits

Oh Grace...I know this feeling to well I think...hehe....

but in the last weeks I didn't feel THAT bad about it.....somehow....

 

I think somewhere out in this world there is the right one for me....

 

haha.....I'm still really optimistic about that because I live in a village and I see the same persons everyday........so there is not a huge amount of choice......and somehow most of them are the same.....

 

so I'm looking forward to living in a city.......:P

That song is so true...

 

You have to trust it

Maybe not from the sources

You have poured yours

Maybe not from the directions

You are staring at

all is full of love

 

:wacky:

the problem with me is that i dont seem to meet too many guys i like or seem like there's potential for something more there.

yeah, it's the same with me.

thank you for all those lovely words!! :nice:

it kinda cheered me up! :)

and it's not that i want a relationship so bad... okay, who wouldn't, but i don't feeel any love AT ALL.

neither from my friends nor my parents...

it's weird.

i mean... what if i forget how to love someday just because i don't know what love is...?

^Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmm...................but there mst be just anybody who loves you...

 

Nah ok now I get what you mean....actually you know that your parents or your riends "love" you but they don't show it...

I love you Grace...

 

...wait that doesn't quite sound right :confused:

^ exactly.

they make feel like they wouldn't care, if i was gone.

I love you Grace...

...wait that doesn't quite sound right :confused:

hehe... :) in german we have two phrases

one's :"Ich habe dich lieb" <---- "i love you", but you say it to friends

and the real "i love you" = "Ich liebe dich"

If you seek, you'll find!

Well, you're right, the only way to achive anything in life is to act.Things don't happen on their own, take a chance, risk, seize the day, you only live once!!!

 

If you seek it more likely to find it, but it does not work that way for eveyrone.

Ahh shit.......I can understand you in some way.....I mean some onths ago I thought the same about my friends....

 

that they only cared about me when I was around them (eg at school...) and then during the holidays they don't even want to have anything to do with me....like no real friends......that brought me kinda down....I mean I felt like having no real friends.....and i never had real friends before.....they all exploited me...

so actually I'm searching the fault at myself....

 

but these holidays I've realised that they really care about me.......that made me happy.....since these days I'm a happier person......not that often sad or depressed anymore......:)

:nice: i'm happy for you, Julia!

but you know... i do everything for them. i often do them a favour... and do stuff they didn't even ask for.

i'm not a bum licker, but that's just what i'm like. i'm happy when i can help people and it always puts a smile on my face when my friends are happy...

they don't appreciate it though

Awww...hehe thanks Grace:kiss:

 

 

Ah I see....I'm a bit like that too....my problem only still is that I somehow feel like their shadow.....not "Ah Julia......the nice person...blablabla..." no somehow like "Ah Julia.....the one who is always with X and Y...but X and Y are much cooler".....that is annoying somehow...I mean if my friends are around I never can be like I really am.....because I feel like their shadow....:confused:

that's stupid....

 

Oh actually I wanted to say that I also am like that....I would do them every favour....try to be nice and sweet and stuff......but also not someone who licks their asses.......well....I think they only sometimes show me that they appreciate it.....that's enough then.....

 

 

well...maybe your friends appreciate it as well.....( but to be honest I only say this to cheer you up now...)...I don't know how they are.....but if you say so there must be something true in it.....because feelings are always expressed whether you want this or not.....and if they give a cold expression...then you see and feel that......:(

i wish i could at least be near the one i love...

:cry:

yeah, it's the same with me.

thank you for all those lovely words!! :nice:

it kinda cheered me up! :)

and it's not that i want a relationship so bad... okay, who wouldn't, but i don't feeel any love AT ALL.

neither from my friends nor my parents...

it's weird.

i mean... what if i forget how to love someday just because i don't know what love is...?

 

i dont think ppl always feel the love they have towards friends and family. It's just there. Kind of like when u fight with a sibling or a parent and then u think to yourself "I hate him/her", but u know you're just angry. You will always love your family. It's unconditional (well, in most cases)

i think that maybe you're just going through a rough stage in your life or something and you're feeling hopeless.

The most commen thing to say when you're hopeless is "Nobody loves me! I dont love anyone! Im all alone in the world"

 

but u know you're not....

whatever you're going through, it'll pass and things will get better in no time ;)